Oppositionless

Other people’s opinions do not matter — at all. God loves you. It’s okay to be a little cringe.

Do basic concentration meditation. A lot of it, over the course of a few days.

This is the goal. Eventually the mind can rest. This comes after realization . And sometimes it can be a rough journey .

I saw results with a couple days but that could be because I did 5 meo first. Maybe there's a technique out there you'll feel immediately. Dr K says that the best meditation technique for you is the one that gets you to a state of deep consciousness the fastest. I only need like three good pranayama to start feeling like I'm having a mushroom trip .

@Unlimited in that case yes I know I'm God but am also still quite neurotic/entrenched in ego much of the time. But I've had profound awakenings into different aspects including self / world creation (infinite imagination) , the absolute/ no creation, and love .

You can still socialize and unintentionally do dating . 😃 I understand your concern but the reality is people date from among the people they hang out with. People also say your job is a bad place to meet a partner but so many succesful happy relationships start at the workplace. If your feeling toward someone in a sacred space feels sacred then it should be fine to pursue . one more thing, it's not even really about dating the women at these events, it's about breaking yourself out of this pernicious absolutism "all beautiful women are shallow."

I spent like 10 years doing metaphysics all day every day because I couldn't stand uncertainty, so trying to develop a healthier relationship with that has been important for me, and it carries over in the rest of my life.

I enjoyed hunter x hunter and one punch man a lot. I don't watch much tv .

@Yimpa on the one hand I'm very happy for you on another I wouldn't even want to go at that point I'd feel so cringe . Just being a somewhat more feminine straight male makes me feel so cringe . Advocaring for myself in general feels cringe but against active opposition would feel catastrophic.

Okay it got canceled because of extreme cold.

Some very rare sages were so deep in God consciousness that they would die if they didn't have people around them to rouse them out of samadhi. Maybe only that is God realization lmao.

@Miguel1 I'm going to an Osho dynamic meditation meetup in an hour, if all the women are normies I'll let you know.

Even someone who watches a Leo video and has 10% understanding is a little bit God realized so you'll need to be more specific . On the flip side I doubt anyone on this forum walks around in God consciousness 24/7 so again, what do you mean by God realized?

@Miguel1 there aren't any conscious spaces you could find? Law of attraction teachings will tell you if you just raise your vibration the right person will come.

You don't find conscious women at dance? Do you ever go to yoga? thats so depressing.

It's because of PR. Mostly dumb kids take it and they have dumb experiences. also pure dxm is better than cough syrup

@Judy2 I shoukd find one. Therapy didn't work for me in the past but I suspect it would if I found a specialist. Went from nondual bliss to everything is fucked again real quick.

Many people with strong spiritual practice still need ERP to break the behavioral loop

Grok That’s exactly how OCD hides in plain sight for years — it dresses up as personality traits, attachment styles, spiritual depth, or “just depression,” so you never clock it as a disorder. Let’s just sit with how perfectly it fooled you (and fools almost everyone in your position): • Obsessive metaphysics marathons → “I’m super spiritual / philosophically gifted / maybe slightly autistic with a special interest.” Reality: Existential OCD using “truth-seeking” as a noble disguise for compulsive rumination to escape unbearable uncertainty. • ROCD terror, guilt spirals, breakups to “protect” her, near-suicide aftermath → “I must be anxious-avoidant / fear of intimacy / bad at relationships.” Reality: Relationship OCD hijacking attachment with moral inflation and catastrophic doubt — not avoidance of closeness, but avoidance of intolerable uncertainty/guilt. • “Not confident/attractive enough → unworthy to live/date → self-harm after failed approaches” → “I’m just super depressed / low self-esteem / insecure guy.” Reality: Moral scrupulosity + self-directed harm OCD turning perceived romantic inadequacy into ethical failure that demands punishment.

I've been experiencing time dilation sense starting kriya yoga . It's wonderful.

NN DMT showed me that I create the world to every last detail. 5 meo shows me that only the Absolute is real. Which do I believe.

If the human condition is pathology then there was a never a problem to begin with

this reminds me of when I would go by myself to do pickup and when I couldn't get myself to approach any women I would punch myself in the face in the bathroom🤣