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Damn thats a lot. Youre strong for not giving up. I was evaluated for autism but didnt get diagnosed.

I see. Im too chill to be one X D

You dont have to answer this if its private but you mentioned you have mental issues may I ask which ones? I just had some curiosity because you have unique behavior on this forum

I said you can leave if you want, but im gonna stick around which means: Im not gonna leave the forum

He didn't look how I expected, he looks calm

You dont agree with the forum rules you mean?

Yea maybe she is too busy with her own work

Its funny until it happens to you

New word learnt "charter". You mean you are more lose? Id say im in a similar situation.

I meant in case I commit suicide lol I can have those thoughts but im fine now

@Schizophonia Lol you and your 15 warning points Didnt you wanna become mod?

Thanks thats very nice. Im far from the most loved lol. Im peaceful in my interactions with others yes thats true but what stops me from wanting to be a mod is having to read so much content and having that responsibility.

Me too

I can’t speak for your situation because I can’t know based on one post but I’ve heard quite a few stories from the female perspective how the man isn’t taking responsibility around the household and how small things can build up for the woman so she feels the need to tell him off which can come of as nagging but she is just wanting him to be equally responsible around the house as her. There’s an account I follow that is dedicated to this type of content. So it really depends on the situation wether complaining is justified or not In general I think that kind of detached attitude and unbothered one is one of the best to have I’m also like that naturally and there’s a lot of peace that comes with that, of not being emotionally involved in petty human endeavors. But we shouldn’t tolerate disrespect still, sometimes simply being unbothered is enough for someone to stop because they’re not getting a reaction out of you and their disrespect isn’t having an effect. But if they keep complaining they might have a valid reason like I said before then it can be time to be considerate of another’s perspective and feelings, if not then we need to assert our boundaries

Where did you get suicide from? Nvm I’m guessing you meant that his mod life is over

Ok I understand. It’s a bit sad because in general his contribution was pretty solid and he had an unique view, but I guess we all have our flaws

Did you permanently ban him from the forum?

Yea now I saw that.

I don’t know?

Thanks you have a special place for me too

Yea

It feels normal now but in my past I remember when I would have breakthroughs in overcoming the fear it would feel great

Yes. I can feel just so ~slightly ~awkward at times but it’s no anxiety. Like if someone starts talking to me at the club or with distant family members, but it’s usually if I haven’t gotten into my flow. But the anxiety is completely gone

Not just any mind falls for such content. You must have had low self esteem and maybe paired with being overly logical detached from emotion (even though such black pill thinking usually has emotion behind it but it’s more hidden) to fall for such content and for it too permeate your entire world view. It spoke to your mindset

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