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@diamondpenguin at least some people wake up. it’s weird how this higher technology stuff is what probably initially brought you here and at the same time what will also help you out. you are closer to the understanding of what dreams are made of but at the same time at a source where you create dreams that seem untouchable. there are touchable metalevels to that - it’s not that you learned that here but you are seeing its shadow. me, too.

sounds like alignment with ignorance in general. just depends on the perspective. is it cosy here for the ego? it’s more d***ass than badass from my perspective. but hey if it makes you feel good.

@Roy no lots of phlegm doesn’t sound like it - it’s not a wet cough. it’s so dry you might not be able to call it caugh.

@Mason Riggle is this covid related? i heard a lot of shit happens because of the social situations. domestic crime rate went up so much, too. wish you and her good luck!

i can only tell you guys whatever the problematic is - weather its the partners ‚fault‘ or not or leaning to traumata on one side of the relationship - it’s better for the partner, child, parent whoever to also seek therapeutic help. also if its a past traumata.

@paprika sounds like a female narcissist - and does NOT have much to do with female/male problematics. in longterm relationships there can be problematics like criticism and problematics like only telling a limited and onesided perspective on the details of the incidents. however you probably know yourself how much of self is involved or not - it sounds like she at least has a depression. and if i were you and you still want to give the relationship a chance i would not shame her with presupposing any psychological illnesses more than a depression but i would also confidently support her to visit a psychologist and ask myself if its really really just her problematic or are you in anyway involved? i mean in all regards involved or disinvolved? i‘m asking because narcissism is a heavy accusation you didn’t make - although it sounds like a heavy psychological issue, maybe one that would dissolve with a therapy or couple therapy or maybe not. doesn’t sound like you tried to find out, yet. the physical part is a bit alarming. sounds like you might be in a depression aswell. you guys are married and you lived together longer than you are married - since when is this happening?

@RendHeaven you sound like a real d*** and if you want to be badass stop conflating your visual blind spots for spirituality and by the way some doormats actually ARE loved.

had it, too. was not so nice - one night i got really high fever in total the fever lasted for maybe three days and two days of temperature - and i couldn’t cough even though i could feel there was sth sticking to the surface of the upper breathing organs - maybe even a bit deeper but i didn’t go to the doctor because of quarantine - kind of stupid i don’t even know if i had a lung infection or not. only thing that worked was a caughing practice a new york based practitioner shared on youtube and i tried a lot of teas and all the tricks i usually use against colds, which did not work much. (although i don’t know exactly as i took everything i had might have also rescued me) and i was pcr tested negative - could only prove it afterwards with an antibody blood test. some of the details are really stupid. in retrospect i should have gone to a medical practitioner to get my lungs checked. i was negatively tested sick at home in quarantine because of contact. ah and the caughing remained for two weeks or so and i got small bleeding at the back of my leg for one day. ah and what also helped were these ayurvedic caugh relievers i brought from india - can’t find them anywhere in europe but they really helped eladi or sth like that. technique: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=OKjVbEcW6zY

no it’s low operations - the problem is that being in contact with alone the theory about it is so toxic that people don’t expect it - because it’s so low consciousness therefore it might surprise people. even in that time there were more conscious theories which impacted the world much more profoundly than machiavellianism - the medici were a whole dynasty who influenced artists and theories still present today in a much higher operated political field and energy than this shadow figure of self deception. machiavelli is mere an illusionist of a fear monster which is eating up the machiavellianist from inside. the video states the dark triad has nothing to do with it - ofc it has, its a false claim to begin with to say it has not. i’m not saying every political schemer is a machiavellianist though.

its selfperpetuating. rules rules rules rules - who says rules work. it’s becoming a mono cultural selfperpetuating male trap a story you tell yourself so you can dominate those who might be more genuine. insecurities and egotism.

it’s really sneaky - the fear, accompanying fear, reproducing fear one of his most innate principles is a vicious cycle it holds the person in power in a self created hell, basically always needing to be attentive against even more scheming individuals. it‘s unbelievable this is still seen as a perspective by people. but ok it makes movies and theaters more animated.

probably - but only partially. i guess there could be more female audience than is eager to write here. the male audience part in the forum somehow is self perpetuating which does not leave much room for intimacy a lot of women would want to talk about.

@SamC yeah i know it’s funny, isn’t it - but if you can’t use my time better than trying to get fast triggered reaction i might have to put you on the ignore list. what you do with your time is your own thing.

@SamC it has nothing to do with selfishness or selflessness. at least he seldomly displaces them.

@SamC displaced memes of memes - sometimes come across shallow - if you do that has nothing to do with selfishness or selflessness it somehow just showes shallow reactiveness instead of self reflection on your side.

@Eph75 all systemic models after all are just models to figure out the internal conflict - where these distinctions then really come from and how they were established in us is a much more physical or direct experience than all models can provide. the path to more selfishness/selflessness is as you say more painful than easy and more full of trigger points than we sometimes want to admit. thanks for the contemplations earlier.

@dflores321 probably.

@dflores321 i still think that position holds tricks and selfishness has more facetes than selfishness, still making a freudian distinction with an ego/self duality - if selflessness is a shadow then i suppose it must be a form of selfishness you did not experience much - i can see the perspective you are opening up for me but can not see the perspective you have in it. it distorts a bit the view.

A) why is that so? B) ah - no it’s a-symmetrical pointing back to A)

you must confess that women seldomly talk about all of their cycle issues in the forum while men constantly do about their hormones. it’s not at all the same. men somehow constantly ask for that kind of understanding and then are not trying to understand that hormonal differences throughout a month are a challenge on its own - no its not much of interest to men. usually. don’t even wondering why no one talks about it much.

@dflores321 i really thought about it - is there any duality in your selfishness model? sounds a bit like existentialism - ofc it’s a legitimate worldview if you fancy that. it’s so tricky

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@Michael569 no problem, it’s really about this pressure into a personality who should always care. without defining where energy can also sometimes be spent to reach own goals. one part is probably time management. i‘m really having similar problems in these aspects.

sorry but it sounds so much like an excuse and ego trap - i wonder if you ever get into conflicts with that view. but hey if you can do the mind math everytime then, congratulations, sounds less impractical than the dual version. it‘s like what all sages teach: be selfish every day a bit more. or so (can’t be right, can it) i know some people like to get ultimatively nondual with one or the other. @Preety_India i‘m checking out some brainstorming methods - would that be a start? maybe it would be a good start to contemplate what more specifically you’d like to get more selfish about.

you are confusing your models with real self value problems. ofc is survival selfish - and therefore you are selfish as well telling someone who‘s going about root chakra healing a distorted way of selfishness. ofc you can’t heal ego problems if you can’t heal your own distortion - the aggression towards someone else who dares to want to achieve sth for themselves. which might be connected to just finding a work aligned with their life purpose or a partner or other immaterial selfishness.