Bobby_2021

Even if you don't socialise, the time you listen to someone is enough for you to unconsciously adopt their frames. I despise people who merely parrot what they hear on the internet. They are unbearable. So when I do it, it's incredibly cringey and stupid. I know I am not that kind of person. I have never been. You are more vulnerable to adoption other people's frames when you are more desperate. If you are on high alert, then there is no way you would adopt their worldviews. It's clear how Andrew Tate is focusing him frame on young impressionable minds. But everyone else is also doing the exact same thing. Trying to infect your minds with stupid frames and ideologies of thinking.

Leo's latest video on socialisation was absolutely spot on. It's incredible how Leo manage to speak exactly on point clearly in every single video. This should be the point of life. I don't socialise. I only listen to extremely smart people. But the problem is that I get dependent on those few intelligent people. They can get me through most of the situations. But ultimately life is meant to be fought and lived alone. I have accidentally allowed the frame of someone else to reside in my mind. I cannot have him near me to make every one of my decisions. I have to make my decisions alone. I am off to deconstructing the residue frame in me by some people.

@Razard86 Peterson delivered a level headed take. He didn't endorse monarchy. He even said it will eventually disintegrate because it's hard to manage and you need someone impressive for it. Having a monarch can also act as a check to the power of the government and how it generates more income than he spends. He arranged everything he said into a beautiful lecture.

Me and my girl had only a 5 month relationship. She asked first, and I gave into it without much thought. There was nothing serious going on, but it was a lifeless souless relationship. We never truly felt the spark. Having gotten out of it, I felt a great relief and freedom and she probably felt it too. Iit has been over 3-4 years since we broke up. I decided to remain single for a while to get my life on track. My problem is that I strongly feel a need to know how is she doing. I used to care like that once in a while. She is still my friend, but do not have any contact. I can't get her out of my head. I do not want her back since we are not even slightly compatible. But some parts of my mind haven't yet come to terms with it. Also I wasn't always like this. I managed to keep myself engaged in college and career for 3 years and now I am at home taking a break looking for better opportunities. I have a little more free time in my hand, but my mind keeps replaying all the memories I had with her. I don't feel like I am in control of my mind. It's a complete and utter waste of time I know it, but I can't stop it either. How do I come to terms with it? I would love to hear anyone else having similar experiences.

@Loba Excellent Words. Everyone's inputs gave me something valuable. I appreciate it a lot.

Maybe they want an outlet for the inner devil and desire for power.

This was the better route in retrospect. However I wanted to maintain good terms with the girl post breakup. This means that I will be seeing some of her content once in a while which might interrupt me moving on.

Agreed. I miss my school days. Schools do a good job of giving you basic understanding of reality which serves as a hood foundation for the work you do later.

I am only human, afterall.

Normies won't get hired at Tesla. You have to be highly skilled or be high value to be hired and work for such bug projects. Which is my point. A high value man would choose a high value woman. Then they can both grow together. One of them has to be the leader in the relationship. It's a man's job, more often than not.

I don't wish to turn this into abortion discussion by continuing further, because that is not the purpose of this thread. My final point is that featus is an autonomous being/entity capable of feelings, thought and virtually every other functions that is done by a fully developed human body. It's just wrong to reduce it into a glob of cells while you jack off. FYI killing a pregnant women is considered as double murder, by law. But a woman willingly killing the featus is considered not a murder. It is exempted from the double murder situation. Perhaps I should include that in the hipocracy list as well. PM if you wish to continue this convo.

One is a threat to society and other is a potential gift to society. What kind of featuses are you talking about? Puppy featus? Shark featus? Human....

This is indirectly suggesting that a women's value is tied down to her man. It's absolutely possible that a high value woman is paired up with an asshole, thereby degrading all values in the process. Women's value is dependent on her, first and foremost, not her man. That's probably the reason why a high value man choose her.

I know right. Distraction is the easiest solution and works the best for the short term. I decided I had enough for the moment.?‍???

I can confirm that it's definitely that. Trying to foget her is making me into a mess. That could definitely be it. Every time I start to process it, I am rushing through the whole situation. But rewinding the past over and over again is painful.

Yes, for the rich and wealthy.

