Harlen Kelly

@Ferdi Le The same could be said for men. @Preety_India The factual, observable reality is that men don't owe you a monogamous relationship, and you don't owe men sexual relationships. The faster you realize this, the less you will suffer. The idea that a guy has to have a monogamous relationship with you after he nails you down is a made up, selfish expectation that will only create suffering. That rule only exists in your mind, you made it up. That also applies to all your other expectations. If somebody does not have the behavioral patterns you desire, you can simply meet somebody else, but unfortunately you cannot force a guy to be with you, and a guy cannot for you to have sex with him.

@somegirl You can do a lot better than him. A relationship with such a codependent person will not lead to personal growth or psychological development.

@StarStruck Only a very pathetic man would accept such a relationship.

@bensenbiz Eye contact and physical escalation is all you need to turn an interaction more sexual. After reaching the hooking point, and after she feels comfortable with you, look at her as if you want to f her brains out. You must exude this energy. No weird facial expressions, just intense eye contact and vicinity. She must intuit that if she is left alone with you, you will pull the trigger and nail her down.

Nofap will not lead to psychological development. You will not become more conscious by virtue of not fapping. By the way, guys who are successful with women, are usually very comfortable with their sexuality, therefore, they don't practice ''no fap''. But if you think no fap will fundamentally help your growth, go ahead.

@Roy Bingo

@fopylo Answer this question, why do nations become more sexually opened as they become more advanced and developed? Why do you think that happens?

@dflores321 Are you still an adolescent? You should not be ''retaining'' semen at that age, that can be potentially damaging.

@somegirl He is manipulative and incredibly pathetic. A good representation of a weak, codependent doormat.

@fopylo You meditate because meditation makes you more conscious. Sexual repression does not make you more conscious. Which does not mean or imply that you have to fap uncontrollably, it just means that the act of restricting sexual expression does not lead to psychological development. In fact, the least developed countries and nations are the most repressed sexually and the most advanced and progressive / liberal nations are the most open sexually. Why do you think that is? As humans become more developed psychologically they don't become more restrictive with their sexuality, they become more open.

@bejapuskas So what is your suggestion, should they both continue with the relationship?

@bejapuskas That is a very scarcity-oriented and naïve view you have. Wasting time with someone who is not compatible with you because of their idea of sexual expression is unnecessary and counterproductive. Delaying that relationship will only create more suffering for both parties. I am not saying the girl is a ''bad'' person for not wanting his boyfriend to masturbate to porn, they are just not compatible and that is totally fine. There are billions of people to choose from for both of them.

@Peter Miklis Why is being masculine not pleasant?

That is in fact creepy, I'll give you that.

@Husseinisdoingfine They are becoming an ever growing voice in the US. Look at the popularity of progressive politicians, particularly among young Americans.

@bejapuskas It would be a lot simpler if OP simply looks for a girl that likes watching porn with him, since he is into it. Problem solved. There is no way that relationship will work.

@bejapuskas She is getting jealous because he is masturbating to porn. It's pretty simple. If your girlfriend got mad at you for masturbating to porn, would you bend over backwards for her and stop masturbating to porn to please her? Or would you simply look for a more suitable and secure partner?

@bejapuskas It's just a matter of standards. There are hundreds of thousands of women that are psychologically and emotionally healthy. Putting up with somebody who has neurotic behavioral patterns is unnecessary and it's a sign you have low standards.

Just because a piece of knowledge elicits suffering on you, does not mean that piece of knowledge is incorrect. ''I hope you believe me'' is a very poor argument. @Ghzem Observe the thought and observe the emotions it elicits without getting attached to the thought.

@fopylo The crowd that follows the nofap movement are not particularly conscious people. The vast majority do it as a neurotic overreaction for their lack of options with the opposite sex. Again, sexual repression is not some sophisticated technique, it's in fact very neurotic.

That's a story you are telling yourself. Porn being a ''bad'' thing is a belief, is not a fact.

She's acting the way she is acting because she is insecure and neurotic.

@mamad It will be absolutely catastrophic later, it's better if you end it now.

@intotheblack I agree. Just keep in mind that even if you are fulfilling all of your boyfriends desires, he will still be attracted to other females, and that does not make him a ''bad'' person. That obviously does not mean that he should let his desires override his relationship with you. A tough pill to swallow for most women, but a pill that needs to be swollen nonetheless.

@Raptorsin7 Such a dull-witted perspective and comment could not possibly trigger me. There is no depth or sophistication to your thinking process, therefore, a rebuttal would be a complete waste of my time.