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No, really explore hobbies, read, socialize or do whatever you currently enjoy as well as exploring things you're good at and it's likely some ideas will come just from this and don't stress about coming up with them straight away. Also, save and get the LP course. You'll really have the upper hand by knowing your purpose as young as you are, great that you're even asking

Yeah true and who wouldn't want a more intelligent man haha Ngl it's probably every girl's fantasy to be involved in that student-teacher dynamic, as a child it was always the hot young ones in their 20s that I fancied though Still messed up when those scenarios actually come true though.

Weird behaviour and I'd be concerned if it was my daughter ? Even if it doesn't seem like a toxic relationship, it's just strange like he's playing out a fetish or very insecure that he had to choose someone so young to dominate?? But I guess people emotionally mature at different ages too (in terms of your sister) but I personally had no experience with guys at that age and probably would've been easily influenced tbh I don't care about age now (not impressed or influenced by it for example), as a lot of young girls also feel like they're worth more if they attract older guys

Damn crazy story Lucky no one posted you on the internet that you know of ? And pretty sure I know the mosque you're on about ffs loool

Are you @ing me ?

Self doubt

Was gonna say it's a synchronicity or sign from the universe But re-read the part before the lyrics, and it could really be instant manifestation of the law of attraction partially of what you asked for Synchronicities and the law of attraction can be very interlinked For example, one of the times I had a similar goose bump experience is when I dreamt of a little boy in my dream who I didn't know and the next day I decided to dream journal for the first time (to understand my subconscious mind better). Later the same day, I was on a random profile on social media and saw the exact little boy's face and experienced a high vibe state and had an urge to check the time and it was an angel number (when I looked up the specific number it meant that your mind creates everything). So in this case a bit like yours, if could've been the law of attraction or a sign or a sign of the law of attraction hahaha (I also grew up Muslim, then fell in love with science before becoming spiritual ?)

Yes they're not entirely neutral and the articles using these studies are even more biased lol

I'd hope not ?? Then there's surely things men could generally have more power in, like organising finances, legal documents, driving LOL

Love thiss, well done!

Is this 4 years for a bachelor's, or integrated masters or something? If you quit college now, would you have the funding to work on your life purpose and not have to work a job? If not, it might be worth graduating, getting a grad job (if it means better likelihood of getting a job/better pay) and doing your life purpose stuff on the side of all of this. The whole 7 months won't be exam seasons, so you should still have spare time if you allocate 40/50 hours max a week (like a FT job) on studying for college. I had a similar dilemma but I'm deciding to finish my 3 year BEng (in final year now) instead of carrying on for another year and getting an MEng degree.

Meditate by observing your thoughts and seeing them as separate to yourself and not YOU. Whilst meditating you could even visualize each of these problems/thoughts as clouds passing you by and allow them to pass without going off on a tangent with them because they're not a part of you. Meditate regularly like this, or in a similar manner

@SgtPepper Yess! I'm on the fence regarding this topic but good points

Yaasss you've got this! Allow yourself to be alone, and see if any negative feelings/thoughts arise- and journal to uncover what's happening perhaps. Also, meditate often and you could add in some positive affirmations and self-talk

I'm sorry if someone hurt you man, let's move on No one's an assehole here.

@Preety_India Ignore the vulgar man talk, It wasn't intended maliciously. Just some guys outside our hot girls club

I believe so. As a teen I had lots of friends that were "fake relationships" I couldn't be my true self similar to how you've described and my self esteem was veryyyy low! You're definitely still young and can work on being content on your own (if that's an issue for you) whilst also finding authentic relationships

Visualize yourself in situations having great success with girls you like and create the story that this version of you already exists. You're already sexy and funny enough, just go out and do what you desire to. Your reality eventually starts to match up with what you believe you are, just take action

Same here

Thanks, can't wait hehe

You can be content and happy with anything, and gratitude is great...because even if you think you're with a great girl- if you're not grateful for her, you'll always focus on the lack and what more you could have. Same with money and everything else. Nothing wrong with wanting more if you believe you deserve it ofc, but a balance of striving for better and gratitude is best

@Preety_India amazing to hear!!

Lmaooo, thanks man- will do Hmmm interesting and great to hear, thanks! Cheers everyone for the input, I'll just go with the flow the first time and may update you guys in a week or so ??

Yes I have many things I would like to improve, (not desperately NEED to) such as with life purpose, social life, skills etc. I'm not being too specific on these posts because some of them might sound impossible ?? but thanks! I don't know what you specifically mean by "spiritual-work stuff" but I have been meditating for years, done a lot of emotional self-healing and had some spiritual experiences. Particularly had a lot of spiritual growth in 2020 by not actively pursuing it. But in terms of active spiritual work regarding truth that a lot of users do on here, not really and I don't claim to be stage turquoise haha. Thanks for the advice, yeah sounds like a good idea to just experience the new states, nice. I feel quite confident with being able to handle negative emotional and spiritual experiences so I'm assuming I'll be able to soothe any negative turn of events but we'll see ?

Beautiful peeps