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Stockholm has beautiful women everywhere. But on the other hand maybe I just notice the pretty faces more, I don't know how much of the population they make up

She said in the video she dissociated at times. She can’t be in healthy state mentally to do this. Some commenters considered it self harm even

I skipped forward to the end and there she said she wants to sleep with 1000 guys in 24 hours to break a record. Don’t know how that’s even possible. That’s almost 2 minutes per guy, she’d have to do gang bangs

Yea exactly, since ~some ~ have their own standards so low they’re happy with any normal girl they see women as lucky for having options regardless

I know they just see the fact women have it easier finding at man AT ALL and think that’s a plus. But they don’t take into account compatability or commitment or if he is of quality even

More like the painful reality for the women he sleeps with

“Women themselves value this” Yes exactly they do. Then how much of it is biological vs comes from societal conditioning is hard to say I’m guessing it’s a combo. So you mean that since the number one value is reproduction then whatever helps her in that is what she will value ? So looks help her in finding a high value partner to reproduce with so it’s one of the reasons she will value it. In the west and more developed countries my impression is that it’s more looks centric and less centered around the woman being a mother. That’s the hypersexual culture we live in today in the west. In more developed parts of the world my impression is that there is more focus on the woman in her role as a mother, looks may be important but not as much as in the west and more developed countries.

“Easier to be a woman” in what regard? Women deal with painful periods and births, get sexually harassed and assaulted more, deal with more obsession around their looks, eating disorders etc. Depends on what you compare. They’re probably thinking in terms of dating is my guess. Yes women have it easier in regarding finding a man at all, especially if she’s hot, but that doesn’t mean the men she finds are of quality and are compatible. Sure some middle aged women can feel invisible, but at the same time the very hot woman gets harassed so it’s always two sides of the coin. Benefits and cons on each part

The ego is very good at finding something for itself to create a pleasant identity from. So for example if you’re ugly it will create pleasant identity out of something else that it can for example being funny or good at a certain craft or expertise. Being more beautiful doesn’t equal being more happy. One can get attached to one’s beauty and suffer the constant maintenance needed or fear things such as weight gain etc.

”The number one thing valued in women is physical beauty” Ive been saying this

The ego is limiting, it attaches itself to stories and identities and automatically must judge whatever is in opposition, so it indeed stands in the way of love sometimes, and by letting go of it we can embrace more of this love.

For me the ego is just the entire human self that is a mental construct of the brain

If your version of being authentic doesn’t “work” it’s because you haven’t worked on yourself enough.

Is the goal to be yourself or to study someone else’s techniques and try to emulate it?

So dating apps are very looks based. But there’s always people at every level of looks to match one’s own level, so below average people can still get matches. Also who knows but basically around 50% of the population is above average in looks by definition so maybe they are dominating in the statistics

What stops you from doing cold approach in a city if you want to?

I’ve shared it before here in this forum but I feel it’s even too weird for this place so I don’t wanna share it again… it’s not really spiritual either Very cool sharing, unlike anything I’ve heard before. Yea I don’t know for sure exactly what’s going on with you, but I think as long as it’s not causing you too many problems it’s something worth exploring. If it ever becomes too much you could reach out for help either by doctor although maybe they can’t help because they deal with conventional things, but just in case if it would be a misunderstanding from your part on what’s going on it can be worth a try. Other than that it was a good idea of writing about it here since there can be some knowledgeable people here although I’m not so knowledgeable in this matter at all so I don’t have too much to add. I myself am fascinated with my own experiences of for example sleep paralysis, some energies, dreams etc so it’s an area to explore. Also finding some spiritual teacher within this area could be a possibility. Other than that I think it’s a good idea what you said before about focusing also on more practical things in your life such as making money and finding friends (if you feel that desire). To create a kind of balance and then you could explore these unusual but interesting phenomena’s on the side.

So I’m not the only one with some seemingly insane things going on… May I ask though how do you know it’s kundalini energy? I’m open to this. So each mudra means something and the kundalini talks to you by making you do involuntary mudras throughout the day you mean? Apart from speaking through your mouth, so it’s your voice speaking?

I think this is blown over proportion. Many people like to club so obviously there will be clubs left as there is still major profit to be made from it. The demand is still there.

White chocolate is tasty in small amounts

You’re saying you’re the best source?

Be wary of who you listen to when it comes to nutrition.

Ok I see

That's not what not owing someone means

Haha ok. I get your point. But Id still say those two things mentioned aren’t comparable