Sugarcoat

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  1. Focus on being benevolent. Its not like Jesus would be "offended" or something if you mention him in same context as yourself
  2. People are so busy nitpicking the "leaders" as if they have completely forgotten about how the average population is. And those people should learn to look at themselves Its so disgusting how people behave
  3. "if something is crazy enough, I assume it to be untrue"
  4. I don't see background as that much of an issue in that regard. Mainstream christianity ≠ christ consciousness (whatever that is, but still), similar regarding spirituality. I was about 10 years old when I told my priest "I don't believe in god". Just an example of how backround doesn't have to have that much of an impact on development, I see it more as: the way you are, will decide how much you are affected by your "background", rather than the reverse. Meaning, if you are strongly affected by your background, it's because of how you are (not so independent) that made that possible. So background "matters so much" if you are not so independent. So much nuance could be added but let me not write forever. You don't have to respond to me btw, I´m more so directing this generally, so its fine (maybe obvious but I still feel need to say it)
  5. Yea I read she did Vipassana retreat at 22 years old, I wonder what those people critiquing her where doing at 22 years old? People are strict in who could be considered "high conscious/spiritual" but then they lump all religion together and throw it all under the bus (kinda, just writing for simplicity sake), as if theres not enormous diversity possible there just as in spirituality, so they assume growing religiosity is automatically "regression" rather than "evolution" (referring to the critiques against her talking about her connection to Jesus)
  6. @James123 AhHHHHHHahhhahshshsh😂😂 so funny your comments
  7. I´ve realized (IMO) Actualized.org is more so intellectual than spiritual (including the community, that in particular actually). It's much stronger in the intellectual capacity than spiritual. The trend in what topics are posted vs not reveal a lot. So much focus on "mind" and deconstruction, maybe it's because it appeals to people who are so much "in their mind". But then they keep going with that same talk, and even "God" is labelled with "mind", as if they haven't left that "mind space" nearly as much as they'd believe, so they see "mind" everywhere because they are themselves so much "in their minds"
  8. If “Vipassana” doesn’t work, how about “whip-ass-anal” instead? (I’m stretching the limits for getting banned now) But legit maybe you need to lay of the metaphysical for a while and go for somatic stuff instead (or both, in order mentioned above, maybe it’s exhausting focusing on yourself all the time so it’s a possibility for additional “release”) (Sorry Leo if you see this but you say your teachings are radical so I’m testing your claim here)
  9. Attractive to whom tho? Maybe certain men can attract wider range of women, but it doesn’t mean the woman you want is within that, so better focus on what you wanna attract specifically, rather than “women” in some general sense. Just a thought for now, maybe you didn’t even mean that, but still, someone else might
  10. Heheh true. So much joke potential but let me stop here
  11. “Monster” energy, at least you’re honest about it
  12. I drank coffe already, it’s kinda warm outside so I can’t help that, and yea I guess I do seem calm from “outside” (irl, here tho idk…) Maybe it only works if you’re actually Swedish…..😔
  13. Hehe, I don’t know, we will see. I might come off as confident or something sometimes, but I promise you can’t imagine how insecure I am, my mind has been absolutely crazy lately, it’s overwhelming, I need “grounding”. Any tips fellow Swedish guy? ahahahahah😂😂😂 Sorry if I’m too much, I don’t know how I am perceived sometimes
  14. That’s so sweet, and I’m not suprised you say it because you’re in Sweden. Swedish people have always been benevolent to me, pretty much. I’ve begun to know a true spiritually awakened woman at university (yes she is that, but people can doubt how much they want) I’ve thought about introducing her to this place when I get to know her more in autumn, maybe it will become a “trio” if she wants to. She is into “New age”, which this place has huge bias against, and I was actually intimidated by her first when she would talk to me, because of her exceptional groundedness and strong presence. I would LOVE for her to help me Shatter the Paradigm, because I know she can do that. This place needs more of that, especially from women. They might have repelled @Flowerfaeiry for her change in direction from New age, but I want them to get a taste of their own medicine, and my mind is spinning with ideas. 😈😈😈 (might delete later because I feel weird writing about others, even if it’s not private info….)
  15. Leo will be like “can’t find high conscious woman” And then he will ban “high conscious people” hmmmm Almost like the problem is the ~discernment~ rather than the people out there… (this also applies to more people than just Leo..) *urge to poke*
  16. Before yea kinda I have a sense of self, so thats just words for me
  17. Interesting, I had suspicion you would be “speechless” I notice the trend, I (or someone else) could write in a very literal and precise manner, and we are still misunderstood or not understood at all Almost as if the person only understands the topic at hand if it’s in the specific style they were taught it, showing they actually don’t understand it on deeper level, because if they would, deviations in the language would still be understandable
  18. What difference does it make if something is an illusion if from your POV it seems to be real?
  19. Oh I accidentally quoted you instead of “someone here” user that’s why I wanted to respond to you too, hence the accident. I was gonna say something about how this place has become a community that some feel very connected to, so I think it’s not too uncommon to go through a phase of being a little excessively drawn here and to expressing oneself in this place (as it can feel very free, until one is banned lol). I think it’s something that will balance itself out after a while for most
  20. What difference does it make if something is an illusion if from your POV it seems to be real?
  21. I don't keep extra close eye on you in comparison to others, except now that I looked up your post to make a statement, because I reacted to your seemingly harsh tone towards the Zurew guy, in contrast to the benevolent sounding enlightenment talk in other posts that I remember. Ok, I see, your response now changed the picture a bit. You say there is nothing you can do about those behaviors. That's a belief right? Because it can be true that it's "baked into genetics", and it is not fully in control, but that doesn't prove that there is no control at all, right? I would think about this: Do you experience some kind of sense of self? You imply you have no control at all, is that your actual experience really? If not, what's the point in saying it as if you know it, if you don't experience it like that? Maybe that idea isn't helping you as much as you think, or perhaps there is another way of going about it that would be even more effective.