Sugarcoat

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  1. Don’t know if I should laugh at this I see your point here. There is ofc a problem with some men struggling with loneliness. The question is then how that problem should be handled. Ofc anyone can feel free to try to help somehow but because relationships is a special area in that it deals with the access to women, in that sense we don’t owe men relationships, in fact nobody owes nobody it. When it comes to loneliness I think a lot of responsibility is on the individual themselves to try to change themselves somehow and work to satisfy that need on their own. Seeking help in therapy if needed etc. There’s not really a fixed trait, maybe in extremely rare cases, that hinders a person from finding a partner. Even if you are handicapped you can find love. There is a lot of single households yes. I don’t really get what you’re saying here. You think sex should be regulated? I think we as a society have responsibilities towards the world and other people for example in terms of climate change everyone (in the west especially) has a responsibility in this. But when it comes to dating and loneliness I think it’s different. The reason is that there’s so many millions of people out there, if you can’t find NOBODY then the problem is usually you. So you need to change something about yourself. If someone has severe mental issues they might need to seek out help for example.
  2. You do you ofc
  3. That’s good. Keep it up.
  4. Being consistent is most important I think though even if you do a small amount
  5. I didn’t mean to sound particularly cold, I just meant that relationships are not as basic of a need as food and shelter and security, I don’t think it’s comparable. It takes two to tango, to mutually want a relationship, it’s about men’s access to women. I don’t think women should have to be concerned about men not finding a partner. It’s not impossible, one can always work on oneself, and there’s people at every level to match one’s own level even if one is below average. Also considering the inequality in the world, women getting treated like lesser than men in general (maybe not so much in the west but in other parts of the world) , women as a group have too much problems themselves to be concerned with.
  6. I think there’s a difference between those things. Food and shelter is more important and fundamental need than having a partner. Having a partner requires two people to mutually want it, it’s about men’s access to women, those other things are about more basic needs, our access to material resources. Look around you at couples today, most are around similar level of attractiveness physically, and most are probably at somewhat similar levels in other domains like economy too. It’s not impossible to get a partner, even if you are below average because there are other below average people out there to match your level. Women don’t owe men relationships, as I said it takes two to tango, that’s why I don’t think it’s comparable to those other needs.
  7. I see. There’s big rewards in sitting through those difficult emotions. It’s like you’ve cracked open a new reality at the other side of the resistance.
  8. It’s hard😅
  9. Ofc Cool So why you say Michael would say pork is healthier? You should watch the craziest videos where he explains his first 100 mile race: I’ve heard this story so many times. He ran so hard he got kidney failure due to rhabdo. Broke all the bones in his feet etc
  10. Lol . I liked beef tartar though it was nice. I’ve been thinking about making it at home. Yes What do you use it for? Makes sense. What do you mean because of heme iron? Hahah I know you’re joking but I didn’t mean him. I wonder what he eats though. He is a special kind, he scares me a little with all that brutal training though.
  11. Medium rare ribeye is the best. I like pork too , to be honest. Every year my family celebrates a friends birthday and they always buy fresh pork and lamb that has been cooked on a pole, spinning around if you get what I mean. It’s the meat with the skin. It’s really good. The guanciale in pasta carbonara was really good too. It was fatty and tasty. And the ribs you ordered were good too. So I could see how you’d like pork more although I don’t know which one I like more. For some reason beef seems to me healthier than pork although I don’t know if that’s the case maybe just a bias. Could I ask you perhaps @Michael569 What is healthier beef or pork or would you say they’re equal? I know some health fanatics that eat beef but avoid pork
  12. Why should women care about men struggling to get women? Women don’t owe men anything
  13. What’s emotional labour? Like doing things that are difficult emotionally? Like for example the thing I could come up with is if you have social anxiety and expose yourself to social situations. So things that trigger emotions and allow you to work through them. Does the frustration of sitting still and concentrating on something count as an emotion? So doing like a strenuous task that requires effort does that count as emotional labour? Or are emotions just the classical ones like sadness, happiness, anger
  14. Why? You think pork is better than a ribeye? 💀
  15. From my own judgment it seems good too. Thanks for the input.
  16. I understand you definitely are right. I will change my behavior
  17. So you would say for example the Nordic nutrition recommendations is a reliable source?
  18. From the little I’ve heard now I wouldn’t either ….
  19. 👍🏻
  20. Ok I see. Why would op wanna take it then
  21. Chill family
  22. By neurological effects you mean like psychedelic effects or?