Majed

@Breakingthewall Dude i love your geopolitical analysis. How did you get to this stage in your development regarding geopolitics ?

I watched this whole video, and it seems to me that these postmodern deconstructionists queer thinkers, live in their own reality bubble. It's like an alternative reality these people live in. This whole queer dream, is such an interesting case in epistemology. It shows you the relativity of the constructed nature of sexuality and gender identity, and how it can be rethought to be radically more open and free. These people do not understand though that God is queerness. Queerness, being nothingness, and its infinite manifestation through the medium of sexuality and gender, in this particular case.

@Leo Gura What do you think of Paul Preciado ? i find him to have an exceptional mind.

@Leo Gura You missed my point which is that after insanity which results in you losing your human mind, and becoming God, you realize that there are no difference between life and death, except for the survival game you're playing, hence you can consciously choose to cut it off through suicide. This is a different thing from suicide as an escape from the brutality of life. This is more like a rational deliberate choice, even if your life is great, you can still prefer to die and stop playing the survival game.

@Leo Gura This can be misleading. You don't have to literally just sit and contemplate. At first you do that, after some months and years, contemplation becomes natural, it's like your mind start downloading insights spontaneously, without you putting effort in it.

@theleelajoker This form is a construct of your own mind.

@Majed People hate death and suicide, because they're life addicts. Also they have misconceptions about what death is. Death isn't about reincarnation or heaven or hell or nothing. Death is about a surrender of the body to infinite consciousness, which is God. The dysfunction isn't suicide, the dysfunction is your relationship to death.

Deconstructing physical sex: An implicit assumption within the materialist paradigm is that physical sex is better than pornography. While there are differences between the two, they share way more similarities than there are differences. Up to 90% of the experience is the same, from a technical scientific perspective. This shows you just how ridiculous the whole notion of virginity is. If someone is watching pornography everyday and orgasming, they are basically getting 90% of a similar experience to physical sex. So what makes him a virgin according to science ? And once you know this it is freeing because, a big part of sexual frustration is related to fantasies we have in our minds about the sex we should be getting. While the reality is that, to a large degree we cannot control whether we have a partner for sex or not. However we can watch pornography as often as we would like, and get the same feelings and experience.

@Leo Gura what do you think ?

@Leo Gura i mean it works in club culture mostly if you're talking to dozens of girls per week. Then yeah obviously some of them will get attracted to you. It's just mathematics. You can also get better at it, in the sense of developing your social personality.

@Leo Gura 100% mainstream religion is all group think. I feel like a lot of people here would benefit from questioning and deconstructing actualized.org. Without throwing the baby out with the bathwater. i think you must agree.

@Leo Gura can we also say that development level is measured by the capacity of the mind for independent thinking ?

I wanted to understand islam from a scientific, and historical perspective. I've come to the realization that the revelation of muhammed was an induced brain state from meditation. Which a lot of muslims have shared in the past when they talked about seeing God or such things. Feel free to share your discoveries on the topic as well.

Here's key to attracting women: if you can put yourself in a state of mania, while talking to a girl, she'll instantly be attracted to you.

@LordFall Mania is highly attractive, in the sense of being high energy, happy and not caring what others think. You can do a lot when you're manic while doing pick up.

@Leo Gura What do you think ?

I like many things in life. However a lot of them are very rarely monetizable, like rap music, or philosophy and spirituality. I was thinking about finding a traditional career path, something that is easy to monetize. However i don't want to learn any theory, or following an academic education. I went into an institute, i chose physical education because i thought it wouldn't be so heavy in theory, turns out 95% of it is academic theory. I want a hands on job, where i can work with my hands, develop some skills fast and easy, and start making money. I was thinking of carpentry, but i don't know yet how to find a mentor, to teach me the job. Part of it is i also learned that reducing your material ambitions in life, is key for a fulfilling life. I don't want kids or a family, i just want a simple job that i can do to pay the bills and in which i moderately can tolerate and enjoy it to a certain extent. What do yall think ?

