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I appreciate that. But you disagreed with the statements in the list above. So, opinions don't matter if it's beyond our opinions. Am I wrong? That's why I'm here, even if it hurts, which doesn't mean others are right.

Well, that's also dependent on how I define what a man is. Maybe, from your perspective, I'm weak, which is not to say I will look at it as a negative thing. Maybe I'm not a man at all. I've been thinking about it. It's been challenging to understand myself because I don't quite fit into what my culture believes a man should be.

@Leo Gura, I'm curious, who did you label as a weak man? I want to know if I'm in that category. (Sorry, I know this isn't the right thread to post)

What do y'all think about Decoding the Gurus?

@Sandhu, I think values determine whether you'll give value to some group of people or not. The positive thing about having different values from your people is that you can easily see that values affect how you see reality, but they think it's just how it's supposed to be. And there are other benefits.

@Hojo, your agenda is to give the "peace" that you think Russia wants. Ukraine can fight for their freedom as long as they can figure out the how. You are thinking in a way that is disassociated from the Ukrainian side, and you believe that you're being objective. Thinking from Putin's perspective doesn't automatically make you objective, but you can gain an understanding of how he perceives reality. More people would have died if Ukraine didn't get support. So, you are defending Russia (Putin), but Russia started the war. I know you will bring the NATO expansion thing as a threat to Russia, but that's not comparable to what Russia has done to Ukraine.

@Leo Gura, The following ones in the list depend on how the terms man and woman are defined. Also, the second one in the list could have meant that a girl is not a woman yet. Sexual orientation is a social construct. "One is not born, but rather becomes, a woman." The categories "women" and "men" are social constructs that should be given up. The social roles of women and men can partly be explained by biological differences. Long ago, you responded to one of my questions by saying that today's men are half women. Maybe you were being condescending, idk.

Well, the preacher is the worst artist then.

@Hojo, are you really expecting Ukrainians to continue fighting with old technology? Why are you underestimating Russia? I don't understand. Do you understand that Ukrainians were mostly defending themselves and still losing lands? I'm done.

Bro, Russia started this war. I can't give rights to anyone, even if I wanted. As I said, Ukraine is not part of Russia.

@Hojo, Russia took some of the Ukrainian land. Ukraine has been defending and now they are attacking. Putin might or might not lose the war that he started but not some new war against Russia.

@Hojo, then why hasn't Putin nuked us all? He understands Ukraine isn't worth it for that. He would have done it long ago. He already believes everything is the fault of the US. Ukraine is the one who chooses to resist against Russia.

I understand that delusional side. I'm talking about the Ukrainian side.

@Hojo, not everything and not always it's about the US.

Russia knocked down? Come on. War is dirty. Russia was way dirty. You don't get to choose for Ukrainians.

@Hojo, Ukraine does not consider itself a part of Russia, which is the most important thing here.

@Schizophonia, Stalin is watching you. Be careful!

@Xonas Pitfall, well, be they male or female, at their core they must have masculine energy. It's even better when they have integrated femininity with their masculinity.

I'm attracted to both. Haha. I find them attractive when their energy doesn't entirely "match" their physique. I love when the things that I find are opposites coexist together in certain ways. Yes, they could exhibit things that I label as masculine, regardless of what they actually think of themselves.

I love when what I find feminine and masculine physical features are mixed, but not every mix. At their core, they must have a masculine energy, like assertiveness, confidence, etc.

@Schizophonia, rejection affects both sides. But still, if an attraction is different, it doesn't mean it's only based on what others reject.

@Schizophonia, no, in the sense that I'm not focusing only on the rejection part. Although the rejection could make it more valuable. If people have a different attraction from what you think most people are attracted to, that doesn't mean it's entirely based on something that is dependent on how most people look at it.

@Schizophonia, could you clarify what you said?

I don't know if it's a fetish, but I like it. The more androgynous people are, the more attractive they are for me.

Я долго ждал вас, мой учитель. 🫡