K Ghoul

Oh yes My most romantic date was in the cemetery at night us sitting at the tomb holding hands gazing into dark sky watching stars… the guy looked like the prince of darkness… good times… Unfortunately, this is not what’s happening here and I am mystified as to why many are refusing to accept the sad reality - that she just needed a new coat

You suggesting that she may have been hinting on him covering her with his coat to stop her from shivering on a cold starry night so they could then stand close feeling each other’s warmth holding hands lovingly staring into each others eyes?

unless you were being rude or a creep she would not ban you if she liked you like you said she did. I insist that she was looking for a sugar daddy and having realized that you are not it she decided to waste no more of her time on you and move on to the greener pastures.

Which only confirms that she was in it for a coat. Glad this parasite is out of your life!

@StarStruck Did you get her the coat yet? If you decided you want to get her the coat today is a good time to do it - it’s Valentine’s Day

@Preety_India I wasn’t ever consciously thinking or even being aware of any underlying dynamics when I was in my early 20s, doesn’t mean that the dynamics weren’t there I just wasn’t paying attention. There is always an intention and a manifestation of that intention that translates into how a person acts, what they do and what they say, most often not even being consciously aware of what and why they’re doing it. @Eph75 it’s their second date I think, isn’t it to soon for the language of love? What love, they just met

@Preety_India if she is innocent in terms of she’s not fishing for a new coat then she’s immature beyond belief- dating is about having fun and getting to know each other, and look the guy is already on edge asking people for help to decipher her behavior

@Preety_India Idk she could be just dumb/immature, talking about coat issues with the guy she just met.. it’s weird, to say the least. The whole thing just doesn’t make sense

@Average Investor I once offered to pay for a man-we were having drinks- he looked at me like I was crazy. I can’t imagine buying him actual stuff/gifts he would probably have me killed, to him to accept anything monetary from a woman was like an insult. Was it something like that for you, too? Why did you not like her spending money on you?

I see, thank you. Yea I wasn’t sure, been a long time.

Wasn’t it limited to Australia only and one would have to get it shipped from over there to their country?

I like to keep things vague when I don’t know what the situation is exactly- if she’s trying to use him or not if he confirms/determines that she’s after his wallet, the he should definitely proceed by signaling that he’s expecting sexual favors in return

just buying you random stuff? Hopefully, it was somewhat useful to you. I hate getting random shit that I don’t need in my life, especially “souvenirs” that I later will have to get rid of anyway- I like empty spaces, uncluttered

@Michal__ nymphomania, I suppose. Children will have nymphomania too, that’s what will happen

Why don’t you get her a coat from some thrift shop they’re probably under $20 there. Not having a coat to wear is like tier homeless, if things are that bad in her life she would certainly appreciate any coat even if it’s from a thrift store. If she won’t appreciate it then you have your answer.

You can signal her also indirectly in a covert way that financial favors are best returned with sexual favors.

Very techy. I liked it

@Knowledge Hoarder I’m not the only one now, check this: @Federico del pueblo I certainly hope so!

i hate them x D

Uh no. I’m asserting a communication protocol

Sure. But going forward please make an effort to construct your sentence in a more intelligible manner so that we can avoid running into unnecessary simple-logic problems.

A specification like “girl=long-term girlfriend” would have been required then in your original text for me to be able to interpret your message correctly.

@Preety_India oh, was that like a house party? Ummmm idk I wouldn’t be able to fall asleep knowing that there are some drunk men wondering around downstairs but I’m glad you enjoyed it and nothing bad happened

I don’t go to clubs - zero interest in music that they play there or people that go there, you’d have to pay me to attend those venues. The parties that I’d go to are underground warehouse type stuff and even though I wouldn’t say I’m constantly scanning the environment for potential threats like a paranoid maniac, my senses do get activated pretty rapidly if I register even a slight sign of danger.