Sugarcoat

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  1. At the end of the day you can’t control how others respond to you, and women dont owe you anything that’s the cold truth. Sometimes just reminding yourself of the cold truth can be good, your anger is not helping you it’s doing nothing. So if you’re gonna be affected by what women think your internal world will go up and down all the time because as you say women’s reactions are like up and down cycle. Don’t compare me to Jung poor guy 😂
  2. You seem too focused on the women. So if they respond well to you , you feel good, if they respond bad to you, you feel bad. I’d say the best you can do is to try to focus more on yourself, how you can improve yourself, in a way that feels authentic and aligned. When you are doing things for yourself you’ll feel good and when you feel secure in yourself others reactions won’t move you as much . Be wary of how you might deceive yourself , it has to be authentic can’t fake that confidence my silly psychoanalysis attempt 😂😂
  3. It’s ok if you don’t know the real reason I was just wondering what you yourself thought the reason was so you tend to feel inferior and have low self esteem around those guys you consider “players”?
  4. Yea but why? I was thinking your response to it would give a clue to what your problem might be but with that vague answer I’m not getting anywhere😂
  5. I meant what do you think the reason is for them rejecting you? I don’t know
  6. Why do you think they reject you?
  7. I don’t know better🤷🏻‍♀️ I just heard everything is love
  8. Ok lol. What a reach lowkey
  9. That was actually quite beautiful. So everything is love because everything is unified that’s what it means or? I mention it because once a kind of “spirit” told me so during sleep paralysis vibrations. But I’d love to “feel” love.
  10. 23: What is this love thing that reality supposedly is. Everything being love. I don’t feel it.
  11. 22: I think about suicide so often I don’t know how much longer I can stand my life.
  12. That’s interesting, I’ve heard just a little bit of it mentioned by conventional science
  13. That’s kinda what I thought too yea it’s like my diet kinda
  14. What is the purpose of “learning game, pickup, and all these other valuable social skills. Becoming a world class charismatic“?
  15. @Leo Gura so you came to the conclusion it’s the best diet for your health?
  16. Ok👍🏻 I wrote in my journal hehe
  17. 21: experimenting with diet In my past I used to suffer from severe chronic abdominal distention. After every meal I’d get distended. Then I experimented with diet to try to see if any foods were the cause. ( I didn’t find any correlation) I went on a few weeks of essentially zero FODMAP diet, eating mostly animal foods. Almost zero fiber. Then one night I got cravings so I binged on white bread and some sweets. I woke up the next day severely distended. Had a severely sore throat. Then a few days later developed a massive ear infection My conclusion from this experience is that the lack of fiber in my experimental diet negatively affected my gut, maybe by lessening the diversity of microbiota, and thus increased my gut’s sensitivity causing the strong reaction to the binge. when I eat a higher fiber omnivorous diet, my body can tolerate a binge. its not to say the binge is good, it’s certainly bad, but a healthy gut shouldn’t react so severely to it. (Btw I don’t binge anymore) Some people have similar experiences with reacting to foods and might interpret this as those foods being the problem, but instead in some cases maybe it’s the sensitivity of the gut that is the problem, and /or the lack of diverse microbiota.
  18. I’d much much rather eat a great variety of veggies , tofu , legumes, nuts etc than just chicken and butter/cheese Healthwise veganism with a vide variety seems better than carnivore, then within veganism yes maybe higher fat is better. i tried once a low fiber diet, and then I binged on processed food once because I got cravings and got a massive reaction to it which I usually wouldn’t get, so I draw the conclusion that the lack of fiber fucked my gut so it made me sensitive. When I eat omnivore diet with plenty of fiber my gut is tough and can tolerate almost anything . Including binges ( I never binge anymore it was in my past). I’m thinking about writing a post about it
  19. Are you sensitive to rest of foods?
  20. Do you seriously think carnivore is better than vegan?
  21. Agree although in some cases some guys only want superficial because of themselves regardless of the girl , I think yea it’s deep
  22. I think I understand what you mean and id agree for the most part. So in simple terms the same guy wanting something superficial could want something deeper based on her value to him, which is based on her own “game” it’s an interesting topic indeed