JJfromSwitzerland

not to offense you but this sounds like some disney movie bullshit

facts !

True, that's why I don't make posts about Enlightment cause I didn't experience it yet, just red and heard how it is.

haha so true

No you confuse some things, the one who quit with me last time, I wanted more sex but we didn't date so long so I hadn't have sex that often yet with her so that it got bored. It only gets bored after a while - a couple of months normally

yeah, I was becoming too needy That happened to me with all the women I dated - after a while having sex with the same woman I was bored of having sex with the same person

It's just that for people like us who are spiritually underdeveloped a video like your newest one you put out is too much so we can't really handle it and only see the downside and can't see the beauty you talk about.

Maybe cause not all people have access to information about enlightment for example their are trapped in their religion and seek the answer there. There are many barriers, they focus their energy on making a career or something else so there is no time for seeking this kind of stuff.

I thought my post was too mean that's why I overwrote it with this text

exactly, that's what I wanted to say above

alright then, see you soon player;) !

First off all: Please don't start to make a debate about female or male nature! It's just a little confusing to me so that's why I ask the question: There are females and males - biologically you can tell the differences: females are smaller on average and have breasts and males have mor muscles and so on in general, this everybody can tell. So if the rest, let's call it "software" is only a social construct and genders don't exist except from the body differences, why do the dating rules apply and work? So is gender just a social construct or are you born as male or female and also your so called "software" is this gender, what do you think?

that youtube video link you put in is dope because it gives an understandable explanation on your views of the world for people like me who you probably you would consider as someone who don't know shit about your point of view

cause smoking some good crack stones gives you a nice high and it distracts you from all the bullshit you have going on but at the end it makes everything worse but if we are god, don't we create by ourself what we are, so basically god chose to be gay to expierence everything that comes with it?!

@Opo So basically you wanna tell me that this hyper anxiety that Preety is suffering which brings suffering for her life is better than not being afraid of covid? Yes, I think the more you are afraid of something, the higher are your chances are to get it because you only get a strong immune system by exposing your body to certain things - especially as a child. This is also what the covid vaccine does - it gives you a mild form of the virus. You can still get covid with a strong immune system and no anxiety of it but you are less likely to have a bad case of covid.

So if that's the case and as you said in the video gender is a survival mechanism and we just imagine it for survival, why are some human beings gay, what benefits they have from it for survival? Why am I turned on by a naked woman and not of a naked man? Did I create that for myself as a survival mechanism? So that means being gay was also created by oneself. You probably would say because God can expierence it, no?

cool

I think your anxiety of covid is deeper - some other unsolved issue within you, it just manifests now in the anxiety of covid. Since I don't know you, I can't tell you what it is but it is not normal that you have so much anxiety of covid unless you are a risk patient

If you are afraid of covid, your immune system is automatically weaker because mind and body belongs together so you should not be afraid cause the chances that you get covid then are higher because of your psyche, your body is more sensitive and if you get it, you are more likely to have a bad course of covid. So the best thing to do is don't think about covid all the time and focus your mind on thinks you love instead and meditate and whatever is doing good for you so are less likely to get it. But I think the issues are deeper or come from somewhere else, otherwise you couldn't be so afraid of covid. Most people I know are not even afraid a tiny bit of covid eventhough they don't deny it exists.

@Peter Miklis True, I am just lucky to live in the place I do live to have these circumstances and I am thankful for that but if you live in a village (I grew up in a small town), you know everybody so dating advice doesn't really help you there so you don't need this information and if you live in an underdeveloped country, I don't think you need dating advice either. I think you have other issues there

@Shin First: I think you confuse @Regan with me, I made the post and @Regan asks this questions Second, how do you know this, are you Leo? Third, I also wonder if this video was inspired by this post, otherwise it is just a funny, huge coincidence, so @Leo Gura, were you inspired by this post to drop the video 1 day later on actualized.org?

Let me add this: now is pandemic time and people complain about it is difficult to date. For me not at all, I even met the woman I am dating right now in the pandemic time, I just saw her and approached her at daytime in my city - so this is just another excuse. I do understand you need to be careful these days to not catch the virus but for me I take the risk of maybe get the virus but still have a life instead of living in anxiety cause I am young, healthy and feel fit

I agree, I see people here asking so many questions about dating instead of talking to people in real life. I am an open person and talk to many strangers so I don't even ask these dating questions all the people here do, for example at the skate park (skateboarding is my nr. 1 hobby) and gym I get to know many people - men and women cause I am open and because of that I never really struggled with dating

A bit off topic but how long do you need to watch a YT video so that it counts as one view?

@Karmadhi Relax, I thought we are here to discuss and learn