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@something_else not really, it's just that due to some temporary health problems i don't have enough energy to go out too much and socialize

@LordFall watching it to satisfy myself

@Leo Gura why not sleep with hundreds though ?

@Leo Gura what he says in this clip seems plausible

@Leo Gura i haven't delved deep into daniel schmachtenberger's talks, but i think he warns against civilization being self terminating.

if the conservative mind is the conformist stage of ego development as leo said. is the liberal mind the pluralist stage of ego development ?

“Guys who are naturally good with women are those who’ve approached thousands of women to the point where it changed their brain chemistry. Literally through trial and error your brain forms new neural pathways. That’s how you become better with practice. It’s because you receive the information faster. That’s where “smoothness” comes from.” what do yall think ?

@something_else maybe you’re right, but look in of itself those guys who are talking to women and pulling girls, are doing pick up, that’s literally what pick up is, even though they may be not doing it deliberately

@NoSelfSelf that’s like saying do nothing you’re already enlightened

@something_else when i was at the night club i was the only guy to make out with dozens, some women where talking about how i’m very attractive and get all the girls, another one told me that she never encountered someone like. So yeah

@Roy getting laid isn’t synonymous with the kind of results you get from doing pick up lol most guys don’t fuck dozens of women. Same thing with money, most people aren’t rich, this doesn’t mean they can’t pay the bills. Pick up is about having exceptional results relative to normal people. Look at some point you need to take responsibility for the different areas in your life and stop running on auto pilot

@NoSelfSelf dude i ain’t putting nobody on a pedestal, i’m taking responsibility for my sex life

@Roy actually no, most guys like 90% suck with women in general, they have no game at all, even the most good looking males with muscles and stuff, they have no game. To develop game you need to approach thousands of women. Most guys in modern society are not socialized properly because the most natural thing in our environment is not to socialize but to stay home on the laptop. That’s not the exception, that’s the rule.

@Roy how you become naturally good with women without talking to them ? Btw have you approached thousands of women ?

@Leo Gura is it okay to work in a job you don’t like to build capital to then launch your dream business ?

@DocWatts so ben shapiro would be at the expert stage as well as dennis prager. dennis prager for example emphasize the importance of rational thinking. whereas a typical conformist in my opinion would not. but i might be wrong. by the way for a conservative, the opportunist might look liberal lmaoo where do you think the opportunist, spiral dynamics stage red, would fit politically ? or is it too instinctive to even care about modern politics ? and i think a lot of stage blue people might confuse stage orange and green for red, since blue is a reaction to red. same way green might confuse turquoise for green. or orange might confuse turquoise for green or blue and yellow for orange.

@julienw truth but what's your alternative anyways ? i can't go about my life without having a long term plan, and i don't want to expect the bare minimum from myself, just have money to pay the bills and nothing else. so my plan is to first do programming to earn decent money, living conditions and independence, then putting the work in to break free from it through my creative original work. will it take 10 years ? yes but remember even for leo it took him a decade to align his life with actualized.org successfully. so yeah life requires you to be very resourceful. but the big thing is that each time you're solving your problems and getting closer to your ultimate life. after i get my programming job i will have freedom from my parents, money to do pick up and bang as many women as i wish, money to finance my creative endeavors and so forth... it's so fucking appealing

@Leo Gura alright then i guess, like you said, i would have to teach myself business and marketing as well as music making. man life is so inspiring, you can accomplish a lot by taking full responsibility for your life. thanks for your wisdom anyways

@Rob06 exactly

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@Leo Gura alright so i guess i should develop my skills as a musician, like i want to be a rapper, make music, so i will develop that skill set, beatmaking, writing lyrics, sound engineering,etc... and then after 3 to 5 years i’ll be signed to a record label in france, cuz i want rap in french ideally. the only problem is that in lebanon if i’m gonna be getting a little job just to buy the equipment to make music, sort of the studio and softwares, etc... it will take me like a year since in lebanon we’re paid 100-200$ a month for work without degree, and if i need a new laptop, i need to work for an extra 7 months, and if i need a course on business or marketing, i’ll need to work for months. And i can’t be asking my parents for anything since we’re living in survival mode. And if i want to make a music video i need also some money. That’s why it isn’t very practical for me to not enroll in university and quit the country through that. My plan would be to go study in france finish a programming degree, like 4 years, then i would have both the money and the right location to then be able to work on my creative projects. I want to have this peace of mind that i have a solid stable income and not being reliant on my parents before i start working on my true life purpose. Just to have enough money to buy the life purpose course and the book list, i need to work for 2 months. Or i can probably develop a marketable skill that i can learn in a few months, and start making money through that in lebanon to finance my creative projects and education (courses,etc...) but i’m not sure how much i’ll be paid for that. And i don’t know how do it yet but i can probably learn. The advantage of staying with my parents is that i have free food and shelter, but nothing else no money for pick up or dating, no car, no money to finance my creative projects... So yeah i’m kind of in this dilemma right now of what i should do, i know i’m gonna accomplish my goal in the long term, just the means can differ, but both will lead to the same conclusion.

@blueberries the thing is, i'm starting out in a 3rd world (lebanon) country and the easiest way to get out of it is to continue my studies in a first world country, can i quit my country to a better country if i learn a marketable skill like the ones you've listed above ?

@Leo Gura what's the most efficient way to learn them ?

@julienw yeah i mean depending on your financial situation, you can afford the luxury to not care about money. but personally i won't be investing thousands of hours learning a skill that i love if it's not going to impact people in some meaningful way. i care about my life's work and impact on the world more than just the pleasure of practice, i want to be valuable and useful to mankind in my own creative way.

@Leo Gura will i learn the business marketing stuff from your book list, or should i find it elsewhere ?