Harlen Kelly

Optimistic at best. The reality is that if you don't have sex regularly with your male partner, if you don't stay fit, etc... he will with 100% certainty cheat on you or leave you, that's what would happen in reality not in a fantasy, unless he does not have any options or is a doormat. A guy with options would not accept such a proposition. If what you want is a weak, unattractive guy, he will definitely put up with that. Men don't owe you a relationship, it's ludicrous to think otherwise. It's as ludicrous as stating that you owe men sex. An LTR is maintained through mutual effort. By the way, you can test this in your life, there is no need for ''I believe'' or mental masturbation. If you are a woman and you are in an LTR, last a couple months without having sex with your male partner and see what happens to your relationship. Relationships in real life are not fairy tales from Disney. Or you can also add an additional 100 pounds and see how your good perfect prince from Disney behaves towards you.

Very unwise decision given the failure rate. That does not imply nor suggest that you should engage in anti-intellectualism. Your response to my question was based on anti-intellectualism, which makes this discussion a waste of time for me.

@Etherial Cat 1 - I asked for tangible info in regards to this topic, not what your profession was , why do you feel the need to qualify yourself to me? This is not an interview. 2 - *no sense, not no-sense. 3 - Search the definition of anti-intellectual and contrast it with the response you gave when I asked for tangible information, the adjective fits your response perfectly.

@Etherial Cat In other words, you adopted this ideological position based on merely unsound beliefs and not any tangible information or observation. Very predictable and unsurprising. By the way, being post-rational does not equal being anti-intellectual, being uninformed or even worse, forming maps of reality based on no tangible observations.

@coca There is nothing more high consciousness, loving, and integrity based than getting a chick attracted to you who you barely know, pulling her and making passionate love to her.

@coca I suspect this might be a complex idea for you but, questions are not attacks, questions are questions.

An ad hominem is an attack, I asked a question, questions are not attacks. I would have to know if you have had actual interactions with people in social settings such as night clubs, otherwise it would pointless for me to point out the inconsistencies of your post.

@Gesundheit2 Based. Can you point to any reputable statistic or study (not how you feel or what you believe) that shows that most men (most means over 50%) would not choose to engage in a sexual encounter if given the opportunity? Or is that merely a feeling you have?

@coca Have you ever got the chance to regularly socialize with men and women in social settings?

@coca Are you religious?

@Emerald She does what me and my buddies who are also successful with women do. It's not some secret.

Funnily enough, one of my female friends is lesbian, that chick straight up SLAYS when it comes to attracting very beautiful women. She is better than some of my guy friends, lol.

@StarStruck You are wasting your time.

Most hetero men crave sexual variety, that is an observable, factual statement. Whatever moralization or extrapolation you make out that biological fact, it's your prerogative and it's not factual nor objective. Something else, men don't crave variety because of ''rationalization'', it's a biological inclination. I would advise to actually study how the male mind works from reputable scientific sources in regards to attraction, this is pretty well documented. Your DNA composition is 98% similar to that of a monkey. You can work towards a committed relationship but the odds are against you. The average marriage lasts 8 years in the US. Since you like older guys so much, men are more prone to cheat as the become older, surprise, surprise.

@coca A question is answered with a response, not with another question.

@Village One of the first guidelines of the forum is to not spread misinformation or conspiracy theories about the vaccine. No conspiracy theories: Covid hoax, 9/11 inside job, David Icke stuff, reptilians, Pizzagate, QAnnon, pedophilia accusations, the Jewish question, holocaust denial, etc.

That would be like saying: ''women like wearing make up all the time and worry way too much about their appearance, are women really that dumb?'' Whether you like it or not, what the vast majority of hetero men value most on a woman is her looks, and most men find the idea of sexual variety very appealing. Childish denial will not change that biological fact of men. Your attitude will not change the fundamental inherent characteristics of men. Being in denial is not sign of wisdom, only the opposite. Up to 60% of all spouses will take part in some form of infidelity at least once during their marriage. That includes both men and women. The DNA of a human being is 98% identical to that of an ape.

@coca Do you have any experience with women by any chance? Have you dated women? @Virtus The sooner the better.

Are you trolling by any chance?

@Bobby_2021 Look for videos with actual economists and professionals explaining the topic of wealth tax if you want an elaborative answer.

Bingo.

@diamondpenguin That was pure gold dude.

That's called an analogy. Rebut my claim with a compelling argument. It's not projection, you are implying that the reason for my argument is ''red pill'' and I am asserting that the reason for my argument is sound, rudimentary analysis based on hard data.

@SQAAD It's not red pill ideology, it's rudimentary thinking skills. What you have to do in order to have an educated opinion about this is read the statistics regarding step-parenthood and those types of relationships, what is the success rate of such relationships, etc. Just because there is a chance of surviving if you jump off a cliff, doesn't mean jumping of a cliff is advisable or rational.

You don't have to be ''ego-based'' to understand that single mothers are not the best options for a long-term relationship or family, you need basic critical thinking skills for that. Study the statistics in regards to those types of relationships and step-parenthood, you will be surprised. It's not ''wrong'', it's simply unnecessary when you have better options.