Jacob Morres

Life mastery seems to be the highest pursuit

Dime con quién andas, y te diré quién eres Tell me who your friends are and I'll tell you who you are - Spanish proverb

It's probably your shadow. There's a shadow work book on leos booklist , and it talks about one technique to find your shadow aspect is to look at things that - 'annoy' you - things that you judge Then you can integrate it

If you go to a big school in usa ull find tons of small spiritual communities

one pov is that when you approach a girl you rejected the ones next to her or before her ? So you've done your rejecting already by picking a certain girl And the way girls reject is they pick from those that approach Just interesting when phrased like this

A think a value is just something that is very important to you? For example when I'm misaligned to my value of equality , it makes me feel really bad, like this is not who I want to be nor the impact I want to have on the world So I guess a value is just a manifestation of what you feel is most important Value = important

Great post New pillar of game. Insults: - bitch - hoe - fatty - hippo - weird nose lookin ahh Any other suggestions, please post thank you.

Damn such a beautiful thread. This is like infinite intelligence at play

@Princess Arabia I feel like asking for consent is important bc like every girl is diff and some need it. I'd hate to misread a nonsign and it ended up being a lack of consent yk

You can try meetup.com, there will be tons of groups like that I know someone that went to a couple diff meetups and found a friend group eventually

Tate is a psychopath Honestly be careful bc if you think tate is not a very dangerous/bad guy then you could get manipulated by a tate-like person in person as well Be conscious of what are red flags in people, and assess people by them

Productivity insights p3; we fall to the level of our systems - james clear I only think about making 3 good decisions a day - Jeff bozos = - come up optimal morning routine - come up with optimal morning journalling structure = No fucking way I deleted my fucking p1 productivity notes. I'm Kms ... By memory... big goals is just the small in aggregate - sam altman A project is just a ton of subtasks - tiago forte

cold approach is great but #1? Donno

Very interesting thanks for sharing

Honestly i think this is the main thing about preferences in general. Even when if a girl prefers 6ft etc. When you hit a girl in the emotions, those logical checklists fly out the window

Pending questions: 1. What are the fundamentals of a good life?

@Carl-Richard I see yeah, i could def see a distinction where you are meditating and you are not actually playing bc your main focus is on something like spirituality/meditation. But there's definietely a way to improve your endeavor with mindfulness, it's actually like really well (scientifically) studied. More focus, flow, clarity, presence. It's great stuff honestly -> https://chat.openai.com/share/a4e8ca61-7243-4cd9-94d2-9af4678744aa

Definietely There are men who are into connection, emotions, love and all that. Men who like older women, personality more, don't care about looks. If you look you'll see it's common af. A lot of them. It's more about discernment for the guys you are looking for Also make sure to differentiate between words a man says versus their personality. There's a difference between a guy who says he's X (maybe like emotionally available), and a guy that IS X (in this case emotionally available). So learning to discern here can help.. So in the case of emotionally available, you can see if he holds space, is empathetic, can listen to your emotions etc.

@Snader Nah I don't compete I'd had to start way younger. My main choices are basketball and tetris rn. Just been into mastery past few years

@Carl-Richard Before helps a lot but I noticed there was a drop off in my mindfulness if I didnt continue it while doing it. it would continue for a bit but would taper off I find during the most significant but before is also critical

@Carl-Richard flow state is caused when the challenge is just slightly above your current level It's not about high/low skill

@Carl-Richard not for me, practice alone wont help at least in my experience, bc the better i got, the better the opponent so the challenge is always there Tho it is true because my anxiety would be gone for the weaker opponents

@Snader opposite happens for me. My main intention is focus so when i do mindfulness practices my focus actually increases I'm using focus as my intent and using mindfulness as a background boost. Idk if that makes sense I'm using mindfulness with labeling which has concentration baked into it so maybe this why Tho I've had a friend I brought this upto and he does vipassana. He said he doesn't do meditation when playing bc he loses focus. Idk if he's doing it wrong tho

u might be able to apply the practice to the compulsive "practice" I think This has happened to me before, using a practice as a reactive compulsion. But the compulsive one not even a practice , i later realized, i was doing it in like an ocd compulsive way

https://thehorizonsun.com/features/2020/12/18/the-swedish-prison-system/ America could use Sweden prison system. Sweden apparently treats prisoners as people with psychological needs and prisons as rehabilitation centers They also apparently have the lowest prisoner re-enter rate In America, prison employees usually say the phrase "you'll be back" to the prisoners. It's a known trope which speaks to how poorly they are run