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Yeah i can vouch as well, been following him for a few months on all his channels, he keeps it real and drops bangers all the time, his Beyond The Alchemy channel is amazing.

I would assume it would be impossible to do it while having a wife at home, that's why i responded so that others won't think the same will happen to them, in case they have a wife or a girlfriend of course it will be basically impossible, unless of course the partner also wants to practice celibacy, which is rare anyway.

That's a phase that goes away, usually people who make this critique on semen retention imagine that horniness only increases with time and never goes away even tho for me for example it calmed down after 3 weeks and hasn't came ever since (of course i would get slightly horny from time to time but nothing crazy), i don't go crazy or anything, i'm calmer than ever and i'm about to be 2 years into a streak, best decision i've ever made or will ever make in my life, can't think of anything that compares honestly. One needs to watchout for their sexual thoughts, only that way they can be stuck in the horniness if they think sexually all the time, and of course they shouldn't supress the thoughts but just notice them and let them be, not involve themselves with it and with time they will be less and less frequent, it's normal that something like this will be hard to stop or calm down, we are talking about transcending the 2nd biggest instinct a human has, of course it will be hard, but if something is this hard than imagine what's going to be on the other side when this challenge is overcome, not saying that you should be doing semen retention, you don't have to and you can go the opposite direction, i just responded so that people don't actually think that their horniness won't go away, so they understand it's just the part of the process and everyone goes through it, it's a short phase, not a state for life.

That's great, yes this is the best dopamine reset there is cause usage of sexual energy wastes by far the most dopamine and energy out of any other action there is in life, sitting with a craving is a great approach. I recommend you to checkout this guy (https://www.youtube.com/@BeyondTheAlchemy) for videos about NoFap/Semen Retention/Brahmacharya, i've seen so many audiobooks, books, sources and YT channels over the last 3 years on semen retention and Brahmacharya and this guy is absolutely the best one, really chill, keeps it real, has experience cause he is like around 50 years old and has been doing it since his teens, explains things in such detail and depth and is conscious about it, check his content out, it will absolutely help you like it helped me, also he has another channel (https://www.youtube.com/@spiritualrenaissance) which is more about spirituality/nonduality, also quality so you can see it if you want. Also you can add basic dopamine detox into the mix, you know staying away from too much technology and social media, it's up there with brahmacharya imo, even tho brahmacharya is the best, i personally fell in love with it and i'm probably going for life, unless life leads me to another direction of creating a family etc., i won't mind of course, but i doubt that it will happen, life is too blissful on it, heaven 24/7.

Just do brahmacharya for 6-12 months and you'll be good, all that "boredom" and "creepinees" will go away, those things aren't natural unless a person doesn't do brahmacharya, which most people don't.

High vibrational women are necessarily attracted to high vibrational men and vice versa, it's just that the high vibrational women you're thinking of i wouldn't consider high vibrational, those are good but still not good enough to meet this standard of high vibrational women that i'm talking about, there is less than a million of these women on the planet, those women that don't even care about physical side of relationships, no sex, cuddles, kissing, all that bullshit, intimacy happens only on the level of the soul, it's almost like a friendship but it's still a relationship, it's by far the most pleasurable type of relationship, it's massively rare but it exists, it's just that the world is not ready for something like this yet, it wouldn't be taken seriously from most people because of how animalistic the world still is, but that's fine, it's all a part of the process.

He never said it was a necessity but that it's the best advice, and those women who like those guys are obviously immature, low vibrational women anyway, you don't want that in your life unless you're really unwise, you should want high vibrational women, assuming that you're a high vibrational man, there are less of those but they are of higher quality.

Exactly, this is it, everything else is just games and techniques, but THIS is what it really all boils down to, once you have this advice you don't need anything else.

Brahmacharya/semen retention is the only thing that will truly help you with a problem like this, i'm talking from the personal experience, other techniques can be helpful as well but they don't fix the core problem, brahmacharya/semen retention does. This video is a good place to start, give it a try!

