mimi

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  1. @Ethan1 Thank you for kind reply! That book seems like it could be helpful
  2. @Nahm Thank you for taking the time to reply. Currently it is impossible for me to be financially independent, and I have tried many things. I dont hate living at home and i am actually happy that I have that privilege in a way. I just wish I knew how to fight for my rights, or adapt to the situation. My father is an aggressive man and im afraid things will go south very easily. He might even get physical as crazy as it sounds... I feel like I have to pick between having any sort of social life such as having a relationship or friends, and not causing drama in the house. I appreciate your reply!
  3. Hello everyone, and thank you for reading. I am a 20 year old university student. Since my university is in my hometown, I still have to live with my parents. My mother is a pretty understanding woman, some might call her "liberal", but my father is a different story. A man who is very unsatisfied with his life and is trying to control everyone and force his own opinions on me and my mother. It is very frustrating having to hide my true self and pretty much live a double life. He is restricting me in different ways: he wont allow me to go out, to date, dress the way I want and mind you I dont drink, smoke or party. I simply desire to go for a walk with a friend at 9pm. The way he sees a women - as stupid, weak and easily manipulated creatures that need to be controlled is really starting to take a toll on me; my social life and mental health which is already bad. My biggest problem is that I am currently in a very happy long term relationship and I want to travel and stay with my boyfriend for longer periods of time. Since my boyfriend lives in another place, he can only come visit me sometimes, so we want to make the most out of every second we spend together. I feel horrible having to deny hangouts with him, especially since he is trying his best to keep the relationship going, because of my father. My boyfriend doesnt want to keep trying and investing all his time and effort into this relationship when we cant even spend few days at the time together, and I dont blame him for it. He is super sweet and patient, but that wont last forever. How can i deal with my father for another 3 years - until i graduate and im able to move out? Also, I am trying to show him how responsible I am: I am a decent student, I hang out with nice people, help around the house all the time, I barely even ask my parents for money. Thank you in advance.