Sugarcoat

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  1. The best health trick is self dissolution. Do you know how much tension and stress and inflammation is in the maintenance of the very self that you are? It’s my secret beauty hack I swear to god. For example my rosacea was worse when my ego was denser 😂😂 How do I make a profit out of this
  2. Animals don’t have minds right, but they can still suffer pain because they have a sense of self or am I wrong. So it’s not about the mind, but it’s about the sense of self am I right
  3. How exactly would I not feel suffering when feeling pain. Asking for a “friend” . Pain is suffering in itself. Maybe with some extreme level mindfulness it can be experienced as not suffering I don’t know
  4. It’s almost as if people in spiritual community forget that physical pain exists when they talk about suffering
  5. I believe self is hallucination by the brain.
  6. Basically if we do the math here you would need to gain enough muscle so the muscle gain equalizes the fat loss to stay the same weight. I don’t really get though why it’s so important for you to stay the same weight, the weight is just a number, the muscle and the fat is what decides how you are looking so those matter . Or maybe you mean that you like the current size of your body so the measurements, the bulkiness, but you’d like to replace the fat with muscle so to stay around the same size
  7. Imagine feeling like something outside of you could add to you This post just reveals things about you
  8. You mean you don’t think it’s possible to end the cycle? Me neither I think ending it is only temporary but it restarts sooner or later
  9. @Schizophonia I bet that exists somewhere in infinity because damn infinity can’t help itself but to create suffering
  10. Guys just be happy you’re not in the worst reincarnations, can’t even imagine what would be possible
  11. Before I had this one massive shift that released all the tension, I would experience this tension that seemed to be the sense of self and how it tries to maintain itself. It’s very heavy and it can be more or less heavy based on how many layers you’ve peeled from the ego. So that’s one connection I made to your post from my own understanding. You say to exist as a self requires a resistance to the idea of not being. I don’t think it’s the idea of it, it’s not being literally. The very activity, all the mental activity of the self is like noise to fill the effortless void that would be there. So it’s like the self is the very thing itself resisting dissolving into the void
  12. I don’t know what to write to you in terms of helping but I can share that I’m struggling too with a severe disconnect from myself, almost like I barely exist .
  13. I find that the more obsessed you are with something the more creative you can be. Like crazy obsessed
  14. Doesn't that mean that there’s still ego left meaning it’s not fully infinite?
  15. If you don’t have your own kind of thinking then you’ll just be confused because there is so much different information out there yes
  16. Yes I know there are pedophiles who don’t act out their urges, in that case they are innocent, more innocent than Tate
  17. Yea one can sort the hay from the shaft or whatever that expression is for oneself. But individual contemplation is number one as you say
  18. Pedophile from my understanding is when there is attraction to underage children, early teens and lower. So being attracted to for example a 17 year old doesn’t count . edit: I just asked ChatGPT and it said it’s defined as around 13 years or younger