Sugarcoat

Exactly bro

Why would she be with you if she’s not gonna love you? Isn’t the reason for being with someone that you love them, what’s the point if not? Her breaking up with you shows that she didn’t love you. Ofc you expect someone to give you love if they’re gonna be with you. Not in a needy way, but as a given. Very simple. (Not in dating but in relationship) Also drop any idea that you need to love in a certain way due to some philosophy. Be honest with yourself about what you truly feel and think about it and become clear with yourself what you think genuinely not what some philosophy says

That’s what I thought you meant. Yea I see. I don’t see though how it has to do with determinism. Ofc we know about someone’s life if they’re already dead, how does that support determinism for our lives. I have wondered about this too btw

What do you mean by this?

I remember long time ago watching some of her content and it was pretty solid. On top of that her being charismatic. Plus the good looks definitely helps her. People like to look at a beautiful face, even if they’re comparing themselves to it and feeling bad about themselves. It’s kinda toxic how it works. People pedestalize the f out of a gorgeous woman’s face. It’s seen as success to be pretty

What’s the point of dating other than to go for what you WANT. Like if you settle for something lesser than what you want you’re just gonna end up thinking what could’ve should’ve been, and it will be bad not only for you but for the one you’re with.

If you walk around with that mindset “I’ll never find someone” then you could manifest it because you come off as negative bitter and potentially needy.

I ate similarly now and when I didn’t have mental problems . I have zero digestive issues, amazing energy levels, nothing suggests I’d be inflamed from my diet. Plus science recommends a plant dominant diet.

No I don’t have any issues digestion fiber

Omg I’m so dumb, I forgot the whole shot isn’t pure alcohol

1 shot is like 40 ml so 80 ml is not much

Ok maybe one can drunk of that. I was asking because first I thought did you only drink one cider one can’t get drunk on that

How many drinks is that?

How much did you drink?

Good

Ok I don’t know what to respond so empty I am

How

I don’t see that

Relate. I wanna die.

40 for looks and 60 for personality is reasonable yes.

The true answer to this will depend on the woman and what she is looking for, a hookup or a relationship etc. There’s not a simple answer to this kind of question. There’s a lot of nuance. A thing I could say though is the type of mindset that asks this question could be a turn off for women. But then again if you think “I will stop thinking like this because women won’t like it and I’ll come off as needy” then you’re back in the same mindset again 😹 thinking about what women want hehe. It’s natural and normal but you won’t come so far with it

That’s why it helps to have a task at hand too. Like in school I remember it was always easier to talk to people when working on a group project. Because you’re caught up in the work and have something to talk about and not run out of words about.

You have a point, although the first approach can still show something significant enough of how the personality is. And women judge on the looks too

This is how it is for most women. Being approached my men they have no interest in

Yea