I've been contemplating this question, and i think i came up with an answer: spiritual practice is whatever is in alignment with ultimate reality. So for example meditation can be a spiritual practice when it involves solitude, because ultimate reality is one and solipsistic. Contemplation can be a spiritual practice, because it involves the mind, and ultimate reality is mind. That's one perspective, another perspective is because it is truth seeking, and ultimate reality is truth. Exploring diverse perspectives becomes a spiritual practice because it aligns you with infinity. And ultimate reality is infinity. Going out and doing activities alone, can be a spiritual practice, because it aligns with solipsism. psychedelics can be a spiritual practice, because they change your state of consciousness, and ultimate reality is consciousness. Self love can be a spiritual practice, because it involves love. Prayer can be a spiritual practice, because it is a communication with God, and ultimate reality is God.

I've been confused by this problem, because on the one hand evolution says that humans are a species of animals. On the other hand, spirituality says, we are God. So which is true ? And i think that God is hallucinating himself to be an animal. So within the hallucination, Humans are animals. Outside the hallucination we are God. I think i got it right. @Leo Gura What do you think ?

I know it sounds crazy, but this is the world attractive extraverted men live in. And women love extraverted, bold, spontaneous, adventurous guys.

Now before entering the main topic, i want to say that actualized.org offers a lot of value. However, it didn't fully work for me. And that's because of huge blind spots in Leo's work and actualized.org. 1. The first blind spot, is that Leo rarely talks about mental health. For those of us struggling with it, learning about mental health is crucial for our development. This is a huge blind spot in actualized.org. Leo likes to say that pathological psychology isn't his specialty. However like i said it is crucial for actualizing our potential as human beings, especially for those who like me have mental illnesses like ocd and bipolar disorder. Also the link between mental health and physical health, substance addictions... Leo doesn't stress enough the dangers of hard drugs, in fact he promotes the use of psychedelics as tools for spiritual growth. Fine however, if you're like most people, there won't be a fixed boundary between use for personal development, use for recreation, use for chemsex... For example because of Leo's lax attitude towards hard drugs, i mixed once mdma with my psychiatric medications like anti depressants and anti psychotics. Which is extremely dangerous. Luckily i came out fine, but you know i could've died. 2. The second hugely important blind spot in all of Leo's work and actualized.org, is his lack of talking about how to actually make money. If you're like most people making money is central to your ability to self actualize. However Leo won't even dedicate a series explaining in details to us how to actually generate that money. I took the life purpose course and honestly, if you're clueless about the topic of mastery and such things, then it can provide a lot of value. However i have prior to taking the life purpose course, read the book mastery of robert greene and i didn't found much new information in the course compared to that book. And the thing after both of these, the book of robert greene, and leo's course, i still hasn't figured out how to convert skill or passion into cash. For most of us we would be judged on whether we're failures or successes in life based on money, not spiritual enlightenment or wisdom. Because of this lack of money situation, i am still a virgin at 22 years old. Even though i applied the insights in Leo's series on how to get laid. It just wasn't enough. I did 2500 approaches, and still didn't got laid because of lack of money. Especially if you're starting in a third world country what you need to quit is money.

Got the number of a girl who was with her car at the gas station almost too easily this night. Lesson: for some it's hell, for others it's too easy. To show you how easy this can be, i made out with 10 girls in a night at the club a while back. Yeah it can really be effortless and too easy, way too easy. It's just like with money, some starve, others burn money to light their cigars, or their fireplace. Yeah this is the world we live in. It's too good, if you're on the good side.

@Leo Gura Yes i get it, thanks for the clarifications. And don't get me wrong, your work is tremendously beneficial and life transforming. I was just pointing out some traps and lack of completeness in it. But i guess it was never meant to be that way anyways, because life is infinite. And so one should take responsibility for his own success.

The salaries for a job at McDonalds in lebanon are like 500$. In the us it's 2000$. A night out at the club will cost roughly the same in both countries around 100 dollars. No wonder there's sexual frustration.

@Leo Gura What do you think ?