Lauro Chapa

@Leo Gura What's the source of the information you used here? https://www.actualized.org/insights/afghan-underdevelopment

amazing, you are showing us sexual tension in action!

I think sexual tension is about playing with desire. It's about holding the other's desire. Showing them what they want, but don't giving it right away. Playing with the idea that the desire may not be satisfied. All of this happens in a space of alert, excitement, and anticipation of what could happen, but is not certain. Sexual tension is the fun exploration of desire, it's the process of a satisfaction based on waiting and not knowing.

What do you think the biggest moral dilemma is on this?

I have aphantasia, that means I cannot imagine, I literally can't be conscious of mental images. What can I do instead of mansturbate using imagination?

I love table tennis, I will be a master of this sport some day

good question. Physical attraction could be necessary, but not enough tho

Ah, yes. But we humans are not attracted only to the forms, right? What is the non-material aspect of attraction all about?

Thanks for the recommendation. The heart of the contemplation is Sexual Tension, what is it about, and what does it take to feel it with another person. Focus on that one. The other questions are just secondary. I'm going to contemplate about it and share my insights later. @Lyubov @Sincerity I love your answers about mystery and the allure of the unknown btw. @Hojo What do you mean when you use the word "geometry"?

Let's start a collective contemplation about the essence and dynamics that define Sexual Tension and Sexual Attraction between the masculine and the femenine. Other correlative questions: What is sexual tension all about? What is sexual attraction all about? What is the role of the masculine and the femenine in the sexual domain? What is the difference between friendship's trust, romantic connection and sexual attraction/passion? In a relationship, why is the case you can have some without the others? How to generate sexual tension with a woman as a man? What does it take to produce "the sexual spark" in a woman? How to generate sexual tension with a man as a woman? What does it take to make a man crazy for a woman?

Contemplate deeply about your fear of vulneravility and past unresolved trauma. Contemplate for multiple hours: "Why do I feel this way?". Oh, and go to therapy, it helps you a lot in your introspection process.

I get your frustration. Something similar happened to me, but in my case we even had sex twice, so it kinda hurts even more, I was more attached and excited about her. Later she told me that she didn't have a real sexual attraction towards me. I don't have a lot of sexual experience, so I suppose she noticed that when we had sex, and she didn't like it. I don't think it's about romantic connection, we had that, the problem is all about lack of sexual tension and attraction. I'm just not good enough yet in this context to generate that specific feeling. You just have to not take it personal and keep trying with more women and accumulate more experience. Oh, and of course, grow as a man and focus more in your life purpose than in dating.

I like these ones: hoe_math . https://www.youtube.com/@hoe_math HealthyGamerGG . https://www.youtube.com/c/HealthyGamerGG Actualized.org . https://www.youtube.com/ActualizedOrg DIEGO DREYFUS . https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvpHJfsx8itotRe1o2kaYEw Brendan Graham Dempsey . https://www.youtube.com/@BrendanGrahamDempsey/featured Coach Kyle . https://www.youtube.com/@Kyle_Froonjian

@Leo Gura Did you become conscious of your own Infinite Violence?