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@Leo Gura What do you think ?

@Daniel Balan Dude you are God.

@Daniel Balan The problem is God exists. Atheism is the rejection of the existence of God, not christianity. Which is why atheism is wrong.

@Leo Gura Won't you get tired of beating this dead horse ? People who are familiar with your content and do spiritual work, already know the limits of rationality: aka that rationality is a construct and that the mind is capable of venturing beyond rationality. Plus how stupid are rationalist, they don't take into account relativity, the psychology of how people develop worldviews, egos, as well as consciousness, self reflection, mystical insights. Fundamentally rationalism is too shallow of a worldview, it is conformity and group think, based on all kinds of metaphysical and epistemic assumptions, biases, unproven beliefs... And also it is a complete ignorance of the importance of metaphysics and metaphysical thinking. Rationalism isn't intelligent nor wise, it's fool's gold.

@Alexop Stage blue is outdated traditional marriage. Stage orange is the rise of casual relationships. Stage green is similar to orange but with more of a spiritual, intellectual, and emotional connection going on. Even though honestly it's kind of a mental masturbation to be thinking like that, because everyone can be capable of multiple stages depending on the context. And also there are other more important factors for a healthy relationship, such as mental illness, traumas, addictions, values alignment, as well as having similar worldviews, financial freedom and stability, education levels has to match, as well as general levels of maturity and wisdom. Like somebody who is wise and mature and is philosophically minded and spiritually inclined, wouldn't function well with a materialistic person who can't think of anything beyond basic material life. There are some developmental factors in the list that i gave like maturity or the similarity of worldview or education levels... But i think thinking about it in terms of the list that i gave is much more intelligent than thinking in terms of stupid colors which are so vague and do not really describe reality accurately in the sense that most people do not fit a color in the spiral dynamics model.

Femininity is love. It is higher consciousness values such as love, empathy, selflessness, goodness, gentleness, acceptance, forgiveness, kindness. The feminine embody the spiritual side of reality whereas the masculine embodies the material side aka survival. That's why masculinity is about leadership, autonomy, responsibility, confidence, boldness, assertiveness, taking initiatives. Coldness whereas the feminine is about warmth. To raise a healthy child one, it needs both parents, one that teaches survival, the other that nurtures love inside the child. If an imbalance happens where the father is either too feminine like the mother, or for example the mother is too masculine like the father, the child will end up weak and unable to survive in the first case, unable to get material results, hence depressed and suicidal. Or in the second case, the child might end up a criminal because he lacks the love and empathy.

@Av2521 The problem is that you two are doing unconscious relationships. Where however the relationship happens it happens. You need to take control over your relationships and start going out deliberately and approach women. Focus on single girls, do not try to seduce a girl that is married or have a boyfriend. Occasionally it can work but it shouldn't be your main strategy, plus there are ethical problems you gotta watch out for with that.

@cetus No.

Development of the mind = being more insightful = having more insights. Until you become so conscious you start having mystical experiences, and start understanding God. Development of the mind = becoming more conscious = consciousness work. You've probably heard Leo talk about developing a telepathic connection to God or infinite intelligence or source. This is what we're talking about. Being bombarded with insights on a daily basis is what development of the mind is about.

@cetus I have a bunch of insights regularly throughout the day. However i understand that i can develop my mind to be way more connected to infinite intelligence. Here are some insights i've wrote out today: Understanding Nazism: The problem people face when trying to understand nazism is that they operate under an objective reality assumption, whereas in truth reality is relative, subjective and constructed. Okay are you ready ? Here we go: God is infinite nothingness, from this formlessness comes all form. God explores itself through every conscious agent possible to imagine, and there are an infinite amount of them, hence eternity is about God's infinite exploration of itself. Now since all of reality is made up, including the "physical reality" most people experience, your mind has to construct a reality for the purposes of its own survival and sensemaking. However all of that is done unconsciously or subconsciously. You construct all of reality subconsciously to suit yourself. That's why muslims think they're the chosen people. Jews think the same, christians think the same... And no one seems to agree. Because fundamentally reality is nothing. So to perceive and communicate about anything requires constructions of the mind. Hence when people look at Nazis saying they're racists and they're malignant, and their worldview is bullshit, they miss the point, in truth perception is tied in with constructions of the mind, hence people construct reality differently which makes them ending up living in different realities. Wisdom is understanding that Nazism is a collective hallucination the nazis were under, and thus why they committed atrocities without being conscious of the realities their victims were facing due to their actions. Here's the critical insight: evil people aren't evil deliberately they're evil because they're blind to the consequences their actions have on others, because they're so self absorbed into an illusion which constitute their reality. However it is not an ocular type of blindness, it's a psychic, mental and existential kind of blindness.

I want to share my passion for rap music with some people, if i can find some here it would be ideal. I rap mainly in italian, but i can also try to write in english. I listen to rap in french, italian and english. So anyone here with the same passion ? Some rap videos i like:

The thing is it's the religion of my family, and since I started learning more about it, and stopped resisting it, life feels better on a social level as well as on an emotional level. The truth is Islam can be like a regular religion, but it also can be a mystical path thanks to sufism. Anyways since I wanted to learn more about this tradition, as well as fit in better within my family and community I chose to accept it.

@ivarmaya It's time to pick up them chinese ladies. Haha

It's been a while since he posted, he used to post daily approximately.

Do you ever get rejected for being too attractive? I swear to God, girls think they can't keep you, and so they reject you. Obviously you just met her on the street and had a conversation, obviously you're a womanizer type that do this type of stuff with many women. ‎That's why good game isn't just about being as attractive as possible, truth is most girls, including the hottest ones, are insecure as hell. Therefore you should calibrate your game to your target effectively, without being way over the board charismatic, natural and seductive.

