PurpleTree

not for no fappers it aint

no we're still children maybe once we grow up we could do it the way it looks now is the opposite though, yes some things might get decriminalized but more and more surveillance like china

Is it better to have sex with a high level prostitute than no sex at all? Imo yes it is Is it better to have sex with an interesting escort than with a woman who doesn't interest you physically and mentally, maybe even lying to said woman and acting very interested just to get a nut off? Not sure about that, in some ways yes in some ways no. Probably yes Is it better to have sex in a loving relationship than with a high level escort? Yes imo absolutely

i was also not good at this but i went back to a school as an adult like 3 yrs ago and now i was ok-ish with it. depending on the day sometimes good sometimes horrible

what about you and the same question but with mdma or alcohol?

ok probably not because crack is trash

whatever obviously for me it's not a yes no

depends who to sell it to adults who can decide for themselves maybe i know a guy and a chick who smokes crack sometimes, the guy still goes to work everyday etc.

why not, many of those women could go work in an office or a factory at a store, nurse, cleaning etc., they'd get much less money though i'm not talking about sex trade people forced into prostitution here obviously only voluntarily higher class prostitutes

anyone read siddharta the guy basically searched for enlightenment and stayed with a prostitute for yrs or decades

i'd say most of capitalism is like legalized slavery it's also not fun for a guy to work 45 yrs at a factory or something and then still barely get by when tax time comes and i'm not sure i get your point of growing hatred, why do you mean that?

toss a coin

never heard of him so glad i'm not in the loop

then that could be a bit of a saviour complex on your side

womens are avoiding this topic like the plague

Yea it can turn into a bad habit easily. Especially i was doing it a lot when i was drunk. So even now when i get drunk i often get the urge to go there. But i've also gone totally sober often also to Tantrikas and things along those lines which can be interesting experiences. I wonder what the women on this forum think about men going to prostitutes because i don't think i've ever talked about that with a woman. Once the topic of prostitution came up in a convo and my buddies gf was like "eeeeewwww why would anybody do that" but i didn't want to get into a discussion about social anxiety etc.

i've been going there too often it's legal and because of social anxiety and at times i've had money to burn had some not so great experiences and also quite some really good experiences

it's not good nor bad, you see how it makes you personally feel for me it's mostly not good, makes me jittery and anxious and doesn't feel good in my gut, although sometimes it helps with fatigue i drink earl grey and cacao often though

oh yea i'm also scared of commitment but i generally find decisions very hard, even for an ice cream if there are 100 options or for a job i find it extremely hard and once you're committed in a relationship it's more easily to get hurt, like if you think that's your "true" love and then she cheats on you or something or takes you to court

i'm not interested nor attracted to men, thanks pal

and you're bald j/k yea i'm probably my own worst enemy, also my best friend though

The thing is if you're sensitive and more on the socially anxious side you don't generate too many opportunities if you're not a rock star, actor etc. Great opportunities become more important. So then the danger is to get needy when the opportunities arrive which is a vicious circle.

you're right but two of those were great women, really high caliber imo not just looks wise that's why i can't forget those and they basically approached me but then the universe said was like nah buddy you're not ready for that

yea thanks dude, i'm always trying to improve i also look people gently in the eyes i also get the feeling that quite some women are interested in me the way they look at me, even though i'm not tall and my face is not extremely symmetrical but 99.9999% i just can't get myself to approach, blocked by social anxiety and fear that my ego might get rejected/destroyed/hurt also a very sensitive guy

certainly hope so, although i'm getting older and time goes fast i'm leo's age need to go out more again to have more opportunities but this pandemic is a bummer in terms of going out and stuff