Peter Miklis

I agree.

@RendHeaven It is a women's dating strategy. Can't be mad on them for that. And if the woman is at least moderately attractive, it tends to work. Separating wheat from the chaff as they say, eh?

@Gesundheit2 Aren't "nice guys" just guys with weak boundaries and underdeveloped self esteem? Just like women who are overly promiscious, in a nuttshell basically the same thing. I feel like, as long as you have strong boundaries and no bullshit policy, you can be as nice as you want without the need to imitate narcisistic, psychopathic traits.

@Lubomir Good luck bro, hope everything works out for you

So just make yourself as attractive as possible + look for relationships = way to go. Got it?

I like the way you think haha? I mean, sure, there are girls hotter than others, but at the end of the day a vagina is vagina lol

@Emerald So it's basically the same as difference between needy and non needy perception of reality, I guess. The first one observes reality throught wanting to have it's needs met, while the latter tries to see reality as it is.

What would it mean to look at people in a subjectifying way, as opposed to objectifying way? Putting personality above everything else?

So you're saying this kind of situation happened before? Damn dude? that's a no brainer then. Cut her off indefinitely.

@Runtz You're just picking an easy route with that jaw surgery, dude. Don't you think a more difficult, but ultimately much more rewarding thing would be to learn to love yourself the way you look? I don't know, just a food for thought.

You know, I understand that relationship can get complicated, there can be a lot of grey areas where you're not sure how to act. So, it's easy for us to speculate, and give you advice, when none of us is in your situation. It is you after all who's gonna have to do something about this, not us. However, I just feel like people should develop this sort of "killer instinct" so to speak, and not matter how long they've been together, they should tolerate no bullshit. So if I was you, I'd act from a position of strength, not weakness. The best you can do, honestly, is to tell her to fuck off and never contact you again. Literaly. Make sure she sees the anger in you. And then, you'll never contact her again. It's cruel, but you know what, some people need to be taught some respect. And that's just the truth of it.

@Gesundheit2 90% of these guys commenting about not ever cheating, probably don't even have options to cheat? Or just endured the temptation one time, and now they pat themselves on the back over it. So yeah, it's easy to say you wouldn't cheat and that it's not a concious thing to do, when you haven't even been properly battle tested yet.

@StarStruck And supposedly, depending on time of the year also, or so I heard. I don't know if it's true or not, but women are supposedly more likely to look for relationships on winter months, and more likely to look for hookups on summer months. Based on my observations, this theory is probably bullshit, just felt like sharing, for shits and giggles?

You know, I gotta say, you really are out of touch with reality on this one. You gotta sexualize the conversation. You simply have to, of course not necessarily bluntly, like I wanna fuck you, but the intention should be known from the get go. You know what I often heard from girls when they were talking together about guys? "When are we finally gonna fuck?" Yeah. What a shocker, right? Not every woman wants a fucking relationship.

@Hardkill Have you actually fully commited to any of these, or were you just hopping from one to another? There's about 1000 things you can do in your life, but you have to commit to something eventually. For me, it clicked as I was observing my life, and especially my childhood. I liked to read a lot of books and lose myself in my world, so I tried writing. And hey, turns out I kinda like it, although at this stage I'm not that good in it yet.

You can build muscle with pretty much any food, as long as you're getting in all the macros, in proper ammounts. The only question is: do you wanna have Mcdonald muscles, or healthy muscles? I guess only you can answer that question?

I'd be carefull with that attitude. Not all women deserve love

Every bad thing that happens in our life is an opportunity to look deeper into ourrselves and gain more awareness. Why exactly does it bother you that girls are flaking on you? And why do you feel the need to take revenge on her? If I were you, I'd find some time everyday to do some introspection and answer these questions. And you should get serious about it, even more serious than about pick up. You should still do pick up though.

Pretty accurate. It's taking responsibility for our negative emotions and thought processes that makes the difference in dealing with them. Usually our first reaction to any situation is "this thing/person makes me feel this or that", when really, it's been us making ourselves feel that way.

That's a dillema I'm trying to figure out lol. I mean, I love my parents and all, but they can be a big obstacle in this case. Yeah, car, hotel, basically anywhere where you can be in private. A place of your own would be perfect, but for now we gotta improvise.

Lol. Ok buddy, whatever floats your boat?

Never thought I'd see a journal solely dedicated to describe every detail of someone fornicating either? and yet here you are

As long as it's not a tornado, it's all fine and dandy.

@coca If I wanted to see a compilation of red pill talking points, I'd just go on youtube. But like, whatever dude, do what you want I don't care? just sayin', complaining does nothing for you or anyone.

Damn, maybe I should move to Germany after all? 28°C is not bad at all, seems like perfect summer temperature. Coupled with light breeze here and there, that's like perfect weather in my opinion. Even better than winter maybe.