Sugarcoat

Did you permanently ban him from the forum?

Yea now I saw that.

I don’t know?

Thanks you have a special place for me too

Yea

It feels normal now but in my past I remember when I would have breakthroughs in overcoming the fear it would feel great

Yes. I can feel just so ~slightly ~awkward at times but it’s no anxiety. Like if someone starts talking to me at the club or with distant family members, but it’s usually if I haven’t gotten into my flow. But the anxiety is completely gone

Not just any mind falls for such content. You must have had low self esteem and maybe paired with being overly logical detached from emotion (even though such black pill thinking usually has emotion behind it but it’s more hidden) to fall for such content and for it too permeate your entire world view. It spoke to your mindset

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Are you also exploring your own darkness in doing this? Like uncovering your own dark sides, if you have any. That’s probably the most important work regarding this

Whatever you please Thanks 🤫

Cool

I’m doing “semen retention” too but just because I have no libido

SKINTY it’s called Ok

That was so well written you’re intelligent and deep

Yea it’s beyond your control.

Yes stress is definitely a factor

I just sign out always. It’s just as easy. But I see your point

But didn’t you say that it makes it so nobody can see if you visit their profile or journal? How does that even work? How could the browser mode affect something inside the forum? I’m not haha ok I understand

I know I can google but sometimes I just ask instead I know of the private mode on browser but I thought you meant incognito mode inside of actualized.org that I didn’t know of. What do you mean? You can’t take advantage of it

I used to struggle with this (not so extreme though). Now I have ~zero~ problem around food. I don’t know a method that works because I don’t feel I got here through effort, but rather things healed inside me kind of and my brain found another way to get that dopamine. So I’d say that your brain is hooked on the pleasure (dopamine high I’m guessing) from the food. So you need to find other ways to get a kind of high, ways that are healthier. Like socializing for example. Ego boosting (vague term I don’t know how else to put it, it could be something like flexing your gym gains in the mirror, so self centered activity) That’s two I can think of. Also the food you eat can play a role, I don’t have too much knowledge in this but I will study nutrition this autumn but maybe try various ways of eating and seeing if it can curb your cravings, maybe you’re lacking something, maybe you need more sugar from fruit . Being present, meditation etc can probably help too to become more grounded and not immediately act on the impulse which can with time decrease the impulse for sure. It’s probably worth a try

That is true, I never get angry. We will see how it goes

Ok I was thinking you meant that. I mean, who knows what one can do with that knowledge, besides from improving my diet Haha made me laugh a little you’re cute Joining university (live not online). Studying a university program called nutrition . What do you mean stock exchanges?

I’m not concerned about addiction at all. I’m not very addictive in general. I don’t get what this has to do with what I said but it’s fine 😹any chance you get to squeeze in a joke I’m planning this autumn no matter what , why not, I’m gonna live at my parents house , I get a monthly sum of money that’s not too bad while studying ,

Forget my theory it was just a thought😹 another thought I had is that they have a much more social and more forward socially culture in general vs the west that is more individualistic and isolated . So that thendency permeates even the sexual stuff