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@datamonster So nice Thanks! Best wishes

@Forestluv Yes, if I stay, I'm definitely doing that! Thank you @Ananta I wish the best for both of you

It just means it's a fallacy and I want to ground myself in that so I don't make the mistake of falling for it. Yes, I've got the same approach. It's a challenge, but I kinda like that part. Helps me to know myself better. Warm regards

In Portugal, you can do everything with law basically. It gives you a lot a lot of opportunities. From finance, to RH, to law departments ofc, to administrative positions, you name it. @Etherial Cat @Corpus But that's if you want to be hired from a company or employer. I'm not interested in that tho. I promised myself to not sign a work contract next years. That is true and I don't regret it. It's a skill that I've learned, but 4 years to learn how to fill my taxes is too much Thank you for the time! Best wishes for both

@Kalki Avatar Hey, congrats to you! Having a financially comfortable position before LP is one way, yes, but I feel like I can totally do my LP now and figure that out later. But that's only because I'm in a position that I can actually afford to figure it out later. So that would work for me. And I know that there's nothing wrong with not pursuing your lp, but why wouldn't you do it when that's what you want?

@UDT Thanks! But you see, quitting college is far from the easier route. I would put myself in a position I've never been before, I would need to prove to myself that quitting was for a good cause, I would have to face peer pressure from my family and friends to do otherwise, etc. Finishing it is so much easier because I would only have to do what I've been doing so far, passing exams. And I'm kinda afraid to choose to stay until the end, because staying would be my comfort zone.

@Leo Gura I know for sure that I won’t be doing anything with law, as long as I live authentically, so yea.. 7 months, with what i have in mind is a heck of a lot of time. But the thing is 7 months that will give me a degree, I’ll never happen later. 7 months to my lp, I’ll be having forever. I guess it’s kinda of an opportunity. I have to figure it out myself in the end. Your course is awesome btw, Leo! Thank you so much

@kbone yea, more than anything it has been mental challenge to me. But i face it. And that’s the only part I like about being in college thank you!

@Gesundheit yes but thats the sunk cost fallacy. It’s nice to approach it as a plan b tho. Even if it’s only to fool myself to have the will to finish it. Must say, I usually like to read your comments here on the forum! You’re such a straightforward and funny guy. Best wishes to you

@Byun Sean I’m very serious about my lp and thinking about opening a small business or something yes. I like business related stuff, like leadership. These 7 months i would acquire so many skills, man.. it gives me the chills only thinking about it. And I’ll acquire some of them anyway, but I’ll have this other thing sucking my precious energy and time. Law comes in handy for business tho. Anyway, thank you very much for your input! Warm regards

@OnceMore @Moon thank you very much for your insights guys! Moon, I’m portuguese, so I don’t really know what’s the equivalent in usa. But a law degree here, has no master included.

@PurpleTree Lol

@Dryas Awesome video, helped a lot. Thanks!

@VerballyHazardous Hey, appreciate your comment I can't see how this is a matter of belief or not. It's a fact that WEF is proposing a global shift that they call the great reset, just go to their website. But this can be a great thing, you know. They talk about changing capitalism to a healthier state, and they truly have the means to do so, maybe the only ones who have it. But on the other hand, I can also see how this can be kinda fairytaly. Because it would imply that those companies who partnered with wef would lose some profit, for a more sustainable world (I actually read on their website that this is a goal of theirs). And this is great, but it's hard for me to believe since it would imply a great advance in society. And maybe this is a limiting belief of mine. I'm ready to be proven wrong. I totally agree with you. But you see, these negationists movements of the pandemic and the need for lockdown are just a symptom of the times we are going through. In the USA there was also the Anti-Mask League in 1918 when the Spanish Flu hit. It's actually funny to see this happening again. But it's totally dangerous and separatist, as you put it. I don't think tho, this has to do with the great reset. Sure, the same ppl will come and put the blame on the globalist government or whatever, but I'm not concerned about the great reset because of this. It's simply because of the amplitude this has, the silence that accompanies it, and the impunity that distinguishes these worldwide organizations when endowing with enormous power.

@abrakamowse But it strikes me tho how far away this is from us. Meaning that our decisions can only be a little impacted on national governments, maybe in America, only on the federal level. But this, the things that actually can impact our entire reality, it's beyond our consent and sovereignty.

@Preety_India But the WEF is a serious international organization openly proposing the "Great Reset" on their website

@Preety_India The so called Great Reset?

It would be a great thing for you to contemplate.

Having sex with different people gives us a great chemical reward since it's part of a basic pattern of reproduction and survival of species. It's instinctive, so to speak. But as humans, we can operate within higher levels of consciousness, not only serving our basic instinct. So knowing this, helps me to be grounded and distance myself from this kind of thoughts towards other people that are not my partner. What I also find helpful, is being honest with each other. So if you think your gf would comprehend the extent of your concern and also acknowledge that you don't wanna follow these urges, in order not to hurt yourself more and her, I believe would be tremendous to your relationship having that kind of openness. Would also be great for your healing. Warm regards for both

@electroBeam I could say the same. But as you and I know, even from these testimonials from this forum, man and woman can be needy. It's about childhood psychological patterns that were established and a relatively low level of consciousness as adults.

Neediness isn't a matter of gender, i believe.

Equanimity is key.

@meow_meow "Females" don't lie. People lie. It does not have to do with gender, it has to do with consciousness. The less conscious you are, the more truth is meaningless to you. Telling her what to do would be basically your ego, thinking less of itself when compared to others, trying to control other human, from a place of fear of external rejection and neediness. And that does not sound harsh, it sounds immature. And that is also not your need, it's your egoic whim. And leaving her if she says no, would not be your power, but you not knowing how to deal with being contradicted. @VictorB02 It's really cool to see your insights in this thread. I believe that in a relationship when one wants to ask for something from the other, it cannot be imposed. The only thing you can do is telling your partner how you feel, with no filters, being 100% honest, and get to a middle ground with her. Someplace you're both comfortable with. And I believe you're completely right when getting to the conclusion that you have absolutely no control over others and going so is a lack of love (but also self-reassurance) and that you can only control yourself here. Keep doing what you're doing, reflecting, and being the best you can be. Warm regards

↑↑↑↑↑↑↑↑ This is sooo true. Thanks aurum

Oh my that’s awful. I’m so sorry that happened to you. But you will get over it, I’m sure! Therapy would be great, yes. Also self-inquiry. Also, work on forgiving your self. Deeply understand you were a kid and naive. The person who did this to you really should be in a bad place in life. Forgive him too. Not for his sake, but for yours. Comprehend deeply the reason why every little thing happened at the time, even if it’s only your perspective and relative. With compreension comes acceptance, with acceptance, forgiveness and peace. Also try small interactions with women, just so you proove yourself they can be trusted, even if that’s comes with anxiety. Just push a little bit outside of your confort zone, in the measure you feel it would be good for you. i wish you the best and much much love