AdamR95

but also sages usualy explain complex things in a simple way

@Gesundheit I think we complicate that too much at this point. There is ofcourse value in the big picture but sometimes question isnt about that and the structure of that question can imply that. You can still assume he needs a big picture answer i can agree with that. I think sometimes it goes to an extreme and we just play wordgames and say nothing in the end. You cant go too deep with words anyway.

You are saying exactly the same thing only using your own words. You can always catch me on some words and turn it around and say that i dont get it but thats the limitation of language and your own projection on my words. They are true but not answer to my question. Lets say i want to play some videogame and ask some question on some specific goal in that game and then everyone just start telling me the game isnt real. But i already knew that, i just want to explore the game, why always assume that the player is delluded and think the game is real?

Youre ofcourse right but i think you missed the point distictions are imaginary but they exist in form of imagination and you can still use them and pretend as they are real.

There are good and bad dating-coaches.

This is an advice some men need on theirs level of selfdevelopement. It helps to elevate them to a higher stages. From blue to orange. And it has some truth to it too. Sometimes its easer to change the external conditions than accept it.

Some men are really struggling and need improve themselfs before they can be themself and atract women naturaly or they can accept themself as they are and be single for the rest of their life, nothing wrong with that neither.

I am saying that its not automatical that he deserve it only because he is a man. Some need to work on themself and some are naturaly good. In a sence nobody deserve anything, either you are able to atract women or not.

Men are good enough as they are, nobody force them to develop themself. That doesnt mean they automaticaly deserve to have hot women only because they are men.

I actually observe that quite often. There is no one behind the knowing there is only knowing by itself, just flow of conciousness. But thats just more words, only i know how deep my understanding is. Words are dualistic by their nature and because of that when i get involved in online discusions i do that more from dualitic point of view. When i want to explore nondual point of view i just turn inward and dont talk to anybody. But i have that feeling very often, that when i post something, a lot of people just have a need to point out how dualistic that is. Ofcourse its dualitic, because language is dualistic by its nature. Its ok though, i just want to clear that out.

exactly my thoughts:)

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I agree. We want to explore and enjoy life within a dream and we want relative answers too. I already knew i dont exist why do they keep answering completely different question??:D

just word games

there is no point in anything, you can just meditate for no reason

You dont know what will happen in the next 5 second and you are not scared about that i guess.

so true??

From my experience on shrooms i had more light, pleasant, magical kind of vibe, on LSD i had more serious, heavy, introspective kind of vibe. I would choose shrooms for the first trip.

I had the same issue, its nervousness. What helped me was to not fap for a few days to be more sensitive (i use to watch porn daily) and second just be patient and be detached, dont care to much. In my case i wanted that so much that i use to fail again and again for long time with different girls to the point where i started not caring anymore a then it just came naturally. I remeber one night when i failed with this very hot girl and i started histerically crying while we were lying in a bed. It was extremely embarrassing but these type of situations made me grow the most. I just dont care anymore.

If there is infinite chain of incarnation then it is lost game in the first place but i do not obsess about it constantly only sometimes it just come up in my mind. I am just trying to accept suffering as much as i can and love it to death. I cant change reality anyways.

I am aware of that. When i will be dead my ego will disapear so there will be no problem from that perspective. And from absolute perspective, god loves to go throught all the suffering. But still, i can incarnate with so low consciouss ego and suffer much more even maybe i was enlightened previous life. I know its my projection but that horrifying idea sometimes bubble up from my subconscioss when i am on psychadelics or when i am contemplating.

Is it possible to be in nomind state permanently and still remain practical in life or do you need some balance? Are some of you able to be in nomind state for long period of time? Whats your experience? I am curious.

good for him, it took me several years to even start enjoy meditation

Do you personaly have experience of no-mind for long period of time for atleast few days? just curious.

If i am home on my cough and meditating its easy to be in piece and in state of no mind. But in work its different, and i have a feeling that thinking is needed in these situations. Maybe i just need to be present in the thinking process. The thinking isnt the problem but attachment to thinking is and proper balance is whatever i choose to be proper balance. I just needed to clarify that for my self. I think i am clear now.