Good that you deleted Instagram and keep in mind that parties, alcohol, sex is all just a waste of time and energy, it doesnt lead to ultimate happiness so those things don't matter, focus on the actual thing that is gonna give you happiness and actual pleasure which is going within and reconnecting with your higher self, you can do this with the best tool which is Brahmacharya of course, meditation, introspection, diet that makes you feel light and doesn't take too much energy to digest, quality sleep, not taking any substances like alcohol or drugs, and just making your life as pure as possible, the more pure it is, the more connected you are, the more bliss you will experience in you baseline state, anxiety, OCD and all those types of negative disorders will be fully gone, the less you will desire all the clickbait pleasures like alcohol, sex, parties and because humility will naturally come as well with a healthier lifestyle your pride will naturally also be gone which is what makes you feel bad about the quality of your college and will naturally remove the jelaousy because you will know that you found what you and everyone is looking for through things like parties, sex, alcohol, higher universities which they never find in those things and waste their life away which is ultimate happiness, your true self. You are not stupid for being academically "weak", the fact that you can self-reflect like this and do it on this forum tells me that very probably you are above most of your peers and those people who attend fancier schools are not necessarily smarter than you for that same reason above, consciousness and wisdom>smartness even tho both sides are good, but going to a fancier university won't make someone figure out the ultimate happiness aka our true nature and then aligning our practical life with it's wisdom which is basically kinda the goal of life, and you are closer to achiving that goal than most of those people, but that doesn't make those people stupid either, it's just a matter of destiny, and in that sense people like you, me and many on this forum are luckier then them so use that luck and of course don't kill yourself, you like all of us will die anyway one day so may as well go full out in life and give your best no matter what, especially when your destiny gives you a golden ticket in life which is being lucky enough to even know about a source of information like this channel and forum which helps you know about what to even do with life which most people don't and then waste it.

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I don't get what you mean when you say "mess" with your sleep, do you mean you sleep less or the sleep itself is bad? Because i sleep 4 hours a day because of all the energy but it's quality sleep, it feels natural, of course this is because of Brahmacharya, before it i used to sleep 7-8 hours and i assume with years i will naturally get to 2-3 hours of sleep, but even 4 is great for me cause i have like 20 hours a day which is great for me, more time for daily life

Fair, i respect that, but what do you mean you didn't orgasm each time? Like do you mean ejaculate or literally didn't even have an orgasm?

Well SR is specifically for men but that's why i recommend Brahmacharya because it's for both genders. Read this, it's short and simple but explains the value of saving sexual energy for women: https://glorian.org/connect/blog/should-women-avoid-orgasm Also i recommend these 2 absolute mastepieces on this topic, they are Leo-esque videos but about sexuality: Like really watch these 2 videos, not just you but anyone else reading this, they are absolutely astonishing, beautiful.

I get what you mean but no, diet is much more subjective and depends more on an individual than Brahmacharya, Brahmacharya is an universal tool that's objectively the best tool every human can access for getting the most possible bliss/happiness/pleasure out of life, diet depends more on the genetics, saving sexual energy absolutely doesn't

Nah don't, stay celibate and get on Brahmacharya, it's a game changer, feels like heaven 24/7

Fair, you can feel those things but you don't have the contrast between "feeling more yourself", "feeling more energized" and "feeling happy" by sexual release and getting those same feelings by saving your sexual energy/Brahmacharya. Point being, counter-intuitively you would feel all those things you mentioned much more intensified and also consistent (24/7, it wouldn't be in motion that comes and goes like when it is as a consequence of sex but it would be a baseline state that gradually gets better) if you actually didn't have sex (+ release sexual energy in any other way) for a few months to years and basically saved that energy, may sound unbelievable but its true

He is not lying, you just got used your whole life living in a state where you wouldn't wait 1-2 weeks before the next release of sexual energy so you thought it's actually normal to feel the way you feel, you don't think it's that bad, but if you were to for example wait those few weeks to a month in between every release of sexual energy you would with time have a contrast between how you feel after consistent releases post 14 days and you would see how much better your overall baseline state is when you wait a few weeks between sessions instead, but you would also have to be conscious when you are releasing to catch that contrast in states before and after a release and with time you will be sensitive to it, it may take months or years but it will click at some point, i know because i can testify personally, every single person loses sexual energy after sex and masturbation whether they notice it or not, most people unfortunately go their whole life without really noticing it, without it clicking for them

