Realms of Wonder

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  1. What is the least toxic, highest quality liquid I can dissolve DMT crystals into for vaping?
  2. Thanks for pointing me in that direction. My original question is really biased. Based only on what I had heard from others, I assumed that vaping with E-Juice was the only other option. A Higher quality question would have been. What is the most effective way to smoke/vape NN-DMT Also shows my lack of research. Oof.
  3. I have a VaporGenie, which definitely works, but it’s difficult for me to dose it correctly. wanted to try different methods to find one that works best for me. Thank you
  4. With your first point, I agree with you, I am still learning to see the differences in peoples psychology, instead of just mirrors of my self, thank you for drawing my attention to that. Case to case, it will be different, for me, vs anyone else. Similarities? possibly. Differences as well? probably. Another good point. I didn't intent to come across as accusatory as I did. Thanks for responding with such class
  5. man oh man, I am still learning to question. One of my favorites right now is "What is the difference between authentic desire and inauthentic desire? I don't know, maybe, maybe not, could be a lot of factors. As far as conversations not lasting long, its also possible that others are just not as interested into the topic being broached I am not an authority to say whether or not your questions are good or bad, I don't know every question you have ever asked. Maybe besides this thread? No.
  6. That's amazing, sounds overwhelming for a 12 year old. You still a musician?
  7. I definitely get where you are coming from, and I agree, ultimately there is nothing wrong with masturbating or porn. To some, myself included, its similar to.. (for example) telling an alcoholic, there's nothing wrong with drinking once in a while. Or to a heroin addict, there's nothing wrong with doing heroin once in a while. Don't get me wrong.. Heroin and Drinking are on a different level, but the structure is similar. to some, Porn and Masturbation is a serious problem, and being let off the hook from someone they look up to, may actually do more harm then good. This is a great point. Introspection is especially effective in healing this.
  8. Hey brother, I've been there, from the ages 14-21, daily, sometimes multiple times a day, I would watch porn and masturbate. It became a coping mechanism for me. I was so unhappy, with so little purpose in my life, I didn't know what I wanted, what I liked or didn't like, and I was playing the victim ALL the time. that lead to a waterfall of negative emotions that I did my best to avoid. Porn and masturbation = instant pleasure. its like a drug. and I was using it to escape the life I had created for myself. It wasn't till after I was introduced to personal development and psychedelics that the idea of quitting, or at least minimizing my habit become a possibility. (I was 20 then) so I tried to quit, hundreds of times, and failed, hundreds of times. here are the top reasons I failed so many times. 1. I repressed my sexual urges instead of processing them. 2. I labeled Porn, Masturbation, Orgasm, as "bad" as things to avoid, as things to demonize. 3. I was thinking about "Stopping PMO" instead of focusing on what I wanted in life, so basically I was thinking about it all the time, and what we focus on, grows.) 4. I determined the success of my healing by the amount of days I had gone without porn or masturbation. 5. I didn't fill the space, time, and energy, left over from quitting. 6. Not journaling about WHY I relapsed/Not learning from Relapse. 7. Resisting Boners and natural sexual urges. 8. I didn't do proper research to understand this problem theoretically. By realizing WHY you want to quit, seeing HOW it will positively effect your life to heal this and move on, as well as the negative consequences of not quitting, and doing research into WHAT to do on a day to day basis, you can self-analyze, and figure out what works for you. I have seen a lot of people on this forum demonize quitting masturbating and porn, but if you intuit that it is important for you to heal it, don't let anyone stop you. You know better than anyone else what you need to do to heal yourself. And speaking from personal experience, it can radically change your life. Not so much will quitting porn and masturbation magically "Fix" everything, instead, you begin to face the things you have been avoiding by stroking your flesh rocket, repressed emotions, trauma, anything you have been running away from, as well as freeing up your mind to focus on creating the life you desire. I am 24, Porn and masturbation is not a problem any more, I don't feel any serious desire to watch porn or masturbate to escape, and when I do feel the urge, its okay, I don't take it very seriously, I allow myself to feel it. It is possible, and its amazing to live life without being as controlled by my dick. Here are some of the top resources that helped me. once again. DO NOT BLINDLY BELEIVE ANYTHING IN THESE VIDEOS OR THAT I SAID HERE. Experiment. Find what works FOR YOU. 1. This whole series (sexual self-mastery) is gold, not all of it fit me, but a lot of it helped. 2. This channel can be helpful (be careful, he has a lot of wisdom, but just... be careful) Stay strong. You've got this
  9. That’s a great question, I’ve often wondered the same. Why do you thinkpeace is easier to find in nature?
  10. Ask higher quality questions.
  11. What is your favorite part about X, and what is your least favorite part? What was the best part of your week? if you had to choose between three eyes, or three ears, which would you choose? If you could wake up in any place in the world tomorrow morning, where would you choose to be? If they are talking about something you find interesting: how did you get started with X?
  12. To Live Authentically, to be true to my self, remain vigilant against the desire to fit in, or seek approval from others, to choose Love of authenticity, over fear of rejection and being abandoned.
  13. Thank you so much, I am in the process of building my understanding of Music, so that I can create actual spiritual music, so this could be a help. Happy listening
  14. Fascinating! What kind of music is most effective for you?
  15. What was the experience that was triggered?
  16. What?? Not me... Maybe you are, but I am perfect, no self deception or bias, because I am right, you are completely wrong, end of story...
  17. Thanks for sharing, glad you have found what works for you!
  18. Have you ever done No-Fap or Semen Retention? Once again, have YOU ever done it? Linking studies doesn't prove anything.
  19. I could be wrong but it really sounds like you have identified your "self" with a belief about solipsism. Be careful
  20. I really resonate with those, thanks for sharing!