Jacob Morres

na don't be. if i had to guess, you just have a very self-honest personality.

@flowboy julien is similar. They employ a ton of manipulative sales tactics and their rationalization is that they're trying to help you. So they put you in a really low state and then get you to buy I remember on stage julien and Tyler would shame the audience like you guys will never be successful, where do you guys think you're going consider where you're at and then a ton of fear based tactics. Then they'll sell their program at the end like a saving grace to your issues. But it can be damaging for low self esteem issues cuz it can really install disempowering beliefs At the end they asked for a show of hands of who is interested in this products and I remember this one dude shot his hand up and the look on his face was like devastating. Like he was really negatively impacted by it. I was like Jesus Christ they're really getting to some people Manipulation is crazy. That being said, julien also introduced me to David R Hawkins letting go so I'm grateful for that

i think what youre looking for is emotionally intelligent + mature people green value set might be what you're looking for but it's not a complete enough thingie

id recommend finding highly experienced programmers in good positions and asking them questions. i say this because i have friends who work in silicon valley and their understanding of the coding world is immense.

shit people do for content lmao.

Yeah part of his popularity is because of his blue talking points. No way would he have his success in India without that image

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Not all green is gentle and caring Hasanabi for example is a good example. Green politically Or like people that care about the environment/animals and will shame you for it if it misaligns with their values Then again Noones perfect.

@Leo Gura it's a little too bold lmao

Part of you might be doing something that's keeping the relationship alive. Maybe you can't let go yet?

first shot sore arm, 2nd shot fever for a day and a half. worst thing tho is i had to take off my shirt in front of like 50 ppl cuz my sleeve didnt roll up LOL

i think if you become okay with those demons and find healthy ways to manage them that will be helpful and then find new motivations that you find useful and will help you. i suspect there will be a time period where you will lose your edge for a bit while you are reconstructing

this is true I think this requires a higher level of communication this is forum wide

I think eckhart can create some spiritual bypassing. Sometimes presence is not enough. Action needs to be made. Like the top comment in that video is "the problem exists only in your mind, accept her limitations" Oh hell no. I will use mindfulness but I aint letting no toxic mom on my shit. Fuck that lmao

@Leo Gura I think instead of fake it until you make it you can also real it until it becomes fully manifested

@Being Frank Yang hi frank

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Step one could be a clearish picture on the type of people you'd Like to meet

i actually agree with not derailing the thread so i apologize to OP for taking part of the derailing of it - i usually dont do that but i apologize to OP. @Preety_India you play way too much victim

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1521758802 Curt uploaded it here if some of you can't wait

They're just followed societies predetermined path for them. It's not conscious or wise - it's conditioning lol You also don't know their background and stuff and what that quality of decision was. For all you know it was a very unoptimal decision Anyways, I found 'the work' by Byron Katie to be helpful. It helps questions the thoughts that arise and see the delusions of them And then you can choose better ways of thinking once u breakdown old patterns

Lmao you should follow your own advices but no that is wrong of course lol. you can see if there blatant racism/mysigony/misandry on the forum, (which you personally are aware of happens) even if it isn't directed towards you, generally it shouldn't be allowed on the forum and it is toxic masculinity btw. men get called pussies, weak, shamed etc. for behaving a certain way or have certain emotions

I found Tara Brach to be a good resource https://youtube.com/c/TaraBrach-meditation Tons of stuff on emotional mastery. Loving kindness, self esteem, self compassion, vipassana, emotional healing She has a book called radical acceptance which I found to be very helpful and also insightful

Last thing I want to say is that if the forum stands against slut shaming (including you) Why wouldn't we stand against toxic masculinity? I find it weird

@something_else in a situation that requries violence and self defense obviously isnt toxic masculinity, its good masculinity - but you should still shy away from violence whenever possible but people who are violent are usually emotionally unstable, and I mean depends on what kind of street fight, if it's just two insecure guys swinging their arms at each other driven by their fragile egos that is not masculine at all lmao, especially if it was a fight for a girl. but yeah, unless when it is necessary ofc. a man is not a pussy in most cases for not being violent. and i would be careful calling him a pussy even if he didnt fight - just a tad rude lol. idk why i have to even explain this