Jacob Morres

i think a vision is a tool to help you get things you desire personal development is tricky in the sense that some things are right for us and some aren't yet so if you feel a vision would be useful to you , that would be right for your life if not, then other tools would be necessary

Yeah theres a few chapters on this in Letting go by david r hawkins. Dude was enlightened too if that helps

nothing wrong it of course. some men will not be okay with it but many will be. we all have diff needs i guess

For philosophical purposes it does feel similar to replace sex with commitment haha "Only in woman land is sex a scary thing that needs to be withheld by the girl until she gets commitment. And that’s because most girls are coming from a place where they felt like they were taken advantage of. They tried having sex up front, but that didn’t get them commitment. So they overcompensate." Both people are coping I think

Hm do you feel you're getting whatever you need resolved , resolved?

It's not spiral dynamics, it's like orange/green spread out over several colors His definition of green is orange and turquoise + coral is like orange/green

@Manusia also got advocate primary.

Muscle tissue is critical to a human's survival and it cannot survive with it. It is quite impossible to imagine a human without its tissues, and the underlying cells that make up the tissue etc. So like this, is a human as critical to the human species? To me the former, is so intense, but the latter, i take a more libertarian approach where i feel independence is more possible. Is a human deeply interwoven into the human species, in a similar fashion? Weird question ik excuse me lol

Christ Homie made that without reading the book...

holy shit this looks amazing thank you you could have used a better title!!

he posted a video about i think? reproduction is an illusion or something

happy to see the support and not attacking for once

Literally no arguments just a bunch of appeals to authority Great post ?

I think the first step to healing is self acceptance. To allow forgiveness, compassion and acceptance. From there you can make steps

https://www.amazon.com/Perfectionism-Workbook-Strategies-Procrastination-Yourself-ebook/dp/B07FHL11Q3 i liked this one because it covers several styles of perfectionism. it manifests differently and my unique manifestation was niche so it was nice

@Karmadhi the Faking stuff comes off a bit off. Good confidence is not Faking

I've noticed this as well and had similar questions. It felt whatever I watched , I was molded by. And also even, the people I hung with. They have a strong influence on you I also believe through my own art of creation and focus, these external factors have less of an impact on me. But they still will, even when I am consciously creating I definietely think that the inputs matter a lot. As well as the things you visualize, say to yourself, the people you are with, the content you consume I can also relate to boring affirmations. I find theory to be much more inspiring and "real" But yeah I think theory can have a profound impact on you as well. But affirmations can be very specifically tailored. (You can design your own affirmations). You can design theory too by cherry picking the right theory for you . I've done this a couple times, I would clip parts of videos that I really enjoyed and then listened them on repeat 1-2x a day. That molds you a fuckton lol You can also write them out ot print them out and reread them in the morning Or read specific pages in a book consistently on a regular basis Making it very easy/enjoyable to consume helps as well.

very beautiful thanks for sharing that. ive experienced similar things with my therapist so i can 100% relate. not every therapist though is like this. ive had some kind of rude therapists in the past

@itachi uchiha yessirrr. thats what actually got me to read it. but yeah just a suggestion because i felt we were experiencing a similar problem

i found this book you might like -> its about managing hurt feelings and building agency https://www.amazon.ca/Triggers-Stop-Reacting-Start-Healing/dp/1611807654/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=triggers+david+richo&qid=1631294763&sr=8-1 something special i liked in it is that it validates the hurt person but also gives them agency. if ur having trouble with toxic people this could help you explore those feelings and stand up for yourself

na don't be. if i had to guess, you just have a very self-honest personality.

@flowboy julien is similar. They employ a ton of manipulative sales tactics and their rationalization is that they're trying to help you. So they put you in a really low state and then get you to buy I remember on stage julien and Tyler would shame the audience like you guys will never be successful, where do you guys think you're going consider where you're at and then a ton of fear based tactics. Then they'll sell their program at the end like a saving grace to your issues. But it can be damaging for low self esteem issues cuz it can really install disempowering beliefs At the end they asked for a show of hands of who is interested in this products and I remember this one dude shot his hand up and the look on his face was like devastating. Like he was really negatively impacted by it. I was like Jesus Christ they're really getting to some people Manipulation is crazy. That being said, julien also introduced me to David R Hawkins letting go so I'm grateful for that

i think what youre looking for is emotionally intelligent + mature people green value set might be what you're looking for but it's not a complete enough thingie

id recommend finding highly experienced programmers in good positions and asking them questions. i say this because i have friends who work in silicon valley and their understanding of the coding world is immense.

shit people do for content lmao.