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That’s right now that u say it

@UnbornTao I’m surprised you didn’t tell him to “contemplate” 😂

Thanks 😂🙏🏻 I hope it could help

At the end of the day you can’t control how others respond to you, and women dont owe you anything that’s the cold truth. Sometimes just reminding yourself of the cold truth can be good, your anger is not helping you it’s doing nothing. So if you’re gonna be affected by what women think your internal world will go up and down all the time because as you say women’s reactions are like up and down cycle. Don’t compare me to Jung poor guy 😂

You seem too focused on the women. So if they respond well to you , you feel good, if they respond bad to you, you feel bad. I’d say the best you can do is to try to focus more on yourself, how you can improve yourself, in a way that feels authentic and aligned. When you are doing things for yourself you’ll feel good and when you feel secure in yourself others reactions won’t move you as much . Be wary of how you might deceive yourself , it has to be authentic can’t fake that confidence my silly psychoanalysis attempt 😂😂

It’s ok if you don’t know the real reason I was just wondering what you yourself thought the reason was so you tend to feel inferior and have low self esteem around those guys you consider “players”?

Yea but why? I was thinking your response to it would give a clue to what your problem might be but with that vague answer I’m not getting anywhere😂

I meant what do you think the reason is for them rejecting you? I don’t know

Why do you think they reject you?

That’s kinda what I thought too yea it’s like my diet kinda

What do you mean by this

What is the purpose of “learning game, pickup, and all these other valuable social skills. Becoming a world class charismatic“?

Ok

@Leo Gura so you came to the conclusion it’s the best diet for your health?

Ok👍🏻 I wrote in my journal hehe

I’d much much rather eat a great variety of veggies , tofu , legumes, nuts etc than just chicken and butter/cheese Healthwise veganism with a vide variety seems better than carnivore, then within veganism yes maybe higher fat is better. i tried once a low fiber diet, and then I binged on processed food once because I got cravings and got a massive reaction to it which I usually wouldn’t get, so I draw the conclusion that the lack of fiber fucked my gut so it made me sensitive. When I eat omnivore diet with plenty of fiber my gut is tough and can tolerate almost anything . Including binges ( I never binge anymore it was in my past). I’m thinking about writing a post about it

Are you sensitive to rest of foods?

Do you seriously think carnivore is better than vegan?

Yea for sure attraction can work like that

Agree although in some cases some guys only want superficial because of themselves regardless of the girl , I think yea it’s deep

I think I understand what you mean and id agree for the most part. So in simple terms the same guy wanting something superficial could want something deeper based on her value to him, which is based on her own “game” it’s an interesting topic indeed

I saw it that she mostly had problem with finding people who want something serious , so the people she finds are those who only want something superficial. That was what my response was based on. But maybe I was a bit wrong. But you mean that those same people could want something serious based on how she is, how they are attracted to her.

I’d say I agree, I only wrote about the first part, finding someone in first place which is only the first step ofc

You mean that is only the first step, finding someone, then the game begins between the two ?

I think there’s different components to this What you attract: I believe we attract people on somewhat our own “level” . So for example I like to use the example of a woman with low self esteem to illustrate this. We all have heard of some woman that keeps attracting “bad” men over and over. This is no coincidence. She attracts them in many cases because she herself has low self esteem etc, so they compliment her. So if you want to attract high quality partners you have to be high quality. And that you become by working on yourself, becoming secure in yourself, healing yourself etc what you are attracted to: it’s like a double edge sword. If you are like the woman in the example, not only will you ~attract~ “bad” men, but you will also ~be attracted to~ them. I belive we are attracted to people on somewhat or own level, or women might be attracted to men “above” them too. So if you become secure in yourself. If you evolve yourself and heal yourself, who you are attracted to will evolve too. The more high quality you become the more high quality who you’re attracted to become. You will not as easily recognize a high quality partner if you aren’t one yourself finding people: Ofc if you are home alone all the time no matter how high quality you are it’s gonna be harder to find someone so one has to go on a little search in most cases. I myself have tried dating app in the past but didn’t like it because it’s very looks based and it’s hard to know someone’s personality through swiping. And I didn’t find anyone I considered high quality the short time I was there. But it could work in some cases. You could find someone through social circle. In the club and bar at night (here I don’t find what I consider high quality either but in some cases it could work but I think it’s rare) you could also find people on this forum, or other Internet forums for people close to you with your interests. Or in irl activities etc. this is just my little take on this, but hey why would you listen to me when I have no irl experience hehe 😁😁just my own theories and observations