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Yeah bro; for sure! It's a we versus them dynamic that creates. The thing is however that most girls doesn't seem to be able to do this for some reason and I simply wonder why. I understand, that woman have it super super fucking hard whensome player firat leaves them or someone just uses them for sex. I get it ( atleast logicially) but from my experience girls can't do this as well as men can understand girls problems. I encourge you to try look for it yourself and draw your own conclusions. Maybe I am wrong but I think a lot of guys have the same experience. Again, I am not saying it is wrong, weird or even that it shouldn't be like that. I just find it super facinting that they struggle to see the struggles that a lot, and I mean a lot, of guys struggle with. (:

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My intuition is telling me; porn and masturbation creates more suffering and is not something that goes well, with spirituality. This, because it sets us in a low state of consciousness. However... we often talk about balance in personal development, and a lot of people say that you could and sometimes would benefit do it in moderation. This mindset was the reason that I myself relapsed - I thought I could do it, just moderately... without porn. But Guess what, the map is not the territory. If I do it once - it opens up the door to do it twice, and to do it with porn. Self deception baby.. My question is therefor, is it better to just stop doing it all together or find a way to strongly strongly limit it? Is moderate masturbation something that one should strive for or completly avoid if you seek truth and higher conciousness? @Leo Gura

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Hey, what's up everyone! I was wondering if any of you guys have some recommendations for some high quality online recorses for daiting, sexuality and female attraction that you have used and or can reccomend. ( including high quality YouTube channels about daiting/ sexuality, courses, workshops ect) I already have Leo's book list and I will start to read the books about relationships, really soon. That said, I also want to find more high quality material that can supplement the books that I am going to read. I want to tackle this via a holistic approach - and really master daiting and female attraction once it for all. I would love your suggestions and thoughts on this -thanks for your help! P.s If you know some great books, reccomend them aswell. Give me all you got ((; @Leo Gura

Lmao psychadelic porn. Now I understand what Leo means by high quality porn hahahah

@Karmadhi Awsome - thanks for the tips bro, I appreciate it!?

Wow, thanks for this man! You're awesome!??

Why the facepalm Leo? It would be much better to explain where I'm wrong so that me and all the other people can learn and grow from my inaccuracies (: Maybe self deception is the wrong word, but in a sense it's kinda true. Your subconcious mind litterly thinks you're getting laid - when you're not. Can porn be of higher conciousness? I struggle to see it ( maybe beause I am decived + confirmation bias, idk.. If so, do you have examples/ any recommendations where I could find it high conciousness porn ((; lmao All love

I really don't think so, but maybe! Porn is always low conciosness. You're tricking yourself that you have sex. Self deception...

Thanks bro! Will look into it

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This is a super classic problem. There is not something wrong with you - you're just seeking pleasure and comfort, because that's what the ego likes to do. That's also where the resistance comes from - you feel like you HAVE to do X, instead of wanting to do X. You need to find a balance where you work on your goals consistantly, while at the same time not burning yourself out. This means that you need to find and be strategic with planning and executing, and do more research into your problem - cause the problem is deep. You're probably really hard on yourself for not following through on your goals, contemplate why that is, and try self compassion aswell. If you have a lot of freedom, you risk suffering from your freedom. Find a way to set up some daylie goals/ habits that's worth your time - now that you have to opportunity. Don't be a perfectionist though - you will slack of, but make a plan that you can stick too and stick to it. ( + investigate this subject for yourself more - this is self deception in eccense, aka your ego's preferences. You need to know more about the enemy, aslo known as yourself)

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I have a strong insecure ego ( if I look at myself objectively) and I really crave a girlfriend. I feel a lot of inner stress for my future, and I am as of today more aware than ever of how neurotic I am. I am so broken, ( but broken in the sense that I see my own ego and the stories it creates) I know that the only thing that is going to fullfill me is to learn to live in the present moment and become more concious. I know that because I meditate 40 min every single day and I am super interested in spirituality... but I am still soooo neurotic, anxious and terrified in so many ways. I want to become peaceful... I want to become blissful and fulfilled... I deeply seek spiritual enlightenment and understanding .... But I am at the same time so scared that my ego wont be able to handle it - that I am not ready. I have so many attachments still... How does one know he or she is ready for let say hardcore krya yoga? Am I ready, and if no, what should I do instead? @Leo Gura P.s I'm 19 btw

Wise Words. You understand what I mean though, my ego has so many attachments and is needy

@Tim R lmao??

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Amazing reply!? Thank you Leo. Your work has been life transforming for me.

I would say It depends on the parent lol. Sometimes kids needs to learn to make their own mistake so if the parent is self actualizing and wise he would inform the kid about the pros and cons to eating candy, and than depending on if it's Saturday or not, allow the kid to get Candy lol Moreover, this kid wouldn't probably want candy cause it's not programmed from the parent to eat candy. I think I understand what you're saying though lmao

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@Meta-Man Super mature and helpfull answer. Thanks a ton man! ??

@Thestarguitarist14 I have noticed that ?. Girls are crazy at noticing stuff, it's facinating. Thanks for the schematic tappin, I will definitely try it!

https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/karmic-relationship Read this article if you're interested. I meet my " Twinflame" last year but then she got a boyfriend. Same situation - I thought she would come back. We had crazy connection and synchronize. We could just look into eachothera eyes for minutes while being silent and communicate without talking. When you're in love ( especially karmatic in love) you decive yourself - that's what I did. Read the article and draw your own conclusions. Maybe she is, Idk but maybe she is not. Be open to both possibilities!

I don't know if you still stuggle with this but I went thourgh the same thing at pretty much the same time ( like 2 months ago). I know how it feels... the mirror soul, your reflektion choosing someone else. It feels like all hope is gone cause the one person who was meant for you don't love you. Here is the thing though, she is most likely not your twin flame ( if that even exsist). She is a karmic relationship. Your Ego is familiar with her energies from a past life. ( if that's what you want to belive atleast). Here is the solution; you need to take back your worth. SHE WON'T FULLFILL YOU. She is not your savior or your second half. You need to find someone who loves you, and if she don't love you for you, then she is garbage either way. Than she is not worth your time. Cut her out from your life ( I know you don't want too, but you need to take back your control). You have your life to live, don't sell it to someone who don't see the value in you. You got this man!