Sugarcoat

I’ll keep an eye out

@Schizophonia are you bringing non duality into this again eh😂

You put looks on pedestal. do you feel automatically more attracted to her if she’s physically hotter? Maybe you can’t deal with the intense attraction you’re feeling when she’s more hot physically. Some insecurity could block you from feeling confident in your attraction to her and owning it im speaking from my own experience of having in my past this crush whom I pedestalized (because of his personality) and couldn’t feel comfortable in my very intense attraction to him due to insecurity in myself. So it was like it was too strong attraction to deal with, maybe you can relate idk

@Buck Edwards that’s a good book👍🏻

That’s good it’s something at least. i don’t have a specific diagnosis yet

Can I ask you are the antidepressants helping ? I’m also on it

🤷🏻‍♀️ it’s up to you

You could start a thread if you want

Lmao what😂😂

That’s right now that u say it

@UnbornTao I’m surprised you didn’t tell him to “contemplate” 😂

Thanks 😂🙏🏻 I hope it could help

At the end of the day you can’t control how others respond to you, and women dont owe you anything that’s the cold truth. Sometimes just reminding yourself of the cold truth can be good, your anger is not helping you it’s doing nothing. So if you’re gonna be affected by what women think your internal world will go up and down all the time because as you say women’s reactions are like up and down cycle. Don’t compare me to Jung poor guy 😂

You seem too focused on the women. So if they respond well to you , you feel good, if they respond bad to you, you feel bad. I’d say the best you can do is to try to focus more on yourself, how you can improve yourself, in a way that feels authentic and aligned. When you are doing things for yourself you’ll feel good and when you feel secure in yourself others reactions won’t move you as much . Be wary of how you might deceive yourself , it has to be authentic can’t fake that confidence my silly psychoanalysis attempt 😂😂

It’s ok if you don’t know the real reason I was just wondering what you yourself thought the reason was so you tend to feel inferior and have low self esteem around those guys you consider “players”?

Yea but why? I was thinking your response to it would give a clue to what your problem might be but with that vague answer I’m not getting anywhere😂

I meant what do you think the reason is for them rejecting you? I don’t know

Why do you think they reject you?

That’s kinda what I thought too yea it’s like my diet kinda

What do you mean by this

What is the purpose of “learning game, pickup, and all these other valuable social skills. Becoming a world class charismatic“?

Ok

@Leo Gura so you came to the conclusion it’s the best diet for your health?

Ok👍🏻 I wrote in my journal hehe

I’d much much rather eat a great variety of veggies , tofu , legumes, nuts etc than just chicken and butter/cheese Healthwise veganism with a vide variety seems better than carnivore, then within veganism yes maybe higher fat is better. i tried once a low fiber diet, and then I binged on processed food once because I got cravings and got a massive reaction to it which I usually wouldn’t get, so I draw the conclusion that the lack of fiber fucked my gut so it made me sensitive. When I eat omnivore diet with plenty of fiber my gut is tough and can tolerate almost anything . Including binges ( I never binge anymore it was in my past). I’m thinking about writing a post about it