Sugarcoat

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  1. I don’t see that really
  2. This post sounds more like he hasn’t approached many “hotties” YET and is asking if it’s doable or cringe. So I’m saying if he does do a lot of approaches on hotties and keeps failing over and over even after trying to improve his game maybe then he’d be able to settle for an average girl.
  3. maybe if he lacks success with hotter girls he would eventually be able to settle with an average girl. But for now it seems he is pretty set on getting a hottie
  4. Okay I see. For once I could somewhat understand what you wrote
  5. Leo is bald and look at how great he is doing
  6. You really think he’s ready to commit to an average girl when he has hotties and ass and tits on his mind?
  7. How is unpleasant character a cope for an obese woman? What would be a demonstration that he’s actually not good enough?
  8. I see what you’re saying. Are you saying though death might not be real? I remember you talked about this before.
  9. To answer your question yes some women date down in looks. The guy must have had above average game in those cases . Or woman has lower standards
  10. Don’t make the women feel you’re only into them for their appearance. Can be a turn off this thought just came to me spontaneously. Maybe it has value or not
  11. @Someone here how do you know it’s eternal rest? I believe we will incarnate again sooner or later into some kind of form. Why would it only happen once, doesn’t make sense
  12. The body dies because that’s how nature, biology works
  13. It seems to be like that yes. That’s how biology works.
  14. They are true in a relative sense yea.
  15. Maybe it’s so but relatively speaking we draw distinctions between when the human body is created in the womb and when it dies. So it’s us that create those distinctions on forms
  16. “Then the body must also be eternal” why must form be eternal to you?
  17. When they say nothing dies I’m guessing they mean everything transforms , so your dying body will turn into dust
  18. It can be taken as a concept or be heard. The former is normal when you feel like a self
  19. One time I listened to this super small YouTube channel with non dual talkers and one guy he switched between these few sentences it sounded kinda like “appearing in this, as this” “all is this” “there’s only this, there’s only what’s appearing in this” “what’s arising in this” .
  20. Meditate and breathe deeply to calm your nervous system in general. Observe the fear, be present in it.