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I think the reason why they make me angry is not because they make me fear something, it is just their arrogance. How can people so limited intellectually see themselves as so more advanced then others ?! it does make sense lol

Sometimes I see people with worldviews so stupid ( at least from my perspective), this makes me kind of angry . I thinks most people go through this at some extent. For example: Today I watched some reels on instagram saying that gender is 100% a social construct, this left me in some bad mood for something around 20 min, then I forgot about it and I just did go about my day. Do you guys go through this kind stuff too ( I'm not talking necessarily about this gender stuff)? How to deal with this?

This part is really true. Like you put it here, moderation is key.

I have similar experience with them too.

I will check it out, thank you! Yeah, picking witch beliefs are just not worth the emotioanl energy is very important Yes, I think this is valid point too, but the problem is that sometimes these feelings are so unproductive and tiresome.

Yeah, my sense of self can be fragile. I'm trying to work on it. I kind of understand how they came with their conclusions but it still let me frustated.

Yeah, unless we decide to live in woods alone we have to deal with this, there is no way around. Could you expand on this please?

One of the reasons get angry is because I feel like they don't respect my opinion and that eventually they will impose their worldview on me.

Uhmmm, I will medidate on this.

Interesting, could you expand more on " karmic loop" please ?

I’m Brazilian, and bro, I’m not trying to make it sound like you’re lying, but very few people ( especially women ) shower twice a day. Most people shower once a day, and some few don’t even shower daily. Brazilians have an inferiority complex, so they try to compensate by saying: "look how many showers we take and how clean we are "

What a coincidence lol I was thinking about this exact topic, and that part of Leo’s trap video where he talks about it, earlier today, right after seeing something on IG about people adopting undomesticated pets.

I want to get a girlfriend. What is the best option: Tinder or cold approach? I live in Brazil, I'm average looking, 29 years old, a little skinny (70 kg), 186 cm tall, and I work out a little at home (I do pull-ups). I'm shy, so cold approach would be pretty tough if I choose that route. I'm a white latino. My Instagram profile sucks, no pictures (just the profile one) and only a few followers. I'm a med student, and all the attractive girls in my class already have a boyfriend. I really want a cute girlfriend. What is the best strategy for me?

Not just a low value man, I would dare to say that if you aren’t in the top 5%, or lucky enough to have had a high school or college crush who really liked you and eventually became your girlfriend and later your wife, dating as a man is pretty hard. A average man have to deal so much with rejection. Most women can't even imagine what it is really like.

If you want to guess my politics go ahead, kind of curious to know what you will say.

I won’t keep answering anyone here on this thread anymore since it took a completely different direction from the initial intention. I hate talking about nationalities and ethnicities.

Even though race is a complicated matter in my country, I consider myself white, my parents and grandparents are all white. And I'm not talking about olive-skin Italian type or southern european type. I want my son to be like me, tall and white. In the end of the day it’s just survival, I think. I mentioned Russia because usually tall, beautiful white women in Brazil are more difficult to get than in Russia, I think mixed-race and black men in Brazil are obsessed over blonde white women.

I know, I'm not proud of my preferences, it feels almost dirty, I feel ashamed of it, but I can’t simply ignore the truth.

I have multiple women interested in me, the problem is they are not attractive to me. The ones I really want, usually young, white with german descent, for example, are tough to get. And I almost don't have any social circle. This will sound very low development, but being honest: I want my kids to be white looking and tall, so I won't settle to any girl. Maybe I will be better off traveling to Russia, I think I could be considered pretty handsome over there but idk I'm just waiting to get my degree and have some money.

Yes, make sense.If a woman leaves you for another man, she just wasn't the right one. I don't think my thread had this obvious answers. But maybe you are right. What vibe exacly do you get from me? You can be honest

@Leo Gura But trying to get another man’s girl isn’t corruption? And I’ve been heartbroken in the past so many times, I can’t take it anymore lol

@Leo GuraThere is this one cute girl in my class, we keep flirting to one another, but she has a boyfriend. Even though I'm sure she is attracted to me, I'm pretty sure she won't leave her boyfriend for me. Should I keep flirting with her or stop? I'm afraid I will get seriously heart broken

Yes, I will be looking for some good ones. That's a pretty high level of corruption right there. Usually backfires I think. What is your opinion on this @Leo Gura ? Santa Catarina state.

Thank you, nice advice. Yes, the lack of social circle is one big problem, i consider myself kind of handsome ( maybe I'm delusional lol) but I'm pretty lonely, I have no friends and don't interact with women outside med school.

Thx, I'm going to check these out.