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It can be entertaining to watch black pill content so I might sometime. I’m very open in general but as someone said be open minded but not so much your brain falls out😹 Personality not being a thing is a very bold claim. Have you never encountered a guy who is kinda fugly still have girls like him because of his personality? And to define masculinity as a guy looking good and wanting and going after you. Isn’t masculinity a definition independent of women? Or you mean that that is what women view as masculine? Wouldn’t you agree that it’s more common to see a couple where the woman is more conventionally attractive than the guy vs vice versa? The overall impression I get from blackpill is that it’s very black and white and lacks nuance. They do have some points here and there and there’s some nugget of truth in what they say but it’s way too generalizing

I swear 🙊

What are you basing your claims on? Like what is the statistics you talk about

Thanks for clarification. I think I see what you mean. It’s feeling driven.

I can see how observing their behavior would give insights into how their attraction works, but you would need to do that with a ridiculous amount of women to get a fair picture. But when it comes to statistics does it even exist statistics about this stuff? Honestly I don’t know how the average person works I just know how I work and some women I know and for us attraction doesn’t work like you say You are deep in the black pill stuff😹 I won’t even try to argue this.

At least you seem kinda happy in your paradigm lock😹😹 I can’t speak for all women ofc as I don’t know all women but for me and women close to me personality can definitely bring the looks up quite a bit. A woman who would primarily be attracted to guys because of their looks sounds very shallow to me and wouldn’t be someone I’d wanna be with if I was a man anyways. Or because of something like money, that’s even more shallow. What you call “masculinity” matters too. It is connected to personality, and a little bit looks too.

You’ve locked yourself into your own paradigm and aren’t even open to hearing counter points and just accusing them of lying. All I’m saying is that a man can be attractive to a woman even if his looks are what is to be considered less attractive than hers because he has an awesome personality

😹😹😹 What makes you believe that?

No. In my past I’ve crushed on guys that could be considered below average in looks because the vibes were so good and I am not the only woman

Ok I see

Ok

If you read the replies he said he asked her for sex

I use olive oil mostly yea

I dont know how this works but isnt there a lot of sperm donors in comparison to how many sperms actually impregnate a woman. So if you donate sperm is there a very low chance they actually create a life or am I wrong?

Ok. What do you mean by “Main reason for pain is when you don't take action, and feel stuck in your reality. ” Isn’t main reason for pain some kind of sickness? What am I not understanding here?

Will this lessen the pain?

In Sweden you can buy “cold pressed rape seed oil”

It requires a lot of work to get the best in life and most aren’t willing to put in that work

Agreed

Ok I see. I have wondered to myself how male attraction works since some men can just look at a woman and get attracted. I can’t do that for a man.

Ok I see so it’s feminine because they are being emotional according to you right?

I rarely eat fruit maybe I should eat more lol but yea I agree I crave for more than fruits.

Yea I’m a little curious about that. She says humans are frugivores. She eats “raw til 4” diet so fruits to start the day then a cooked vegan dinner. I think she invented it

It’s a bit hard to understand what you mean by the emotion defines the individual. Maybe that’s a deeper mechanism that needs to be understood. Like if I would try to give an example, the man sees a woman act a certain way, interprets it as her showing interest, then feels good from it, then defines himself from that emotion? As in his self image temporarily is good from that good emotion, and vice versa with bad emotion You’re doing a good job imo .

No matter what non duality says I bet you feel like you exist, don’t you. So at the end of the day it’s gonna stay like that, unless you dissolve the ego which seems extremely difficult to do. So when it comes to this matter of wanting to feel loved, it’s something that is worked on at the human level at the ego level. It’s about your human psychology. This desire to feel loved is ingrained deep it’s even on a genetic level so it’s very hard to undo. It’s not necessary to undo it entirely unless it’s something that bothers you. If it does bother you this desire to be loved and you wanna become more independent then you could work on that. I’ve always been independent like that so I can’t give you tips on how to do it but I bet there is a way.