Sugarcoat

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  1. To me , to say something is real is to say it exists as separate. But if imagination is of no substance then it’s not real it just appears as real
  2. I know by science that everything is constantly moving but it’s still hard to grasp why it is like you’re saying. It’s hard for the mind to grasp these concepts that are so fundamental One thought that came to me is how are we able to recognize change(for example a hand moving) if there is no time? This moment is immediate, but somehow our brain still recognizes change through time. It’s weird And yes I agree whatever we say is still within this reality
  3. It’s occuring in me. The two most obvious things are I am and there is something . But that doesn’t mean it’s actually the case
  4. Happy Easter Why did Jesus become so popular? He isn’t the first to spread a god message. We have non dualists today talking (non duality doesn’t appeal to the public it only works when it’s embedded between the lines and not explicit because then people won’t get it’s about non duality which is perhaps how some holy scriptures work I don’t know though) we have speakers like eckhart tolle and Rupert spira etc . I respect Jesus and see the value in it but I don’t get why he got the most popular
  5. “You are here right now” just because it seems like it doesn’t mean it’s the case
  6. So if everything would suddenly freeze and be still then that would be nothing? I thought something is just something limited with a border, separate
  7. I don’t know it’s just my theorizing. But it’s like it’s all appearance, but the appearances work in certain ways. So if you drop a glass on the floor it will break. So the appearance of the floor and the glass interact and affect each other. So I see the brain. The brain produces the sense of self, the appearance of the brain creates the appearance of a self. I don’t know this though , it’s just my theorizing
  8. Just listen to non dual speakers like Jim Newman then
  9. Stress is internal. It’s putting a lot of importance into things. If you could lessen the importance of things. If it’s survival things that you can’t lessen the importance of then it’s just a matter of getting those handled then you can relax afterwards
  10. Something that helped me is developing a tougher mindset so reframing the negative into a challenge, something more positive. Having your mind be active about this new mindset you have formed like an ongoing mantra kind of. It works for me like it calms me down and prepares me for the challenges of life. Also not being too engaged with the outside world learn to bring your attention back to yourself and disengaging a little from the outside world, also getting to a point where you can do your tasks on autopilot so you don’t have to think so much . Simplify your life.
  11. “Then you are imagining it” I like to say the brain is imagining itself kind of
  12. Everything being in my experience concludes a self that is having that experience
  13. All I have is direct experience yes. And within (not the best experience) that experience is an experience of myself. I am myself but I’m also experiencing myself as an object . Maybe I’m misinterpreting but it’s like this twisted thing. I am both aware of myself but I can’t locate myself exactly because I am myself directly
  14. What do you mean the source doesn’t exist
  15. i feel i am separate from my body but located in the skull