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I feel that’s a bit of an assumption from your side. From his side it seems love and pleasure was a basis hence this post, but it wasn’t reciprocated. Either he is too needy, or she genuinely didn’t love him back or she has a different style of loving and attaching herself which wasn’t matching his. That she broke up could be a sign that all that time she didn’t love him explaining the lack of giving love, or she broke up when he started to pull back which would be weird because why would she expect receiving when she didn’t give. We only know one side of the story so hard to tell. Limiting beliefs as in not believing they are capable of getting something better thus settling for less meanwhile women don’t tend to have these you mean? I wonder why he dint break up with her. Maybe he had it in the back of his mind but hadn’t taken action on it yet.

I don’t know what you mean by a demonstration of his social power

Obv it can work like that because op wrote about it. You also wanna enjoy your partner as a human being that gives their love to you, not just their qualities as objects. From his pov there was an imbalance and since she broke up she must have agreed. Or he was expecting too much of her, I can’t know enough to say which one it is. I don’t get your last paragraph

He can have all that but if he doesn’t feel that love from her it can still be unsatisfying

Exactly bro

Why would she be with you if she’s not gonna love you? Isn’t the reason for being with someone that you love them, what’s the point if not? Her breaking up with you shows that she didn’t love you. Ofc you expect someone to give you love if they’re gonna be with you. Not in a needy way, but as a given. Very simple. (Not in dating but in relationship) Also drop any idea that you need to love in a certain way due to some philosophy. Be honest with yourself about what you truly feel and think about it and become clear with yourself what you think genuinely not what some philosophy says

That’s what I thought you meant. Yea I see. I don’t see though how it has to do with determinism. Ofc we know about someone’s life if they’re already dead, how does that support determinism for our lives. I have wondered about this too btw

What do you mean by this?

I remember long time ago watching some of her content and it was pretty solid. On top of that her being charismatic. Plus the good looks definitely helps her. People like to look at a beautiful face, even if they’re comparing themselves to it and feeling bad about themselves. It’s kinda toxic how it works. People pedestalize the f out of a gorgeous woman’s face. It’s seen as success to be pretty

What’s the point of dating other than to go for what you WANT. Like if you settle for something lesser than what you want you’re just gonna end up thinking what could’ve should’ve been, and it will be bad not only for you but for the one you’re with.

If you walk around with that mindset “I’ll never find someone” then you could manifest it because you come off as negative bitter and potentially needy.

I ate similarly now and when I didn’t have mental problems . I have zero digestive issues, amazing energy levels, nothing suggests I’d be inflamed from my diet. Plus science recommends a plant dominant diet.

No I don’t have any issues digestion fiber

Omg I’m so dumb, I forgot the whole shot isn’t pure alcohol

1 shot is like 40 ml so 80 ml is not much

Ok maybe one can drunk of that. I was asking because first I thought did you only drink one cider one can’t get drunk on that

How many drinks is that?

How much did you drink?

Good

Ok I don’t know what to respond so empty I am

How

I don’t see that

Relate. I wanna die.

40 for looks and 60 for personality is reasonable yes.

The true answer to this will depend on the woman and what she is looking for, a hookup or a relationship etc. There’s not a simple answer to this kind of question. There’s a lot of nuance. A thing I could say though is the type of mindset that asks this question could be a turn off for women. But then again if you think “I will stop thinking like this because women won’t like it and I’ll come off as needy” then you’re back in the same mindset again 😹 thinking about what women want hehe. It’s natural and normal but you won’t come so far with it