Jacob Morres

Funny because you derailed my thread with your gender wars

honestly from a man's side, i could honestly say the same thing but with strength as a character trait. but i dont take it too seriously + i cant do anything about it so i dont blame anyone

https://instagram.com/raydalio?igshid=7byd0hfztfvq Great insights on success, personal development, and on life Very healthy orange/green

Shame is effective in the short-term because it can cause behavior change. Someone shames, the other person feels bad and changes behavior because of it. But the long-term cost can be diminished self-worth and create a shadow for the one on the receiving end of the shaming. And to the one shaming, that person may feel guilt for damaging that persons self-esteem. Both parties also experience a lack of intimacy, and possibly integrity loss for the action of shame. Also another issue, is that shame sometimes does not even cause behavior change, and only includes the negative consequences of it (shame) Another issue is that sometimes, the proper philosophical understanding that is trying to be communicated is not properly received by the receiver of the shame. AKA, the lesson is never learnt, even if the behavior is changed due to the shame. The shamed is not wiser from the interaction.

what is it that you would like to do with that time?

you might like the book creative visualization by shakti gowain

nahm you truly inspire me thank you

Same boat. I would like to have enormous self love, + confidence. Like I want to be confident but simtaneously I don't want to give up myself and my values.

Game sense in overwatch to me currently means, given all the variables what decision you make. and the quality of your decisions, increases the quality of your rank When translated to IRL , the transition creates THIS: game sense in real life is fucking systems thinking . given all the variables given, the quality of your decisions dictate the quality of your effectiveness + results in life

me too

interesting coffee for me is an amazing stimulant. i feel energized happy and more conscious

If you feel yourself stuck or lost, return to the present moment and listen <3

so like you're supposed to like walk out when someone doesn't value your feelings , or emotional well-being (i did and I am so proud of myself)

The more information you know, and the more you understand yourself, the better decisions you can make #gamesense

@Spence94 thanks for sharing this, it is extremely inspiring

https://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2015/06/22/stop-forgetting/#:~:text=Recognition vs.-,Recall,they're talking to you.

i think because it has to do with the openness to different paths

by itself hedonism as a strategy is a lie. the mind deceives you into thinking sex, food, money, achievement will make you happy. happiness does not come from that alone. great question which leads me to a corollary question, what is happiness really?

What is it? Why do u guys want it? Is it necessary?

i think the better question is, is it right for you rather than if it is right objectively it is very hard for me to tell you if sports is right for you or not because it is incredibly subjective depending on you and your life situation.. for me - playing esports was unoptimal but at the same time i learnt many lessons and it was fulfilling in many ways.

yep this pretty much. to add my observation is that it doesn't necessarily doesnt have to be from childhood it can be a recent trauma as well

I may just buy bottle water then?

an updated video on the principles of mastery would be so juicy

@Thought Art ya on it right now lmao