Magnanimous

Guys, look, a bit more about my situation I won't be able to apply the ppl pleasing and loneliness video lessons for literally months because of my goals right now. Just answer this question: Can I watch the satisfaction meditation on it's own, with the intention of boosting my baseline level of happiness, without watching the ppl pleasing and loneliness video (which I will come back too)? I appreciate all of you trying to help me

Look, I think I'll just watch the satisfaction meditation on its own. I don't really care about people pleasing and loneliness because of my current life situation. And from the few glimpses I've had of the satisfaction video, I've gathered it doesn't necessarily have to be done in order to cure the two issues. It can be used to gradually increase your baseline happiness. Which is something I want. No probs if you guys wanna object. But so far this is my decision.

Can I literally just do it on its own?

Fuck no

Wtf That can be so horrible. I don't know much about Spiral Dynamics, but what I'm guessing from my limited grasp on it are that the most attractive people in those stages are usually bad boys, manipulative, abusive, etc. Healthy attractive men in those stages are very rare. But if it were a more developed woman, would they want a more advanced stage, like (maybe Green, and I say maybe because Green men may be too emotional even for Green girls, and) Yellow? Edit: Do you think if more women were conscious of Yellow (most people don't even know there's something beyond Orange. So Green is already hard to learn about; Imagine Yellow), the desire for Yellows would increase? My input is yes they would. Orange and Red scumbags aren't really ambitious. But a Yellow is, and that will stretch usually into all dimensions of life because of their desire for self-actualization, not just success. So their attractiveness would skyrocket past these scumbags, and they would have superior integrity and ethics too.

1. Where's the rape evidence? Ik you wouldn't lie btw, Leo, but just asking, cuz I've never seen it 2. Why would a person as attractive as Andrew Tate need to rape? 3. Speaking of attractiveness, this question just occurred to me while writing. You once said that women were attracted to Red/Orange traits (in a forum post), even if they were bad, and Andrew obviously displays a lot of these. Is there any way to be more attractive without being like that? Also I'm not trying to denounce the positive qualities of the two stages. Such as the ambition of Orange. I'm only discussing some negatives, especially pertaining to Red. Like literally being able to rape a girl. You said girls liked that. Maybe I'm not remembering things right though. Correct me on point 3 if I'm wrong.

Need help cuz I want more life to live for further mastery of things I love but I don't wanna get scammed Also, should I buy spiritual products from Clickbank like manifesting tools? They could really help but I get the vibe a ton of em are scams

Have u tried it before lol?

Why?

Hi Lately I've been getting insecure because I've been comparing my natural talents to those of others. I just get insecure because other people sometimes have talents that are better than mine What to do?

I know. Especially if we got famous by following our callings - fame and success in our favoured way would rock

I once heard Leo say to set a goal of 10k hours of meditation, but I'm not sure if I should track how many hours I meditate. Why? Because meditation is a lifelong (or a long-time pursuit that terminates when it fully crosses over into your non-meditating life) pursuit. Should I keep track of it?

I don't know when to do it. Need guidance on it. Also, I'm a teen focused on self-actualizing work in this part of my life. When you answer, just give me details that answer the question, not any other extraneous matter, as that could shake up my mental space. Reasoning to back up your answer is tolerated too.

What's the right section?

I'm pretty sure age isn't the end all indicator, but you can answer that way. "In what ways do you think your mental state could be affected by our replies here?" Sometimes when I read some comments on the forum containing spiritual details I react negatively because of their contents. Sometimes, these details can be posted alongside a person's answer to a question. I react negatively because of their contents: An example is sometimes seeing one of Leo's spiritual comments and it negatively affecting you, because something about it relating to your life

I haven't figured out my Life Purpose yet, but I've been inspired to be a writer, and chances are, my Purpose will be creative. I've had a lot of ideas for future novels, and I have a hunch that many major contributions to their contents will be from past experiences, which include my talents, which include certain sports. But I'm not sure if pro sports will be in the future. Would it still exist?

I don't really know much about spirituality cuz I'm doing actualizing work at this point of my life (I'm a teenager), so plz explain your answer in a way I can answer. Ok, so I've seen some of Leo's vids and he seems to be encouraging you to be more unbiased as you progress higher and higher in development (notably spiritually). But because of this now I don't see the point of learning positive thinking. Because (is sounds that) optimally, you want to be as unbiased as possible. Any point to learning positive thinking, optimism, etc?

Ok Also, I heard from another forum user that unless you're getting into spirituality (or at least in the way Leo teaches it (I think that's what he meant)) I shouldn't be concerned with holistic thinking. Should I still learn it? It seems really useful. And if I want to create a massive, great body of work I think holistic thinking would really help due to its nature of connecting the dots, and that ability would strengthen over the time via repeated practice. I presume holistic thinking will become automatically after a while of repitition.

@SamC I haven't fully understood everything you've said about consciousness, and I'm not sure if I will. In your paragraph, is what you're saying this? If you want to maximize your ability to be a positive thinker, you should use consciousness and practice positive thinking techniques that don't use consciousness, eg by implementing Leo's teachings on positive thinking in his videos?

Edit before reading: Chaning self-actualized person to self actualizing Specifically Andrew Tate. I know he's extremely selfish, and acquires what he wants, but isn't a self-actualizing person doing all the good habits, eg working out, eating clean, and following their life purpose a lot happier than him? He seems to be just chasing the classic material goals of money and pussy. It does look like a really fun life, and it certainly is the peak of traditional materialist fantasies, but isn't someone following their purpose just better off in terms of mood?

Let's face it, I want all my romantic partners to be virgins. Anything bad about that?

Mine is this: I don't know how to trigger this state completely, but I know it happens when meeting new people (and being engaged by something?). In it, I'm high energy, charismatic, funny, high vibe, extrovert, and (basically but not necessarily) unrestrained with my words. I don't think I've fully described it because I haven't been in it long enough and I'm not that articulate, but that's the gist of it. It gets me really popular and tons of girls. But all the time, (especially after my first encounter with people), it just dies down and I'm reduced to a pretty normal state. Of me just talking in a logical, monotone voice, without that much enthusiasm. Basically the opposite of that peak state I just described. We could say that's the positive polarity of my social capability, and this is my nuetral. How to get into that positive state on command? Plz question me if you need more details on the state.

Is flow state the same thing as "state"?

Did an edit. Does that capture what I'm trying to convey: Is a self-actualizing person better than Andrew Tate in happiness?

Wtf