jonny

I want to focus more on actively working with my problems. I haven't done so because I'm not sure exactly how to go about it. This was what I was trying to ask for in my original question but I think it was lost in communication. I'm going to watch these videos and try to look for techniques for being mindful of my thoughts and concepts to try and overcome them.

Yes it can help me and does. Thank you for your help. I've watched numerous videos about enlightenment and similar topics but still struggle with overcoming my "problems". I try to meditate daily. I guess I just need to keep up my work and be patient.

How do you overcome your belief in thought?

thanks! I'll try to find and watch that.

I shouldn't have used the word perfect. I'm not expecting any women to be perfect. I should have said the "right" women.

I've gone to therapists before but it didn't really help. They just listened to what I said and gave me meds.

I guess I just want to be loved by the right women who I cant trust.

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Thanks everyone. I guess I need to work on accepting things more.

Thank you for the help. I think I accept that I'm that way and I'm starting to understand why. I just don't think it's healthy for me to continue on that way. I'd like to work towards being happy. I think seeking out my happiness in another will keep me from doing so.

What is the best way to work on becoming a whole person. I've spent my life trying to find the perfect women to make me happy. My inability to do this has left me depressed and angry. I'm working through both but I'm not sure how to overcome the real problem of being able to be whole. No matter what I try I still have this need to seek out the perfect relationship to make me happy. I think this stems from childhood abandonment issues. I'm constantly watching videos, meditating, and trying to change my negative thought patterns.