Sugarcoat

What do you mean by this?

I remember long time ago watching some of her content and it was pretty solid. On top of that her being charismatic. Plus the good looks definitely helps her. People like to look at a beautiful face, even if they’re comparing themselves to it and feeling bad about themselves. It’s kinda toxic how it works. People pedestalize the f out of a gorgeous woman’s face. It’s seen as success to be pretty

I have experienced that too in my past having a hard time admitting what my problem is so that’s def important . Complete self honesty is critical.

Probably because the average person has an average psychology and circumstances so it isn’t so bad for them to consider suicide. And they’re attached to their average life so bad times are like passing clouds that dont shake that solid foundation and if it does it’s only temporary. I don’t think the average person is particularly “strong” so it’s a bit mysterious to me if they don’t consider suicide when things get really bad but I’m guessing it’s that attachment to their “life”(everything that is considered in having a “life) that’s one of the reasons. And having problems that have solutions. Also there’s a big difference between just having suicidal thoughts and vs going the length of actually trying to kill yourself so I’ve had a lot of suicidal thoughts but I’ve never attempted Yea those things are usually what cause people to suffer Yea you covered the most basic things with your reply. I’d agree

This is what I’ve been trying to do id say, just acting without overthinking it. Did you ask this question as a way to say it’s my thoughts causing my suffering so when I do something without thought I won’t suffer like when I brush my teeth? If I’m having a particularly bad day I can suffer while brushing my teeth but it has nothing to do with the teeth brushing

What’s the point of dating other than to go for what you WANT. Like if you settle for something lesser than what you want you’re just gonna end up thinking what could’ve should’ve been, and it will be bad not only for you but for the one you’re with.

Yea . In the recent months in particular I’ve been trying to have a more strong mindset and acting despite the discomfort and it’s been working a lot of the time. But still sometimes I get really low and feel weak and suicidal thoughts can take over. But in general I’ve developed a more stronger self by help from that mindset.

That’s def a strong mindset yea.

If you walk around with that mindset “I’ll never find someone” then you could manifest it because you come off as negative bitter and potentially needy.

I ate similarly now and when I didn’t have mental problems . I have zero digestive issues, amazing energy levels, nothing suggests I’d be inflamed from my diet. Plus science recommends a plant dominant diet.

No I don’t have any issues digestion fiber

Omg I’m so dumb, I forgot the whole shot isn’t pure alcohol

1 shot is like 40 ml so 80 ml is not much

Ok maybe one can drunk of that. I was asking because first I thought did you only drink one cider one can’t get drunk on that

How many drinks is that?

How much did you drink?

Good

Ok I don’t know what to respond so empty I am

How

I don’t see that

Relate. I wanna die.

40 for looks and 60 for personality is reasonable yes.

The true answer to this will depend on the woman and what she is looking for, a hookup or a relationship etc. There’s not a simple answer to this kind of question. There’s a lot of nuance. A thing I could say though is the type of mindset that asks this question could be a turn off for women. But then again if you think “I will stop thinking like this because women won’t like it and I’ll come off as needy” then you’re back in the same mindset again 😹 thinking about what women want hehe. It’s natural and normal but you won’t come so far with it

That’s why it helps to have a task at hand too. Like in school I remember it was always easier to talk to people when working on a group project. Because you’re caught up in the work and have something to talk about and not run out of words about.

You have a point, although the first approach can still show something significant enough of how the personality is. And women judge on the looks too