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today was my first time trying this, very difficult it seems that im stuck in what ive heard other people say, yeah it way easier! what are your guys techniques for developing original thought? if there even is any, I found it kinda comes sporadically and I find it funny how when i try to observe thoughts i enter a state of no mind LOL!

jeebus?

@Judy2 <3 its okay give yourself time i believe in you

@Judy2 i found for myself, accepting my "bad sides" really questioning why i call them that (like my stutter) if u can connect dots see where the trauma came from (if its from trauma) then understanding will almost turn into compassion and you will love and accept yourself (this is what happened to me) i hope this helps

were infjs well back down from the turf war you can take it! @Schizophonia

@Schizophonia blast! you foiled my plans!

@Sidra khan lol try telling me i cant take a day off from work, ill do it anyways

so fun to hear from other infjs!

@Sidra khan my biggest strength is how fucking arrogant i can be to let myself be known, a challenge i have is my humbleness when trying to help others (quite paradoxally) dont touch me or i bite but im hesitant to hug

@Moksha so happy

As i begin to love teaching and helping people i cant help but want his views and input on this! some specific points i would love to see - how to tell when to be pushy and kinda smack sense into somone (not physically of course) -how to be more compassionate for people you lead and thier "pettiness" - good skills to demonstrate your value - how to keep on track when communicating - dealing with imposter syndrome - connecting to people - what makes a good teacher/leader

@Schizophonia thank you friend

i always said i have separation anxiety, from my biggest awakening (not my lastest) i just realized that once the bubble popped i went to tell my parents i finally get it (i didnt tell them what i saw of course) soon after i was like "where go bubble :c" funny little insight i caught, i can tell my attachment to my parents is my biggest struggle even now i see that this holds me back. tough cookie to crack, ill get there

@Yimpa i agree, flow of life flows much better when i dont put my hands in the water then maybe ill realize once again im the river maybe this is why i havent "gone back home" at least not to the totality i was once resting in.... man all of my problems all my worries, any issues, insecurities poof gone as if they never existed... finally rest in peace till i come back once again purified by the holy river(a little more than last time), thank you for the advice

@Sincerity damn it i cried :,) thank you your right, just let go people are heavy anyways i cant carry two people D: thank you for the advice

@Sincerity very glad to know im not alone in this thank you

@Yimpa thats my objective for my next little trip back home thank you for the advice

@Yimpa hehe i always failed i helped them out a bunch made them happier teaching meditation at the end of the day thats all i can ask for

i can only speak for me but i found arguing about issues of solipsism and such to be a waste of time, your view is your view wouldent you be happier just being happy with what you think? not needing other people to validate or invalidate you? just my view here i love getting put in my place by some good wisdom but after a while or before then it can be hard to distinguish some good advice or bad of course you can get confirmation bias and such im not immune to this. i know im happier having a simple gentle talk where i can be like "whoa thats a good point let me contemplate that!" like i was just told how to get rid of my attachment to leo. wasnt said in a bashful way it was a gentle suggestion and a further suggestion, and im happy guess my point is it would be FAR better to simply talk not take things personally, after all whats the point? :c dont worry be happy!

what i dont get about this is 1 i cant see this vow having any true value unless you reached the "full enlightenment" 2 trying to enlighten them all! whoa thats a big goal! i know me personally.... i would be dead before i reached this maybe that is the full enlightenment! HAHA! seems like a chore i think its a very honorable thing to aspire to do it if you wish but i would not. i like helping the very few people i do i dont need much else

@Theplay i like happiness

@Leo Gura i aspire to be like you i can see im slowly starting to catch up with the meta lessons here and the little hints, its very sobering to hear that i still have more to go thank you, i think if anyone took offense to this you should ask why. i know this seems very arrogant and mean but i see this as cheerleading! oh what fun it is!

i tried playing crypto and failed :c so i didnt do it again thats all i can say some people can make use of it but i believe u would want to have a strong financial situation to invest more i was practically trading dollars and lost dollars

i saw leo was me but i guess thats another achor cuz i tend to forget that i saw he was me... badabing! now to try to prove this wrong fail and learn

@Benton whoa! thanks friend! spooky stuff hope i dont get pinched