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I think you need to do more research into the problems men face with attracting woman. It's very easy to come up with a perfect solution for the opposite gender and to a problem you never faced yourself.

Wait so they should be mad at the patriarchy for sending weak men to war? How the hell does this solve their problem If anything - by that logic Incels should want them to send men to war becuase not sending them to war "creates" the problem of too many men ( if that's the problem narrative one wants to play) Is there something I am missing? Also, side note. It's very easy to say " be more social and all your daiting problems will be solved" Hell no they won't. That's like saying to a person suffering from a eating disorder to more and all your problems will go away. The problem is not, not being social per say. The problem is low self esteem, anxiety and depression.

You forgot rule number 1. Never listen to woman what they are attracted too/ how to attract them. This means that the statistics is not accurate either. Figure out what's true from direct experience.

The natural lifestyles

I remember Leo saying in a thread that personality is different from the ego and that we therefor could benefit from knowing our personality type. ( which implies that we all have one even if we are enlightend). Soo... what do you think sadhgurus personality is ( mbti, enegram, the big five ect) ? Did it change after his enlightenment? Is his personality fluid? Can he be whatever personality type he wants... how do you define a personality type of an enlightened being? ( I mean he doesn't even sleep lmao) Furthermore, what the fuck is the personality then if it's not the ego? Is it the higher self? ( I mean the thing that does not change). There are so many questions yet so few answers. I'm looking forward too hear your thoughts on the matter! (:

Thoughts about this approach?

That's a cool perspective because they talk about connecting to their true masculinity and inner aggression. Does green talk about that? The NTL is pretty stage green in general though so this could of be a reflection of that aswell!

Have you tested your IQ? Mind sharing? @ToaTokuchi

This is the most interesting thing I've read in a while! @RendHeaven Thoughts? Does this mean woman can understand men if they take LSD? XDXDXD

I want to learn more about the female perspective. Girls often talk about intimacy and how that is what girls seek.( almost like guy's sexual needs). What does intimacy mean? What does being intimate in a relationship entail? I am starting to realize that females don't actually want an asshole mean guy becuase those wont provide her real safety and intimacy. How is that notion ( safty) being connected to intimacy? Would love your gals perspective on this. @Preety_India @Emerald @Hulia @Etherial Cat

No worries. Hope you'll feel better soon!

@Lucas-fgm I feel you bro but regardless if they can't understand that or not, we as men can seek to understand them. See they may or may not underdstand men's struggles, we can't control that. Woman don't want an asshole, but they are attracted to them, just like men don't want a hot 10 psychopath girlfriend eventhough we might be attracted to her because she is hot. There is something core attractive in a asshole guy that makes them attractive to females but that doesn't mean that they want them. Ideally they want a feminine bad boy, like Damino in Måneskin that makes them feel safe. They want men who have integrated both sides!

@soos_mite_ah Thanks! This actually helps a ton i think. If I ever wonder something about what you wrote or your take I might shoot you some questions. You of course get to decide if you want to answer them or not. It can be hard to understand the female perspective, especially becuase females to men often are clouded by the sexual desire of girls which of course makes girls feel missunderstood and not seen as a person. I'm trying to trancend that so I appreciate all the insights I can get!

Thank you! Furturmore I sometimes hear you make an anecdote that females desire masculine containment, almost like that the masculine is a shell for the femine to exsist in. How is this related to intimacy and female sexuality? @Emerald

Go for it!

Yeah a lot. I call this I am above that/ over that bias XDXD

Agreed! (: This is all I wanted. Thank you. It felt like you thought that I wanted to preach and not help you/ wanted to hurt you. This makes me feel understood!

Oh you mean it like that. I thought the meems where for shit and giggles XDXD. I am sorry if that's your experience, it's not what I am trying to do. I am trying to help you but it's very hard to help you when you don't want to listen and instead say that I am preaching when I give you my perspective and what I genuinely belive would help you. You don't have to consider it as true or helpful but realize I am not trying to preach to you - I am trying to help you, and if someone would do that to me, I would be thankful, for whatever I got, eventhough it might not be helpful. You're the one asking for help here and then when you get help you put your head in the sand and say that the other person's advice sucks and is preaching.

I'm the one to the right XDXD

@mememe It's all jokes my manXDXD don't take my playfulness the wrong way. Lots of love towards you! Have a nice day

@mememe At least I don't have a meme in my name you must be a very reactive shallow person!XDXD

@mememe Then Leo is the head master of selfishness

1: Stop with the ruler techniques, I tried to help you. 2: You need to go full circle

@Preety_India Notice how what you're trying to do, is the same thing as when a man who is a "nice guy" tries to swing the pendulum to the other side and become a mean selfish asshole. You shouldn't try to be selfish, you should try to be more selfless and loving. You need to work to be more selfless with a capital S. Your selflessness right now is not selflessness, its selfishness. Raise your awareness, your self love and work on healing and parts work. That's counterintuitively how you will learn to set firmer boundaries and prioritize yourself more than others. You need to go full circle! Right now you're prioritizing others becuase you're selfish and insecure + feel like you need to do that in order to get love. Notice that!

Lmao