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All you people who think that professional help has a 100% success rate should make notes of this case. Don't just ignore all the cases which you don't want to believe is true. @Person0 I'm in a similar situation. I agree that life is cruel. Unfortunately I have zero advice to give. At least our lives will probably end some day. Let's hope that eternal return isn't true. It would be seriously bad if it would be true. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eternal_return "The concept of "eternal recurrence"––"the idea that all events in the world repeat themselves in the same sequence through an eternal series of cycles"––is central to the mature writings of Friedrich Nietzsche."

I should probably add (for those who haven't read about my stuff before) that I'm currently not suicidal. But sometimes I fantasize about making a sudden unplanned spontaneous suicide, but I think that the risk (chance) that I'll do it in the near future is low. @PepperBlossoms Thanks. @snowyowl Thanks.

Anyway.. According to NDEs, being physically alive limits you. But I don't know anything.

Anyone who is alive who says "survival is ego-stuff", "you need to transcend survival", "survival is bad and selfish", etc. cannot be taken seriously. Because obviously they are surviving, because they are alive. It's like someone would say "I'm not speaking". Um.. yes you are. The fact that you say that proves that you are speaking.

Not everyone experience a NDE when they "die". But it's a interesting video, yes. I have it saved as one of my favorites.

I disagree about the neutrality. There's nothing nice about being neutral, it's the opposite. In WW2 Sweden helped Hitler. And 17 neutral countries (including all our then-neutral neighbor countries) got invaded in WW2, so neutrality doesn't save you. It was other things that saved Sweden. One of them was that Sweden helped Hitler. (Not a conspiracy theory.) Human rights and democracy must be defended. And no western country can do it alone. Together is strong. Unity over separation. During the cold war Sweden had a secret alliance with US (this is not a conspiracy theory. It's not a secret anymore). And now Sweden is a member of EU, so Sweden officially isn't truly neutral after it joined EU in 1995. Officially Sweden is just "militarily unaligned". Sweden should stop being a fool, and selfish, and join NATO. Toomas Hendrik Ilves, President of Estonia: "If we want to improve the security of the Baltic Sea region, there is a lot we can do, the most obvious steps for that needs to be taken not by Estonia but they need to be taken in Stockholm and Helsinki." (He of course meant that Sweden and Finland should join NATO).

Supermodels aren't especially attractive. This thing about supermodels is weird. It takes me 2 seconds to see a much more attractive woman on the street or at work.

It's a small insignificant country. But we take lots of immigrants, especially from middle east.

Which I don't. I'm naturally hardwired to not be social. Not everyone are social, nor can become social. Or are even likable. "Just get a social circle. Easy peasy." Facepalm.

Impossible request again. Completely impossible. You're projecting yourself and your life on me. I literally can't meet 5 women and 5 men in a week.

I guess I'm a 5, and I can't get a gf who is 5. So I'm involuntarily celibate.

Sigh, this is hopeless. "Just get a social circle with 150+ people and go out all the time." Might as well say "fly to the moon by flapping with your arms."

I'm in the middle. I wouldn't be happy with anything. And I don't require a 10 either.

Okay. He also often puts his hand on his heart when he says "thank you". I've never before seen a muslim do that, but I guess every time has a first time.

@Emerald So should I prove to you and everyone else that I'm a true incel? How can I prove it? Any suggestions? Oh yeah you will demand that I do things that are completely impossible for me. Literally impossible. You can't accept the fact that some people are unable to do some things. And I think that's the problem.

@Emerald It's not possible to meet every woman on earth. And also being a incel doesn't mean that you should take any gf, no matter how unattractive she is. I wouldn't want a gf who is a 1 on my attractiveness scale, it would be impossible. I guess now you can say "see, you're not involuntarily single". But I wouldn't demand a 10 either. And a gf wants the guy to think that she's attractive.

What a solid piece of evidence that there doesn't exist a single incel on earth. Not. That argument is based more on emotions than on rationality.

Those guys who you are talking about have something in their personality which people like. So they don't suck. You're ignoring all those incel cases which do exist, because you have seen some guys who seem to suck, but still has managed to get a gf. How many such guys have you seen? Let's say max 15. How many billions of incels is there in the world who you ignore just because you've seen 15 guys who seem to suck but still has managed to get a gf?

Someone who is able to have a social circle doesn't suck. A person who truly sucks wont be able to have a social circle, because that person wont be liked by anyone. So none of the guys you mentioned sucks.

I see.

I don't think the solution is to simply be more social. Only maybe to some incels. I, personally, think that the brutal truth is that most of the incels genuinely suck, so if a man sucks, then it doesn't matter how social he is. I'm talking from personal experience, I genuinely suck, therefore I'm a incel. No amount of social training can cure that. In the same way as a genuinely stupid person can't get a PhD in mathematics or something, no matter how hard that person tries. (I use harsh words like "suck" and "stupid", if you emotionally can't handle them then replace them with more politically correct words like "naturally less attractive" or "less intelligent".) There's high requirements for a PhD in mathematics. In the same way women have high requirements for a partner. And I don't think the incel thing is a new thing.

No I don't. I see, yeah maybe hindus don't pray like that. In that case: nvm about this thread. But it's easy to see the difference between people from asia, middle east and India.. but maybe I'm just stupid.

I think I should've put this thread in Self-Actualization..

I have social anxiety, I don't talk with people, and I have zero social skills, so that question would be too advanced for me. I guess I first need to be 100% sure that he's from India and is a hindu. Right now I'm only 99% sure. I guess I could start with "Where are you from?"

And I have read Bhagavad Gita, The Upanishads, The Concise Yoga Vasistha, Ribhu Gita, Ashtavakra Gita, etc.