Peter Miklis

@peanutspathtotruth Alright, those are fair points. I'll look deeper into this eventually, but not right now.

That book is a damn good book. One of the must-reads on topic of dating for sure. Subtle art of not giving a fuck is also a great one.

@Hulia How did you learn all these languages? Throught videos?

Fair enough then. If that's what it takes for him to fix things, then by all means, do it. Or shall I say, don't do it?? Listen, it doesn't matter how's it gonna get out of your system, the fact is it's gonna get out somehow, be it throught sex, masturbation, wet dreams, or even pissing it out into the toilet. So all this talk about semen retention doesn't even make sense, and is quite dangerous actually. It's not good to store your semen, you can get actual prostate cancer. Where have I said that? I indirectly implied that talking and thinking about nofap/semen retention takes up your mental space, which could be used for other usefull things. Nofap as a tool does fuck all in reality. What actually does the trick is, you know... working on the actual issues? I'm the guy that used to struggle with this, and eventually found out that moderation is best, not abstaining. Now I do it whenever I feel it's been too long, which is probably once a 2 weeks (I don't really count it, cuz I don't care). Just a quick jerk using imagination, and my mind is fresh again. Why not fuck some beautiful girls instead? Why not ask Hardkill, he didn't have sex for 1,5 years? you're talking as if you can just go out to the shop, buy a pornstar for 9,99€ and fuck her. The reality is, unless you have a steady gf, there are big chunks of time in which you'll be on your own. And that's fine. Btw, I agree that porn can become a problem for someone that's not in control of his impulses. It can fuck up your psyche if you let it, no doubt. But, why not just stop watching porn then? Why should you get rid of masturbation? You too man. Bye

@Zeroguy yeah there are supposedly swinger parties in all of the big cities, but I've never seen one? they always do that in secret I suppose

There are guys out there who enjoy watching their wifes/gfs getting fucked? cuckolds they are called? you simply can't make this shit up

True.

The only thing women in your stories deserve is good ass spanking? and possibly handcuffs

If you were a hardcore incel in the past, you should be that much more carefull about any remaining toxic thoughts you might have. They may be not angels and perfect human beings, but they aren't enemies either. I understand that to approach women, you gotta have some courage and balls, so you should definitely not have any romanticized picture about them. However, viewing them and looking at them as a target will come back to bite you in the ass eventually, it's gonna fuck up your game. Only a matter of time. Guys that fuck a lot don't think like this. They just simply don't give a fuck. Simple. There's nothing personal in it for them. Everyone is on their own really.

Everyone is selfish, yes, but doesn't that make us the same? We're all on the same boat ultimately. I would find it hard to even motivate myself to approach if I viewed getting women as some military tactic lol that's a weird mindset to operate from. Makes you look kinda incelish.

@Kshantivadin 1.) I don't practice nofap, so I'm not coping. In fact, nofap is one giant cope lol 2.) Cringe is very subjective. For example, I find it quite cringy that grown men would dedicate the time of their short life on how they haven't touched their dick for 6 months. Focusing on nofap streaks is futile. Especially in Hardkill's case, because his problem is interaction with women and people in general, if I remember his posts correctly. The right course of action is to attack the core of the problem head on, not pussyfoot around it with useless tools like nofap.

Oh I have no doubt about that. Seen some very insecure girls in my life

That's very true. Unfortunatelly, it's extremelly hard to not seek validation. That desire runs deep in all of us.

@StarStruck One thing here I find odd about you, why are you refering to women as enemies or opponents? That's not a healthy mindset dude, gotta change that

Reading some of these posts that are giving guys a list of items of what to improve to attract women, I have to wonder, how's it working for you guys? Are you actually taking your own advice? Is your "cock getting worshipped"?? Don't get me wrong, I'm not anti-learner, it's just that I think this shit isn't that complicated. For example, I don't think smiling or lack of smiling is important at all. Sounds like an uneccessary micromanagment. Just be a cool dude, have shit going on in your life, be positive, chill, and give zero F's. Be natural, don't try to force anything. And most importantly, go out.

How? Can you elaborate?

Don't do this, please. Proper sleep is extremely benefitial and neccessary for your health. Any potential material success that you'll able to achieve using this method won't be worth it, I promise you.

Things are sometimes so painfully simple, but people make a fucking science out of it. Incredible

@Kshantivadin Since I already got some warning points from Leo's minions, I'm going to be polite. What exactly is the cringe and cope part of my post?

Hahaha that was a decent roast. You redeemed yourself?

Was that his actual quote? Lol? You know, I try to never completely reject anything anyone says, because everything has a pint of truth in it. All of the women's posts had something valuable in them, especially regarding relationships (maybe except preety ones lol), despite their obvious blindspots.

@Gabith Just give zero fucks about everything. That will autocorrect any nice guy trait you might have.

Good point hahaha it's almost never purely girl party

I got more important question for you: why do you care? You have no control over what women like, so just accept it and adapt.

I don't care about women cheating or being promiscuous, all power to them. What I don't like is the hypocrisy of most women when talking about attraction and dating. Especially Emerald pissed me off, because she's the perfect example of a woman who slept around in her young years (the years that actually fucking matter, when most women are at their attraction peak) and then when she got older, supposedly more "mature", now it's all about relationship and trust. I call bullshit.