Harlen Kelly

@4201 If you have a certain behavioral pattern that is pushing people away but you believe it is a good behavioral pattern, does the behavioral pattern become a ''good'' behavioral pattern just because you believe is good? Personalities are not good or bad, certain behavioral patterns are more effective than others when interacting with people. The statement ''your personality is never bad'' does not make any sense simply because some behavioral patterns can be detrimental for your growth and your ability to interact with others. Being emotionally attached to a behavioral pattern that is detrimental for you is not very rational.

@TyshaG

@BadHippie No, this is just braindead conspiracy theories, not any different from QANON conspiracy theories. You are not ''high-conscious'' as you mentioned for believing in conspiracy theories. I would not be surprised if a moderator closes this thread for low quality.

@machiavelli How is this qualitatively different from QANON conspiracy theories? There are real dangers that humanity has to face in the coming years and instead your focused on a conspiracy theory.

@Andrew John If you can't accept him unconditionally for who he is right now then cut ties with him.

@StarStruck False equivalency. You don't have to limit your behavioral patterns to one, you can embody and play out both depending on the circumstance and the person. It should be noted that in most cases dickish, arrogant behavior would work better at the beginning of the interaction. Your behavior should be calibrated and adapted to the person your interacting with.

@kras Get better friends. There are 7 billion people.

@Shin Ignoramuses like that really get under my skin. It's such a pity there are so many mentally-handicapped people in the US.

Fox propaganda has worked incredibly well on your guileless brain. Medical bills is one of the main reasons for bankruptcy in the US. Bernie Sanders was not elected because a big percentage of the US are psychologically/intellectually underdeveloped, religious fundamentalists. Europe does not have that problem because is overall more educated and a more advanced society. Ideological positions like yours is why the united states is one of the least developed countries among developed countries according to the human development index.

Therapy.

In relationships, most of the time they don't for most people. Fulfilling and conscious relationships are a rare occurrence, those are the exception.

@Preety_India You make a lot of sense.

That's actually the point I was trying to make.

So, from your point of view there is no woman at all who experiences depression or other negative emotions for not having a family or long-term relationship by the time they are in their 30s or 40s, right?

You don't think there are women in their 30s or 40s who can even get depressed because they haven't stablished a family or a long-term relationship yet?

The question was: Is getting angry and freaking out a healthy response? Nobody is talking about repressing anything.

@dflores321 Didn't know freaking out and getting angry was a healthy response, I guess I learned something new today.

So you think getting angry and freaking out is totally healthy and normal? @Preety_India Depends on the male and his level of psychological development but most do.

@SageModeAustin If you are terrified of losing her because you cannot attract women reliably there is an incredibly high chance you will lose her due to your potential needy behavior. Which is not necessarily a bad thing since that experience might teach you to not be needy or terrified of ''losing'' her. By the way, you don't ''own'' or ''have'' people, therefore, you cannot ''lose'' them. That's a misperception.

Sounds fishy.

The same you do to bust your limiting beliefs regarding money, there is only one way: getting it. After getting it enough times your mind will normalize it, whatever it is. At the beginning you have a plethora of unsounded beliefs that you can either let go of willingly or you can resist but that resistance will create suffering.

Is that because of ejaculation in general or something specific to you?

@EntheogenTruthSeeker If you were actually confident, a random chick calling you ''creep'' would not have been perceived as a traumatic failure. Your mind wouldn't have even registered that event.

Bro science.

@Preety_India What exactly are you ''saving'' by refraining from having sex, what are you preserving? Not condoning careless sex, I just want to understand your reasoning behind that thought pattern.