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Okay I see your point about pain. i agree about the self created suffering too. It’s like how the mind works it always finds a way to suffer even if circumstances are “good”. in what way do people deny the body and mind aspect of reality? Ofc it can’t be overlooked

Depends on the suffering. I just thought if it might teach me something. And make me stronger mentally if I go through it maybe. But that’s just me trying to have a positive attitude. how is pain healthy but the rest not? but yes in general suffering is unhealthy. I agree. Stress contributes to inflammation and all, it’s even unhealthy for the body

It’s not very confusing. I tend to separate between the absolute truth and relative truths to not get confused. yes I feel a sense of suffering at times. And I want to change it. The suffering is in a way healthy but still unpleasant. I’m trying to deal with it and seeking a way to change it. I’m going to therapy for example. but you gave a sound answer thanks.

@tuku747 why do you say “brains do not exist” it happened to catch my attention

That made me laugh for some reason. Does science say we are light or where does it come from ?

I don’t suffer mentally lately, and when I suffer physically it feels it’s independent of meaning applied to it. It just doesn’t feel good

What😅

That’s a way of seeing it yes

You wouldn’t say that if it came to life😂

I know right. We can’t help it but to constantly conceptualize things

One could perhaps listen to non dual talkers and see if it ever “rings a bell” and resonates. I wouldn’t follow one guru strictly.

Possible by like 0.1 % chance. lol maybe

Cool thanks for sharing

What I’m shooting for is dissolution of the self, if that’s possible. Whatever that entails: equanimity or whatever, “I’m” in for it

What do you mean “to make it non localized” ? thanks for sharing the info . I’ll see what I look into

Cool thanks for sharing. Im inspired by people like that young woman you mentioned who keep living despite horrible conditions. I’ve been having a rough time lately so it’s good to hear such examples. I tend to listen to myself mostly, but sometimes I like to ask others questions.

You got me. I might.

I’ll look into gurus. Thanks. im somewhat peaceful most of the time. It’s hard to accept suffering though. I don’t dwell on past, I would say I respond rather than react so I got those two down. It’s the embrace of the ugly aspects of life that is hard.

lol😂what’s your main point?

Maybe in the absolute sense

The lower the iq the higher the bliss or?

Sounds amazing

Yea I believe enlightenment is closer to the kind of neutrality I’m describing as opposed to a loud bliss (maybe in the beginning when it happens it’s so)

I’m somewhat peaceful a lot of the time

Don’t know what you mean