Thanks for the input. I probably restrict myself a lot unnecessarily. Also writing stuff down is an incredibly effective tool which served me pretty good in the past. Will make use of it.

@Leo Gura Intelligence and intellect are different. Intellect as sadguru definite is your ability to dissect, analyse and compute, and process information. Your cognitive processing power. Intelligence is the super set, of which intellect is a small rather insignificant element. With regards to working memory here are the most practical tips to improve. I have done tons of experimentation on this field in a first person way. This is not ordered in any particular way. I am just dumping all my thoughts. 1. PRACTICE RECALL You should look at something and then immediately close your eyes or look away. Now from your memory, recall the most peculiar and specific aspects of your visual. Maybe there are shapes, colours or just anything at random that caught your attention. If you are starring at a page in a book, there must be some words that immediately gets stored in your cache memory of your mind. You should actively try to recall it. DO NOT EXPECT PERFECTION. Whatever you can recall is enough. The point is to have fun recalling what you have seen. Even if you only retain 1% of what you have seen that's enough. Then just forget what you have recalled and try recalling it again. 2. CONNECT AND DRAW RELATIONSHIPS. If you want to remember numbers, notice the similarities and differences between symbols. Watch leos sameness vs differences video for more. Basically you have to put it into practice. You have to find a creative way to link what you have observed. Every thing that you observe is a *difference*. Reality is made out of difference. So by default, differences need two things to differ. This is a basic and fundamental definition. A cat is a difference in reality. Which is made up if further differences. Now you need to compute the differences between a cat and a dog entirely in your mind. Now read history books and remember the dates. Keep refreshing your memory instantly of what you have read. It just boils down to practice imo. You have to develop CURIOSITY. Look infront of you and then close your eyes. Whatever you retain is your working memory. Working memory is closely related your IQ. Verbal IQ is mostly meaningless. I am not sure about it's real world applications. To make it simple, take a paper and draw a line. Now recall it from memory. If you want to remember something, then you have to model that object with respect to already developed fundamental differences that you have already observed. If you look at a circle or a square, it's easy to recall it since you already know that a square is nothing but a configuration of 4 equal sized lines. But if I give you a shape that you cannot express as a combination of previous "differences" that you held in your mind, it would be difficult. 3. Play chess and do mathematics. Lots of it. Play blindfold chess and do mathematics in your head. That would help I guess.

One of the most blatant hypocrisy of the recent times. The same people who are pro abortion virtue of My Body My Choice were also pro mandatory vaccinations and discrimination of the un vaccinated. The fact that mandatory vaccinations violated the bodily autonomy of the people were treated with total disregard and the same people said the state has no right to intervene in laws governing women's bodies and abortion because it was their body. To be fair, this can also be tagged as hipocracy on the conservative side as well, not just liberals. Those who sided for My Body My choice when it came to vaccine also forced pro life, anti abortion laws which violated autonomy over women's bodies.

Death is by far, more merciful than rotting in a cell with dangerous psychopaths. Death is liberation. And people don't know how hard prison is, especially for serious offenders. You will be picked on and tortured by other inmates depending in how serious your alleged crime is. Imagine going through this while being innocent. If I was convicted after being innocent I would choose death rather than prison.

Hei you?✌️

Explicit answers would help. From reading @Razard86 @LSD-Rumi I think the answer is that I am simultaneously the Leo avatar, and the Leo individual, so as Razard, avatar and individual and Rumi, avatar and individual while also being Bobby, individually.

When you say "You are Leo" Do you mean the avatar Leo that appears on the screen talking to me in actualised.org YouTube videos? OR I am the actual individual Leo who is living his life in LA, with seperate thoughts and emotions feelings etc. Simultaneously also leading a life in India, typing on this forum right now. Which one is it? Is it both?

Same. If you could afford to migrate, then you are already highly skilled worker. Normies cannot migrate. Indian Americans are the primary example of this. Not the only one of course. Largely it does. Wealthy parents have privileged kids whose privilege compounds. Because jobs in the past didn't require IQ. Anyone who decided to work hard could make it. So the migrants didn't have any particular power to leverage. These days jobs in tech, finance etc require high Iq and hard work. Modern times also have increased upward mobility compared to past. So high Iq migrants leveraged that.