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For spiritual reasons of course

And people would pay you 1M on top of that to be a part of VIP exclusive group that eats in expensive restaurants and travels the world

@Jannes Is she into you? If yes, it would be immoral to sleep with her. She has emotions attached to you and you will break her feelings. I once got asked if I wanted to be f buddies with one guy, and I actually liked the guy, and I said no at first. But then he kept sending me messages and I eventually agreed to do it (I was under love spell) but he was wise enough and declined sleeping with me when the moment has come, even though he wanted to do it. He knew I was in love with him and he knew I would be heartbroken after that. Other guy who asked for casual sex said he didn't want to be in a relationship. But then later on I found out he was in a relationship with a girl. I felt hurt because it seemed like he viewed me as "a girl only for sex" and that other girl as "a girl for serious relationship". Thankfully nothing happened but it could have been be so bad.

This.

Hahah, I mean... He's not bad. ? But I couldn't do long distance.

What's up with Adeptus? Why is he obsessed with Leo? All I see is him wanting to demonize one person and it's like his whole purpose on his youtube channel and now this article is to demonize someone else. Personally when I see something I don't like, most of the time I just move on and find something/someone that is in alignment with my values/beliefs... Why doesn't he focus on how he can improve himself and not be this bitter person who keeps hating and tarnishing someone else's reputation?

I think girls don't approach because it is said in a society that "a man should take the lead". Just my guess. Though I would approach if I find someone very very good looking, which doesn't happen often. But I would for sure be hesitant... Is that you on your pfp? ?

@Vivaldo Did you just make a post to brag? ? Joking... Well, yeah, girls would wait for guys to take the lead. It's attractive when a guy knows what he wants (especially good looking guy, like you) and goes after that. It is how it is. Girls approaching is rare thing. I approached once and the guy I went out with for a drink didn't seem too engaging afterwards (or even during a "date", because he didn't ask me any questions back) and when I told my friend group, they all got surprised that I was the one who approached and that "he should have at least be more thankful because it rarely happens". But oh well. I guess I wouldn't be too enthusiastic to do that again (that doesn't mean I won't ever do it again). Mainly because I think a guy should do it. I can only help him by giving him hints.

I have come across a topic of Comfort zone. I was watching a video where someone was suggesting that comfort zone is dangerous place to stay in, ironically (I guess it's counter-intuitive, aka paradox of life). I was evaluating whether my feelings towards this organization are a result of me "avoiding to leave my comfort zone" or because I found this all uninteresting and a waste of time. My main goal of joining this organization was to challenge myself and leave my comfort zone. The conclusion I have extracted is that I frankly did not learn anything new for these 4 months. I find it boring (the stuff we do), and I actually would waste sometimes a big portion of my day during their "sessions", not learning anything new or valuable. I don't feel improvement in any way. Yes, we have that promotion (maybe they won't do it anymore) that is uncomfortable for everyone to do, but franky... I have similar presentations to do in my own college (in front of everyone). And I challenged myself in that sense multiple times. I would say I am not as nervyas I was before to present in front of everyone. I just need to know my material and it's all good. Also I have noticed how disorganized this whole thing is. I mean, yes, they are students... But we need to set an example (or they, in this case). They would often tell us to do assignments today for tomorrow. And that's very unprofessional and kinda rude because we have other things to do too. So that's another thing that kinda disappoints me...

I don't know, I notice this current situation in the world fills me up with negative energy, anger, bitterness, hate, sadness, resentment... I don't want to be like this. But at the same time it's so easy to be. "The descent into hell is easy." (lat. "Facilis descensus averno.") This quote can be applied rn. ✅ I want to have this addictive, positive, bright energy around me. Like I used to be. But also even better than that. I don't want to be angry. I don't. ✅ Also I want to be content with myself internally and externally. I want to have strong fondation. I want people to see in my eyes that I hold no grudges.

In first one it says : "A massive bombing attack opens the door to peace" In the second one it says: "How Putin shattered Europe's dreams"

@Blackhawk Yes everyone is wrong, you are only right.

True true, throw women in trash once they turn 30 ?

Then why did you say that you agreed with that NATO intervention? Do you know that in 1999 NATO bombed hospitals, killed children and apartment buildings in which ORDINARY people live? And of course you have an opinion based on story told by your friends. If I were to tell you my part of the story, you would hold different beliefs than ones you do now.

Are you for real? You agree with civilians being killed? Ordinary people who didn't want any war?

Wait, so you are justifying the bombing of innocent serbian people who have nothing to do with war and were just living their normal everyday lives, just like you are living one today?

Can't you devide "women" from this particular older lady who asked you to dance? Everyone wants the best they can get. Both men and women. So don't blame them for it. That being said, noone is forcing you to dance with older ladies. If it makes you uncomfortable/doesn't bring you joy, then by all means decline. In my opinion they should dance with someone their own age or within they age range. Otherwise it's just weird. But though, are they very old or just a few years older than you?

Not you personally, was talking more generally. I just take issue when burglar tells people how wrong it is to break into someone's house.

Of course. I'm just pointing out NATO's hypocrisy. Because they also bombed innocent civilians not long ago. Just like Russia is doing right now. Both cases are NOT acceptable, so stop defending just one side. NATO has bloody hands as well. They have no credibility to condemn anyone.

+1 I don't know why some close minded people, unwilling to look at things in a more holistic way, are on this Self-development forum.

My argument is... So what? It's not okay to bomb civilians in Europe, nor in Asia, not anywhere. You seem to not have empathy for people who live in "undeveloped" countries. Why, those people hold less value?

Do you justify NATO's bombing of innocent civilians of Syria, Libya, Yugoslavia? (Even though it was illegal aka against international law). Or it's okay when NATO does it?

I'm really disappointed when I see people demonizing someone's actions without trying to understand. You would benefit greatly if you just took a few minutes to understand why someone is acting some way. Then it would make sense. But your obvious self bias blocks you from opening up your mind. You like to demonize, it's easier. I thought this forum gathers people with an open mind and holistic approach than what's portrayed here.

Pretty much zero these days. Which freaking sucks. I actually just once had a situation where I was talking to multiple people. But I wouldn't do it again because like you said, I want to focus on those that *really* interest me, instead of "kind of". I happened to forget that I went on a date with one guy too. That was kinda awkward. I rarely come across someone who sparks interest in me anyway, so I'm sure I won't have that problem...

Interesting. So stupid people constantly cause harm to others and to themselves. I'm glad (for my own personal reasons) that it is said in a video that eloquency, level of education, gender etc has nothing to do with how intelligent someone is. Someone can be eloquent in their speech, but actually stupid. It kinda helped to know that. I would also not agree that someone is constantly one thing. Maybe they have one dominant side, but it's unlikely that anything in this world would be "always".