There are many ways but other ways are pointless if one doesn't use Brahmacharya to increase it because Brahmacharya is the biggest increaser of ojas, others are good but again, they don't really compare, it would be like having 7 different hammers for some big nail, and 6 of them are very weak and small and one is much bigger and stronger and then we go and use the 6 small ones instead of using the by far the biggest one, we can still get some progress with small 6 hammers but why not just use the biggest one we got and get that nail in in one go instead of wasting time and energy

I will give it a try

I don't recommend tantric sex, it's an excuse for still having sex but making it "spiritual", it's better to have actual sex than having tantric sex, because even tho you don't lose your semen as a guy you still lose sexual energy/ojas so it doesn't matter that much that you don't literally release. It's either you have sex or you don't, no in between. To answer the 2nd part, the whole reason why i and basically everyone who is doing brahmacharya does it is for spirituality, for spiritual benefits, it's not to get women (even tho brahmacharya will metaphysically attract women to you so it's easy if a person really wants to use it as a tool for sex), the bliss/peace/energy combo that one gets from brahmacharya is better than sex or any other pleasure there is, that combo is happening in your baseline state 24/7 and until the day you release the sexual energy, this is why i'm so promotive of brahmacharya, because it's literally heaven on earth, God shines through you fully at all times, this is what everyone is looking for one way or another, even in sex, the reason why one has and desires sex is because it feels GOOD, but Brahmacharya is the number one sources of that GOODNESS that a human being can access, it's 24/7 feeling of the highest/best feeling of "GOODNESS" there is, and it's not something that's dependent on the outside world, you don't need another human to get this source of goodness/pleasure, you don't need pornography, you don't need an icecream, you don't need a dopamine hit, you don't need pleasure from watching a movie, because none of these things compare to the pleasure, to the goodness one gets from Brahmacharya, and one gets it from within, and this makes it fair because basically everyone can access it if they want to but they have to make a big sacrifice by giving up probably their biggest source of pleasure in life which is overall release of sexual energy, and it's not only a matter of Brahmacharya being better but it's also the ultimate thing because it's infinite, it's the access to the infinite, access to God and when one cuts that access they will go back to hell, back to the life of worldy pleasures which aren't ultimate, they can't ever fully satisfy a person, sex can't do this, ice cream can't do this, a movie can't do this, money can't do this, because all these things come and go, they don't last until the next round, until the next sex session, until the next ice cream cone, until the next movie, and at some point a person realizes that they still don't feel satisfied no matter what they try so they usually do 2 things: kill themselves or try spirituality(and spiritiuality is about making the connection with the infinite and the best way to make that connection is brahmacharya, there is nothing that will give you better connection with the source than sacrificing your sexual energy, and if a person doesn't do this they still may get a decent connection with God but it will never reach anywhere near their full potential, they will never get that 24/7 baseline state combo of bliss, peace and energy, they may get a low budget version of it, but it doesn't compare to the high budget version, to the ultimate budget version, to Brahmacharya, and all of this i'm speaking from experience, i know the contrast between my baseline state before and after Brahmacharya and those 2 things are literally HELL and HEAVEN, that's how big of a difference there is, you may think you feel good right now in your baseline state without Brahmacharya but i'm telling you the way you would feel a few months to a few years on ths lifestyle would be an insane difference in happiness/pleasure, i would never ever go back to the life without Brahmacharya, not because i don't allow myself but because i can't do it, this state that i'm in right now is the greatest thing there is in life and i can't give it up, i literally love this state too much, sex is laughable in comparison, you could offer me my perfect soulmate girlfriend with who i would have the greatest sex ever and i would decline because nothing compares to Brahmacharya, to 24/7 God presence intensified to the max