@Raze Why are you saying that ?

Here are some cool videos on Islam: https://youtu.be/IkRbIwCQ7Q0

@Leo Gura How did your health improve ?

@ZenSwift Yeah i mean, i think the main thing is to be able to go beyond leo's work, and realize how incomplete it is, obviously because life is infinite, and we're all so different. Leo shares great wisdom, but the intelligent thing to do is to always test for yourself what works and doesn't work. For example leo says, you don't need money to get laid, guess what, i took this too literally while facing mental health issues, having no job, no educational career that i am pursuing to later get a job, no place to have sex, no car, not even a phone or a phone number, and the results are i am still a virgin, but a virgin with more experience talking to women and better pick up skills than most non virgin guys. I realized i need to work with my psychiatrist, get a job, get my education going, waiting a couple of years before going full on pick up again, the time necessary to become a normal functioning member of society, then i can do pick up again, with better logistics, maybe even in a better city and country. That's just one example, another is that working a nine to five is slavery, and being rich is for materialistic unspiritual people. Well i've realized that working a job is necessary to integrate with society, as well as it being prescribed by my psychiatrist as tool for better mental health, and also working a job, getting an education allows you to bust many limiting beliefs around money, like when you get into the routine of working a job, you start getting ambitious and wanting to build your life materially. Want it or not, we live in a world where money is important for survival and to thrive as well. It's just that money isn't the only thing in life, obviously, but this doesn't mean money isn't good or beneficial. Another example is with philosophy, when you philosophize too much, it can be great but i lately realized i don't need this philosophy, i'm better off working on my fitness goals. Like i want to lose weight, get on a whole food plant based diet (i currently am vegan, but not wfpb yet), i also want to try muay thai as a hobby and activity that helps losing weight and burning calories, and later also workout at a normal gym, to get jacked. i realized this is much better than sitting accomplishing nothing all day, just thinking about philosophy.

Imagine a country where animals have similar rights to humans, and killing them is considered murder and can be the subject of an emprisonment in jail. A vegan utopia for all the species, human and non human animals. A society that honors the sovereignty and dignity of all sentient beings. Veganism is mandatory, even the norm, eating animals is considered the utmost taboo similar to cannibalism. And humans do not see themselves as superior but as protectors of all sentient life. Deeming it as a sacred expression of God. You might say this is fiction, and to that I'll respond don't get too hung up on the realism of it or not. Sometimes fiction gets us closer to reality that reality itself. That's why an imaginary vegan utopia can be very powerful and can actually leads the world in the right direction of animal liberation.

@Nito She doesn't seem to be into you, quite honestly.

If all categories are man made constructs and we can go beyond them, then i predict based on what's happening in the present, which is the disappearance of gender categories thanks to transgenderism, that in the future the category of human will disappear, thanks to transhumanism, where entities could exist as a hybrid between man and machine, or between human and animal thanks to genetic engineering. In essence all categories must collapse because like i said they are construct hence not true. And if all categories collapse then we become God. Which is what all religions talk about. God is not a bearded man in the clouds, God is when all categories and identities collapse into a singularity. In fact with virtual reality what could happen, is that the distinction between virtual, and real collapse, hence if in vr you can shoot somebody and kill him, then you'll be able to also do it in reality. Since we'll all be a combination of man, machine, and animal, questions around the rights of this entity which emerges from this combination will arise, and ultimately the category of life and death must collapse, since we're God because all categories are imaginary, hence we are immortal, hence killing in vr or in reality is no different, hence killing will not be criminalized anymore. This is my vision for what the future would be like.

The purpose of this post is to raise our collective consciousness towards recognizing pick up as a scam. Not that it doesn't work to get girls, but in that in the end it does more harm to your psyche and life than good. The problem with pick up is that it is an addiction. You enter a cycle of always wanting more girls, always more approaches, more pick up. And your expectations and ambitions start to become endless and unsatiable. Pick up is a low consciousness trap. And the problem becomes when you get so much success that your expectations become so high that when you're not feeding your pick up addiction, you become depressed and suicidal. I've experienced it first hand. You become so addicted to it, that nothing can make you satisfied except some ridiculous amount of success with pick up and women, that you need to keep up with each week by doing more approaching and pick up. So what's the solution you might think, very simple: the path to sobriety: stop approaching women in a nutshell, to get this addiction out of your system. Then you can experience tranquility and peace of mind. Celibacy is the way. You can still satisfy yourself by yourself sexually through masturbation and pornography (but even pornography i think is an addiction, in that it is better to do without it to desexualize your brain, and decondition your mind from porn, but still pornography is way better than pick up, the damage isn't nearly as important as in the case with pick up). Your goal must be detachment, see pick up creates an attachment for success with women, which requires maintenance, and in a sense selling your soul and peace of mind, to this addiction, which is metaphorically the devil. I recommend to reconsider the idea that you need someone to satisfy you sexually, all you need to satisfy yourself sexually is yourself, not anyone else. This mentality brings peace of mind, tranquility, detachment, and a happy satisfied soul. I'll end with this, pick up will never bring you contentment. At the end quitting pick up is about reclaiming your values, not selling out for physical intimacy, but rather having a mentality of wanting to be with someone for shared values and interests, be it philosophical and spiritual. (But again even the idea of needing someone is not the correct frame, rather be it to choose a life of celibacy. However doing relationships based on spiritual and philosophical shared interests, passions, and values, is way higher than the pick up mentality. Even though on this scale celibacy would be the highest and best way to live life, in that it makes for a happy and content existence without needing others, things which we cannot control.)

@Leo Gura What do you think ?

Capitalism place a huge burden on people, because it makes survival insecure. And if you're starting down the pyramid not up, one can ask the question of whether is it possible to ever succeed within such a system.