SamC

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  1. @Preety_IndiaNah, the best move is to read your journals
  2. The counteruntuituve move is to aks the opposite question
  3. What about natural hierarchys regarding men and woman. I mean.. woman are more intuitive than men on average and have a biological drive to take care of kids. Maybe, that's why they also dominate in childcare for example, because they like it more because of how they are biologically Wired. Do you study/ research/ work with this stuff personally? You seem to know a lot of stuff. Lol yeah of course in that way, but in another way the wiring of " truth" has to be linked to some sort of benefit in order for it to exist and survive the natural selection. There has to be some sort of purpose for it. Also people with enmeshment trauma tends to want to discover the truth and introspect because they are afraid to be wrong ( fail) and to hurt other people by projecting ignorance, which many enmeshed trauma folks have experienced themselves when interacted with narrsists. They understand that no one likes narcissists and they are therefor afraid to be that becuase they are afraid to not belong ( yet still terrified of losing it's sense of identity) Yes yeah, there are a lot of fun stuff to learn? INFP @integral
  4. @integral What are some of the intuitive blindspots in regards to finding truth? Of course there must be some, but what are those? Also, where do you pegg yourself on the Mbti scale?
  5. Yeah, and what is that reward system linked to? What more effects does this thing create if the whole system is trying to get to truth. If that's the evolutionary strategy, what does the body do to get to a place where this is the body seeks? ( high openness, introversion, neuroticism ect)
  6. @integral Yeah of course, I see myself as higher than those who are not at stage yellow. The challenge here is to accept that and not avoid it becuase that's even more fear and ego. Also, Interesting addition to the Donnur Krüger effect. Maybe that's another reason besides the donning Kruger effect.Everyone believes they are genius but only becusse they don't see where they suck, hence they are only a genius on that thing.
  7. Unsual question coming. Do you think this journey aided your awakening and enlightenment journey in some way?@Gili Trawangan
  8. @intotheblackYeah but you're a woman. therefor you are not aware of the subtle nuance and gold becuase you're not looking for it. You only see it as a mechanical way to approach something as precious as a relationship. You look at it from a female perspective. The message is that if you want something, you must go and get it. That's what girls want and that's why many guys don't get action with girls ( including myself lol). The guys who struggle don't assert what they want, they don't fight for what they want, because they don't believe they can get what they want/ deserve to get what they want. That's the core problem. The guys who struggle don't authentically Express what they want. And that's also the moral of his story. Go out and assert yourself and get what you want. Be recorseful, don't let anything stop you.
  9. This post is getting no love from anyone and I'm super surprised, cause I believe it was brilliant. It's fascinating to observe the replies. May I ask however, How long did it take for you to get laid when you started pick up? @Gili Trawangan
  10. @intotheblack I think it also depends a lot on the culture. In Sweden I would say many even expect to pay for themselves because of the gender roles debate + the culture that you keep yourself In your own lane.
  11. The point is that he is not selling himself out to get the girl. Many guys do the opposite because they want to win the girl's heart. He doesn't buy them a drink becuase he needs to, he does it sometimes because he wants to.
  12. @Origins I don't need to make a case, I'll just bribe the boogey man with a cookie so that he will let them ideas be
  13. For sure. The question is why some people are interested in it and why some are not though. Personality has to have one part of that equation. @Origins Yeah but it seems like there is a link between personality and awareness. The personality profile expresses the level of conciousness and awareness that one have. Take Donald Trump for example, will he ever become tourquise with that personality? No, he will not. Becuase his personality hinders him from ever being a sage or even reaching spiral dynamics stage green conciousness for that matter.
  14. @Surfingthewave Love this, thanks for the share. You're inspiring!
  15. What do you say Leo? @Leo Gura
  16. I've also been very careful with this before but now I've started again because I was afraid to get an ego boost becuase I was afraid of being selfish. Being Afraid of being selfish is not selfless That's selfishness. Maybe. I believe this can be connected to past lifes though aswell. I don't know this, just speculating so I might be wrong. @RendHeaven Sean with his super cool swag pussy destroyer emojis? I'm glad that you someday will help me learn how to smash the piano as seductively as you seduce the whaman.?
  17. Of course but I mean philosophers who contemplate and introspection deeply about life. People can be interested in subjects and truth relative to a subject. The question is not that, the question is where does this thirst for knowledgeable for the sake of knowledgeable come from. I think it depends on the person a lot. Someone can be super interested in understanding but at the same time super scared of what understanding gives you and hence therefor not be interested in understanding the truth becuase the ego won't allow it. ( only the relative truth that serves the ego and that fits the ego's narrative) Becuase they are either A introverted B depressed or C both combined
  18. @mmKay I'm hyper intuitive in fact and I know what it is. Many times I ask questions that I already know to see if I missed something and to understand it deeper. When I googled around a bit, an explanatation of intuition came up that made a lot of sense to me. " intuition is the ability the ability to make an immediate perception or make an immediate assessment with conciousness without having access to all facts"
  19. Can Donald Trump's personality be at stage tourquise? I get what you mean though but I really believe there are some personality traits that makes people interested in philosophy and systems thinking for example. Of course all people can and will move up, but the question is... why are we here? The rest of society is not here and yet we are drawn to Leo's content. A lot of people who value this material is already here.. the question is why that is and what makes us so interested in it. What do you think?
  20. Yeah, like the enegram type 5. The thing is however that it almost seems like there are atleast two types of intellectuals/ philosophers. The intuive intellectual and the intuitive rational intellectual. One could say that the INTP is more of a rational intuitive intellectual compared to an INFP but I don't think that's necessarily means that the INTP is the philosopher personality archetype.. ( acutualized.org lover) My hypothesis is that the question has to to with intuitive introversion, yes - but also maybe to some extent ( maybe, big maybe) with if the person has a judging or prospecting function. I think there are more INXP that are here than INXJ, but that's of course less of a factor.
  21. What's the difference between intuition and logic though? Where does intuition come from do you think? @Leo Gura Also wouldn't being an introverted rational in some way prohibit the intuitive side? Does people who are infX tend to have higher intuition?