Jacob Morres

Also maybe see how they respond when you tell them an issue. Do they hold space? Do they care about your well being? Do they validate your feelings? Also seeing if they're able to meet your wants and needs seems important to me. So getting clear on that and seeing if they can fulfill that. For example if someone has a need for intimacy, and the partner isn't meeting you there, it may be beneficial to see how important it is for you. Some people say to list your non negotiables before entering a relationship. Things that are important or you walk Also getting clear on the other persons intentions and seeing if their actions match those words helps. If they don't, it's important to set strong boundaries and be willing to walk away. Feel and think abundance. Like if they say they are into a relationship with you but you catch them on Tinder, strong boundaries are important

@IAmReallyImportant lol all good

I employed the sacrifice all for LP mentality. Ofc that's not the reigning mentality here I think but you need to be careful, strategic and intelligent when making decisions.

@Preety_India intuition

na they dont hate you in fact green loves you. at least in theory should right? they support men who are more "feminine" i guess. but wouldnt say women find it attractive. but they support out of love and breaking gender norms i think it has to do with your inner child and healing rather than women i empathize with you though. i can think like that at times. it's a tough place if a woman actually despised you for being literally wounded and a suffering person (doormat type) i think that tells you more about them than you. and they're self-selecting themselves by not having empathy and some humanity for you. also it's weird especially since many women themselves have this issue (doormat type)

@Shin appreciate the effort to create positive constructive discourse. Very admirable

How far can you get with it? And if you had to compare it with an intimate relationship , can it compare?

my thoughts arent so deep on the topic but it seems unfair to have double standards. as long as she's loyal now idrc

yeah for sure. some good marketing and people skills can help you tremendously finding audience/customers, meeting people's needs, (being ethical,), advertisements, being different (some/none/other combination of these) etc. i dont know this space particularly but i know business generally and onlyfans is very lucractive personally i recommend to study the space a bit, see common tactics and then find a strategy you feel could work and then iterate if it doesn't onlyfans does have a subtle rep of taking adv of its customers so if i had to insert my own 2c. id look into the ethics of marketing and stuff, it could hinder success a bit if you take a hardcore approach with that

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Wishing happiness and prosperity

i def get brain fog. i jerk off everyday but when i dont im more clear, happy and ambitious

Dr.K hype open-minded, empathetic G

letting go is actually letting be. it's a weird thing. when you try to get rid of a thing it increases suffering. but when you let it be, thats when the suffering goes

@flowboy I'm curious how you came to the conclusion of moving out? Was this strong enough to beget that in ur opinion?

Shouldn't this question be about empathy not ethics? If you have appropriate empathy, it would tell you that this action is probably not good to engage in. It seems to be a lack of emotional awareness/intelligence to engage in that behavior (for whatever reason. Lack of development, pain, suffering, some form of unconsciousness) Edit: but on second thought, ethics is the right topic. Empathy informs ethics

lol i had all 3 of his exact fucking arguments when i was younger lol. hyper scientifically minded nothing would have convinced me otherwise. it took very extraneous conditions for that to be dismantled Bias is strong not saying that your dad's bias is/was and desire to argue/be right are strong as mine were though. now diet being tied with health conditions is now coming into science. that is definietely refutable with science

Lots of bickering and conflicts here. Not a fan tbhh What if we could come together and talk it out. I think that could solve some issues

isnt being appalled a sign for a shadow aspect though?

hurt people hurt people

@knakoo i think its not virgins but not celibate

This. I think people need to reread his initial Q This is a massive issue societally for many men Men need help here Im not talking about creating unethical systems as a response to the issue. I mean more awareness, support and solutions

Kinks are related to suppressed trauma

maybe but at the bare minimum schools needs to teach social skills, confidence skills and at least some relational skills with women

@Harlen Kelly I'm not talking about absolute sense , I'm talking about relative.. my impression of what you said was that certain characteristics are bad and "less" The way I see it currently is they don't make you less for having those traits, as they are wounds that we inherited So my preferred way of integration is through love and acceptance of those negative traits and seeing its humanity As opposed to demonizing certain traits in favor of other traits. Because this can lead to self-hate, denial and shadow aspects I agree there are negative consequences to certain behaviors, but theres a distinction when you judge those parts. I may be missing something tho and apologies if I came off too ranty