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Neither tbh?? Alright, I'm being harsh here, I'd prob smash, she looks alright

So all the women worth fucking, basically?

@flowboy Right, whatever. I don't care about relationships anyway, so maybe I'm not the best guy to take advice from on this topic.

@flowboy I never was in that kind of situation, that's why I don't know with 100% certainty. I had women lusting over me, but not while being naked. Ofc, if I was in a relationship, I would do my best to resist, but right now I'm single, so I'm comming from that mindset. I'm realistic, that's all. Btw, I like how you're saying I patted myself on the back, and then you proceed to pat yourself over being righteous, loyal guy, hypocrisy much??

Just let it go yall, he said something that he doesn't know the meaning of, happens to the best of us am I right @Windappreciator ??

@Tangerinedream The title of the video is "Why men cheat", not "What types of men don't cheat". Leo answered that question perfectly, it's because most men want variety of hot women. It's the basic biological programming of men. Now, that doesn't mean men have to act upon it, we can choose to stay in a monogamous relationship, but that's not our default state. If given the choice, most men would prefer harem of hot women over just one girl. That's facts. Just think about it, majority of porn consumers are men, doesn't that tell you something?

Yeah... right. And you believe him lol. You clearly can't emphatize with men at all. This is not a matter of inteligence, of men "being stupid", it's just that our sexual drive is so fucking strong due to testosterone, that it's hard to resist. I can confidently say I have more control over this impulse than majority of men, but if you put naked attractive woman in front of me, I'm fucking her. It just is what it is. This doesn't mean your boyfriend or whatever doesn't love you, our libido is just too strong. Learn to accept male nature.

From what I understand, squirting and orgasms are partially women's responsibility. It doesn't matter how good your technique is when your girl's mind is blocked for some reason.

@KaRzual Who said anything about about doing some stuff to attract women? I don't see that here. BJJ takes a lot of time to learn though, so unless you're really good, there's no guarantee you'll be able to keep the guy on the ground, especially if he's heavy. If you get even moderately good at boxing though, you are basically guaranteed to win any fight against a regular dude, since most people can't punch to save their life. And If you get really really good at boxing, you'll knock out most people under a minute, even some MMA fighters.

Here's the simple equation: the more time you spend doing important shit = the less time you have for doing bullshit, including watching porn excessively. You need to take control of your mind and focus. You shouldn't focus on not doing something, you should focus on what you should do, and why are you doing it. Many people can consume porn moderately, and still get shit done. Which is what's most important at the end of the day. Btw, 2-5 a month is alright, I don't think you have a problem.

I actually don't mind, because I also want to sleep around. It would be utmost hypocritical from me to expect woman to stay loyal, while I sleep around, no?

@Karmadhi Yeah, that is such a human problem. We want to have the cake and eat it too. Doesn't work that way, unfortunatelly.

@StarStruck Competence and responsibility. I like that summary.

Believe it or not, there are girls out there, who will sleep around no matter how attractive their guy is. You can be 10/10 on everything, but that doesn't guarantee a person will stay with you. Plus, no one can be attractive 100% of the time. There will be times when your specific flaws and unatractive quirks will show up, no matter how hard you try to hide them. Which is why most relationships are destined to fail, because people can't accept their partner's real self, only the shiny self covered in gold.

I'll have admit guys, this chit-chat of yours is pretty entertaining. Sometimes, when I'm bored and have nothing to do, I log on actualized.org just to see what's new in this journal?@Zeroguy @Hulia

You don't wanna get too fancy when it comes to defending yourself. Some people may argue with me, but most Chinese martial arts were not meant for fighting, but more as a means to stay fit, as lifestyle or philosophy. Obviously, boxing should be number one. And it's really all you need. You can also do Muay Thai if you wanna learn how to kick, but kicks are pretty slow. Punches are the way to go.

That's sad. Sorry for your friend.

You mean his hands were directly on the junk, or that he had his hands in the pockets and was touching his junk throught them? Either way, what a weirdo lol. A lot of twisted, perverted MFs out there.

If your motivation for training martial arts is keeping your gf, then you're already in a veeery wrong mindset? It's not important at all, unless it gives you some sense of confidence and security. If that's the case, then do it.

Society can certainly try to educate, but if you're the type of guy that puts his hands on a sleeping women, chances are you probably wouldn't give a shit.

@Etherial Cat What are you even talking about? I said his perspective includes yours, which means he's not justifying rape or sexual harrasement, all he's trying to do is raise awareness about general mindset of most men, and that if most men could have their way with you, they would. Which you already know, but if you knew that when you were younger, you wouldn't be putting yourself in risky situation. What he said vs. what ya'll said is not mutually exclusive, you can educate men about taking responsibility of their sexuality (which I doubt will help, but that's besides the point) AND tell women to be more carefull than they already were, even around male friends. If you can't see this, then I have nothing else to say to you.

@MatteO22 Naah dude, we are Chads, we don't get offended. We simply smash gash and obliterate vulva?

@integral Honestly, you have some valid points. I don't know why everyone keeps bitching about your perspective.? I mean, your perspective includes theirs, so I don't know what's the problem really. Also, pretty interesting experience regarding those sex dreams. Maybe you can even experience that conciously if you know how to get lucid dreams.

Do you even have a harem bro???

@John Iverson Definitely don't be persistent lol. This is some bullshit advice that Leo gives tbh. If a girl is not interested in you now, chances are she'll be never interested in you. That's the mindset you should have, and it will ultimately serve you better, because you'll be able to move on onto another girl. I'd rather play numbers game, than trying to get that one girl to like me like a buffoon. But, what Leo also most likely meant was that you should not give up due to obstacles, like her being with friends, her having something else planned, etc. There should always be some effort from your part. But if she straight up says no, then just move on, you're wasting your time.