Of couse not, you can't have sex and do Brahmacharya at the same time (it's fine if one does it for procreation tho, but other than that no) I don't know the science behind it but from personal experience i don't think less of it is produced because of the benefits that keep on increasing: energy (i have it every day, the entire day and i basically can't really get tired, at the end of everyday i still feel peacefully energetic, it still includes peace but it's not like a weak type of peace, it's mixed with a lot of energy behind it, it's a strong peace), muscle growth even if i don't workout, i had a period of a few months where i didn't workout at all and all muscles on my body grew a bit without me doing a single workout (running aside but i don't count that as a body workout, it's more for endurance, also when it comes to running i ran a personal marathon a week ago which was around 4 and a half hours of running and i wasn't that tired afterwards, the next day i felt fresh already and i don't even take running that seriously i run for fun, like Forrest Gump as a funny example lmao), hair all over the body becomes thicker and much more of it grows with time, also i just feel motivated and action-focused all the time, i'm hungry for life basically, but at the same time it's a peaceful hunger, not like i'm going to explode from the energy, it's a lot of balanced, quiet energy, and because of all of these examples i don't think it produces less testosterone with time, but even if i tehnically had less of it i don't think it would really matter because obviously i don't feel like that at all, i feel more energetic and masculine (but a peaceful type of masculine, not some agressive type) than i have ever felt in my life, life before and after Brahmacharya are 2 totally different lives for me.

It's true that you can become more angry if you go for longer but if you control yourself and don't ejaculate even that anger will go away after some time and you will be at peace, you can always go more than 2 weeks, i personally do it at all times, if it happens that i have a wet dream (which happens really rarely) so be it but other than that i don't really ever ejaculate and i'm good, don't remember the last time i was angry, just natural purity, peace, bliss and a lot of energy

I don't think you got what i was talking about, my claim is that it's not possible for the mind/human brain to make another human being(in this case most people) that you have never met in your life stare at you like a deer in headlights, you can say that universal mind/God/universe/absolute/higher self can do this but the lower self can't do something like this, it has to be done by the higer self, by a higher power, by something metaphysical, and in this case it happens because the lower self makes a really big connection with the higher self by practicing something like this to the point where the higer self starts giving obvious signs to the lower self that it's on the right path, it's metaphysical, the video you shared has nothing to do with metaphysics, it's more about limiting beliefs and trick a human mind/lower self can make on itself, that's different from reality/universal mind making tricks on you literally in your face, in public, like you are in a movie or something, it becomes paranormal, the example you gave is not paranormal, i understand that whole thing about your human mind creating your reality and it's true it does, but it got nothing on the universal mind and what it can do when one makes a really great connection with it through such a powerful spiritual practice (powerful because it uses humanity's greatest energy source for connection), i'm not disagreeing with you, but that's not what i meant when i asked how can my mind manipulate reality, i was talking beyond the thoughts and beliefs

But if we look at it from that perspective how can i get the benefits i never thought about? The only benefit i knew before doing SR was an increase in energy which i noticed after 3 weeks, the other ones that appeared i didn't think about because i didn't even know they existed so my mind could've not made changes in my body that i didn't even anticipate. And how could my mind manipulate reality? How can magnetism happen which is another thing i didn't know about until after i searched it up because i was creeped out that people and animals would stare at me after 2-3 months of doing SR which obviously didn't happen before, when i started noticing that and started literally getting scared (i felt almost like Truman in that movie "The Truman Show" if you have ever seen it you'll know what i mean) i went on Google one day and was looking for anything about SR somehow making most people consistently on daily bases wherever you go just stare at you (because i didn't know what else it could be considering i didn't make any other changes in my life other than adding SR in that period) and thankfully for my mental state i found people talk about the same thing happening to them, and keep in mind this isn't something i knew about so i couldn't anticipate it until i searched it up a few months after doing SR just for the sake of getting energy for practical life and this stuff goes beyond mind and thought, this is literally metaphysics, it's metaphysical experiences like these that convince a person that this is something more than just some tool for slightly improving your life, this literally changes your reality, you get a new, 2nd life that's basically like a dream, just go on reddit or youtube and if you don't believe me which is fair, look for people who talk about these basically supernatural experiences, especially when it comes to magnetism, search up something like "magnetism semen retention reddit" and you'll see 1000s of stories, i mean are all these people including me deluded? Of course just like you, i'm just giving my perspective, you don't have to agree but i don't see how mind can manipulate reality, this is metaphysical/spiritual and i can't think of any other "tool" that has these types of metaphysical effects, you basically feel like reality/God is playing with you 24/7, universe is being playful and making jokes on you every single day