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The fact that you love your girlfriend is enough and you don't need to feel ashamed or guilty for your past Because you love her and that's something Love is enough just focus on the fact that you love her with all your heart Do not overthink or doubt much about yourself Just be in that space of certainty that you love her That's all that is needed friend

Sorry I guess I made this topic in the wrong place Move it to spirituality if you may thank you sorry again

Sorry for commenting maybe it's none of my business commenting here But why anyone would need to heal shame? If I am ashamed of something then I let myself be ashamed there is no shame for me for feeling ashamed

God's plan is Love Love Love Love Beautiful Loveeeee

How is acceptance different from letting go? Oh I see Maybe acceptance is let it be And letting go is let it not be Somehow that makes sense to me now Then again maybe there is not that much of a difference at all between them is there? I don't know

Who needs pleasantness Let me suffer if I must Why not Also I myself don't encourage psychedelics anymore to anyone And I don't use them myself anymore I don't reject it also but just don't want to encourage it too

It is from us whatever is happening to us Persian Proverb

From whatever hand you give you shall take from the same hand Persian Proverb

Judge yourself before you judge anyone else Imam Ali

If you want to get rid of what you think is your insecurities just don't want to get rid of them and let them be there so what?

Yes

It depends only on you You find any value in it good You find no value in it good It depends on you actually

Who knows It's a mindfuck A Mystery Wow

And if He (God) puts all of us to Hell He knows better if we deserve that Attar

You have within you more love than you could ever understand Rumi

If there was no Intelligence at all how could anything be possible? Everything is possible because there is an Intelligence behind everything behind the world behind creation

Falling in love is never obvious to the ones falling in love It just happens suddenly You never know and never could know if you will fall in love Somehow out of the blue you find yourself being in love with someone for no reason at all Because love doesn't follow reason You can't put your finger on it You just are in love and it's not by your will anymore

No it's not Love is only about love if a relationship is for Love There are some roles for men and women in relationships true but those even get destroyed for Love when needed if it's for love And also in this day and age you know that gender roles are blurring out so there's also that Nobody knows anymore what a man must do and what a woman must do in a relationship Gender equality is making the lines disappear as we go on So who knows anymore who is provider and who is receiver Although there are still some natural male and female instincts for males and females In the end if you want love it's worth compromising everything for your beloved and not overthinking or doubting much Try to do whatever she or he wants as best as you can

There is no paradox everything is one actually

Do you need a degree for understanding stuff? I mean isn't it possible to understand stuff without a degree? Sure is Specially in this day and age when you can find anything on the Internet for free

How is this connected to being gay? Why? A straight guy can't understand women you think?

You are the honored guest Do not weep like a beggar for pieces of the world Rumi

The soul has been given it's own ears to hear things the mind does not understand Rumi

Yes you are so am I so is everyone So cheer up

It is painful for everyone Because we humans are not just objects of pleasure and don't like to be one We are not Objects and should not objectify ourselves If we do that we're reducing from our soul's greatness